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For all of you heads who still believe in the myth of the nice guy getting laid here's something for your thick heads to think about:
http://vibesconnect.com/badboys.html
Why do women like bad boys ?
By: Jigga Two
VibesConnect Correspondent
If you listen to women talk, you would believe that they wantmen who are sensitive and caring. However, in reality, most young women under the age of 30 tend to snub the shy guys and nuke the nerds. They often go for the Lexus-driving, baby-mother-dodging Don Juans who either break their heart or their face - whichever comes first.
Some men are increasingly frustrated by the kind of roles they are forced to play to attract young women.
Women always say they want sensitive guys who listen, but I think this is bull. Maybe older women want sensitive guys, but the young girls are different. When I tried to be sensitive, girls dissed me, but when I pretend to be a girl`s man by dressing flashy, being confident and talking the talk, young women are breaking down my door, Garfield Robinson, a computer technician, said.
Evolutionary behaviour dictates that males must compete for access to females of child-bearing age by competing with each other physically for resources necessary to mate, and for the sexual attention of females. Second, a male`s reproductive success depends on how many females he mates with, and not vice versa. To be less than an alpha male is to commit `Darwinian suicide`, hence the sensitive man image won`t necessarily attract young, nubile women of child-bearing age. Society reinforces this sort of primitive hardwiring developed over several eons in the human genetic code. For instance, in the recent play, Oliver and the Genie, the female lead character is attracted to the most dangerous character in the play, a rebellious slave,`Takku`, instead of a cowardly man who is madly in love with her.
"Women are attracted to power in any form it comes in - business, sports. They are drawn to aggressive men, you can forget all the modern day talk about tentative men because in many ways, the aggressive male, the alpha male is the one who always gets to mate. That is hardwired into
our genetic code, said Kingston psychologist Dr.Leachim Semaj.
Men know that the `women-need-a-sensitive-man`thinking is just feminist drivel. Experience says different.
"The young girls don`t want no sensitive guy. They want to be with a man who can be like a father figure in their lives, and one that their girlfriends will admire because of his good looks, his car, his bank book or his clothes. It`s just the name of the game, one young man said.
The `bad-boy` image
The belief that girls like bad boys may be a self-fulfilling prophecy, often repeated by both sexes.
The girls-go-for-bad-boys theory has its roots in high school where popularity and attention is gained by virtue of who a girl is seeing rather than her own merit. A lot of teenage girls gain attention and notoriety by going out with the most popular boy in high school who, at times, is the most aggressive, powerful guy - the alpha male.
I disagree with that theory. I don`t think women like dangerous men. Women are attracted to men who compensate for things they need. The kind of woman who is attracted to power is the kind who had no such thing in her life before, and feels empowered to be with a powerful man, psychologist Jillian Stephens said.
Further, psychologists say men have a deadly fear of sensitivity because they associate it with homosexuality. Their fears are borne out like comments like this from 25-year-old secretary Judith McCloud.
"I like romantic, sensitive men - but not too sensitive, she said. I don`t want any funny guy. You have be a real M-A-N. I sometimes find myself drawn to rough, very masculine men, too. They may have a few faults, and we think `oh, I`ll change him once we`re together`, but uh-uh, that doesn`t work, trust me, honey, I know. Those sort of men don`t change short of an act of God."
http://vibesconnect.com/badboys.html
Why do women like bad boys ?
By: Jigga Two
VibesConnect Correspondent
If you listen to women talk, you would believe that they wantmen who are sensitive and caring. However, in reality, most young women under the age of 30 tend to snub the shy guys and nuke the nerds. They often go for the Lexus-driving, baby-mother-dodging Don Juans who either break their heart or their face - whichever comes first.
Some men are increasingly frustrated by the kind of roles they are forced to play to attract young women.
Women always say they want sensitive guys who listen, but I think this is bull. Maybe older women want sensitive guys, but the young girls are different. When I tried to be sensitive, girls dissed me, but when I pretend to be a girl`s man by dressing flashy, being confident and talking the talk, young women are breaking down my door, Garfield Robinson, a computer technician, said.
Evolutionary behaviour dictates that males must compete for access to females of child-bearing age by competing with each other physically for resources necessary to mate, and for the sexual attention of females. Second, a male`s reproductive success depends on how many females he mates with, and not vice versa. To be less than an alpha male is to commit `Darwinian suicide`, hence the sensitive man image won`t necessarily attract young, nubile women of child-bearing age. Society reinforces this sort of primitive hardwiring developed over several eons in the human genetic code. For instance, in the recent play, Oliver and the Genie, the female lead character is attracted to the most dangerous character in the play, a rebellious slave,`Takku`, instead of a cowardly man who is madly in love with her.
"Women are attracted to power in any form it comes in - business, sports. They are drawn to aggressive men, you can forget all the modern day talk about tentative men because in many ways, the aggressive male, the alpha male is the one who always gets to mate. That is hardwired into
our genetic code, said Kingston psychologist Dr.Leachim Semaj.
Men know that the `women-need-a-sensitive-man`thinking is just feminist drivel. Experience says different.
"The young girls don`t want no sensitive guy. They want to be with a man who can be like a father figure in their lives, and one that their girlfriends will admire because of his good looks, his car, his bank book or his clothes. It`s just the name of the game, one young man said.
The `bad-boy` image
The belief that girls like bad boys may be a self-fulfilling prophecy, often repeated by both sexes.
The girls-go-for-bad-boys theory has its roots in high school where popularity and attention is gained by virtue of who a girl is seeing rather than her own merit. A lot of teenage girls gain attention and notoriety by going out with the most popular boy in high school who, at times, is the most aggressive, powerful guy - the alpha male.
I disagree with that theory. I don`t think women like dangerous men. Women are attracted to men who compensate for things they need. The kind of woman who is attracted to power is the kind who had no such thing in her life before, and feels empowered to be with a powerful man, psychologist Jillian Stephens said.
Further, psychologists say men have a deadly fear of sensitivity because they associate it with homosexuality. Their fears are borne out like comments like this from 25-year-old secretary Judith McCloud.
"I like romantic, sensitive men - but not too sensitive, she said. I don`t want any funny guy. You have be a real M-A-N. I sometimes find myself drawn to rough, very masculine men, too. They may have a few faults, and we think `oh, I`ll change him once we`re together`, but uh-uh, that doesn`t work, trust me, honey, I know. Those sort of men don`t change short of an act of God."
