Alright most importantly guys, throughout this post remember this. I will never bull**** you, i will never try and save your ego any grief. If you want to be a DJ, you must be above your peers conciously. Remember that i did not say in intelligence, there are hundreds of thousands of people smarter than i, maybe millions!, but yet because of what ive learned i will be happier and more succesful in life than them. Also remember, when i say DJ, i really mean my definition of DJ, there is no definition of DJ, but my definition has served me very well and will serve you well too.
Ok, always remember this, people lie, people lie to you every day about everything and nothing. Trust nothing unless you see it first hand. Treat everything objectively, even your friends. Everyone has their own agenda, the only people you can REALLY trust are people whose agendas do not conflict with yours. Or a really REALLY good friend(most likely only a friend that has been on the sosuave site and believes in honor).
(remember most)Most of your friends will ****block you secretly if a girl likes you that they want. They will lie to you about what theyre doing tonight if they dont want you there for any reason. Most of your friends will follow their own agendas, jsut like everyone else, even if youre in the way.
My suggestion is get a few extremely good friends and show them the site. But always remember this, you do not know anyone until you see a true test of their character.
(for clarity)
Personality- What you show to other people
Character- What you do when no one will find out and no one is watching.
Power corrupts and Absolute power corrupts absolutely. IM not sure who said that originally but my history teacher used to say it all the time. Give someone power and you will see their character. If they use it for the good of everyone, then they are a good person, if they use it only to persue their own agenda regardless of anyone else, then that is someone you do not want to be associated with, much less friends.
Same goes for girls btw, no matter how much you "love" her, you dont know sh1t about her unless you have a test of her character.
Alright then, on attraction.
First off, if you look good, youre going to get laid. Period. There is not ONE person on earth who is not subject to attraction based on looks. NOT ONE PERSON. EVERYONE IS SHALLOW,.. PERIOD. I have no sympathy what-so-fu-cking-ever for ugly mofos who ***** that girls only go after good looking guys, or vice versus with girls. Because underneath that bullsh1t, they would do the EXACT same thing if they looked good. Hypocracy is for the weak.
Anyway, that being said. I am, at base, one of those ugly motherf-uckers. If i dont do ****, i look absolutely disgusting. I have in the past actually repulsed myself.
I identifyed that as a problem, SO I FIXED IT. SO can ALL YOU ugly mofos if you want to. I keep my hair cut to exact detail. It was too expensive to go to the hair cutting place, so i learned how to cut my own hair(after many fu-ckupps, but if you dont have a lot of money thats what you have to do). I was FAT, jiggly and disgusting. It was aproblem, so i FIXED it, i researched! I started an exacting regiment, i quit eating SH1T. I used body weight exercises because i had no money to go to a gym or buy weights or workout equipment. Crunches, pushups, anything i could do with a few chairs. (btw situps are sh1t, do crunches, research for techniques).
I started surfing. NOT BECAUSE i was a P-USSY who wanted to be "cool", but because my dad suggested it because i loved the beach and the ocean, and my friend wanted to start too. It got me even more in shape, and it got me a new way to meet friends and do somethign with girls(that wouldnt come for years later tho). And most of all, it gave me PASSION! A passion is something you can just THINK about and be happy! EVERYONE should find their passion or passions. Just remember, POSERs are LOSERS with NO IDENTITY OR PASSION. They are the sh1t of the earth. Do not be a poser, do not dress in clothes because they identify with something that is popular, and dont dress strictly in those clothes even if you do that "something".
Anyway, i had/have terrible acne. And i even get ingrown hairs if i shave. I researched and experimented to combat it, and in large part i beat it. (for thanyone who wants to know, i take atleast 2 showers daily, i never touch my face, i wipe oil off with a soft tissue if i have been 6+ hours without a shower) I do not use soap on my face, i do not pat or rub my face dry after a shower, i DO let girls touch my face but only because that is essential so dont flinch, I only shave above and directly around my lips, for the rest of my face i use my hair clippers without any setting, it cuts it fairly short, but not short enough for the hair to become ingrown, i use St Ives medicated Apricot scrub to clean my face or any other part of me that needs it, and i use cheap tubes of acne medication with benzoly peroxide( neutragena acne med is the best tho, might be in the white/blue and black for men type), i also use a moisturizer every night and morning(the acne med makes my face dry so i need it), I use Aveeno oatmeal stuff, the most important thing is that it has ABSOLUTELY NO OILS in the ingredients, not even "mineral oil". Im experimenting with aloe lotion too right now, but the oils in it seem to be proving harmful in some aspects.
Have yellow teeth? I did, buy whitening toothpaste, the strips too if you can afford them. Anyway, with attraction, you need to look the best you can if you want to come out on top. Get some tweezers, pluck those hairs, i know it hurts, suck it up, im one hairy mofo but i look smooth. Fix those eyebrows, but be careful not to over-do it.
OK thats the looks part.
Ok, always remember this, people lie, people lie to you every day about everything and nothing. Trust nothing unless you see it first hand. Treat everything objectively, even your friends. Everyone has their own agenda, the only people you can REALLY trust are people whose agendas do not conflict with yours. Or a really REALLY good friend(most likely only a friend that has been on the sosuave site and believes in honor).
(remember most)Most of your friends will ****block you secretly if a girl likes you that they want. They will lie to you about what theyre doing tonight if they dont want you there for any reason. Most of your friends will follow their own agendas, jsut like everyone else, even if youre in the way.
My suggestion is get a few extremely good friends and show them the site. But always remember this, you do not know anyone until you see a true test of their character.
(for clarity)
Personality- What you show to other people
Character- What you do when no one will find out and no one is watching.
Power corrupts and Absolute power corrupts absolutely. IM not sure who said that originally but my history teacher used to say it all the time. Give someone power and you will see their character. If they use it for the good of everyone, then they are a good person, if they use it only to persue their own agenda regardless of anyone else, then that is someone you do not want to be associated with, much less friends.
Same goes for girls btw, no matter how much you "love" her, you dont know sh1t about her unless you have a test of her character.
Alright then, on attraction.
First off, if you look good, youre going to get laid. Period. There is not ONE person on earth who is not subject to attraction based on looks. NOT ONE PERSON. EVERYONE IS SHALLOW,.. PERIOD. I have no sympathy what-so-fu-cking-ever for ugly mofos who ***** that girls only go after good looking guys, or vice versus with girls. Because underneath that bullsh1t, they would do the EXACT same thing if they looked good. Hypocracy is for the weak.
Anyway, that being said. I am, at base, one of those ugly motherf-uckers. If i dont do ****, i look absolutely disgusting. I have in the past actually repulsed myself.
I identifyed that as a problem, SO I FIXED IT. SO can ALL YOU ugly mofos if you want to. I keep my hair cut to exact detail. It was too expensive to go to the hair cutting place, so i learned how to cut my own hair(after many fu-ckupps, but if you dont have a lot of money thats what you have to do). I was FAT, jiggly and disgusting. It was aproblem, so i FIXED it, i researched! I started an exacting regiment, i quit eating SH1T. I used body weight exercises because i had no money to go to a gym or buy weights or workout equipment. Crunches, pushups, anything i could do with a few chairs. (btw situps are sh1t, do crunches, research for techniques).
I started surfing. NOT BECAUSE i was a P-USSY who wanted to be "cool", but because my dad suggested it because i loved the beach and the ocean, and my friend wanted to start too. It got me even more in shape, and it got me a new way to meet friends and do somethign with girls(that wouldnt come for years later tho). And most of all, it gave me PASSION! A passion is something you can just THINK about and be happy! EVERYONE should find their passion or passions. Just remember, POSERs are LOSERS with NO IDENTITY OR PASSION. They are the sh1t of the earth. Do not be a poser, do not dress in clothes because they identify with something that is popular, and dont dress strictly in those clothes even if you do that "something".
Anyway, i had/have terrible acne. And i even get ingrown hairs if i shave. I researched and experimented to combat it, and in large part i beat it. (for thanyone who wants to know, i take atleast 2 showers daily, i never touch my face, i wipe oil off with a soft tissue if i have been 6+ hours without a shower) I do not use soap on my face, i do not pat or rub my face dry after a shower, i DO let girls touch my face but only because that is essential so dont flinch, I only shave above and directly around my lips, for the rest of my face i use my hair clippers without any setting, it cuts it fairly short, but not short enough for the hair to become ingrown, i use St Ives medicated Apricot scrub to clean my face or any other part of me that needs it, and i use cheap tubes of acne medication with benzoly peroxide( neutragena acne med is the best tho, might be in the white/blue and black for men type), i also use a moisturizer every night and morning(the acne med makes my face dry so i need it), I use Aveeno oatmeal stuff, the most important thing is that it has ABSOLUTELY NO OILS in the ingredients, not even "mineral oil". Im experimenting with aloe lotion too right now, but the oils in it seem to be proving harmful in some aspects.
Have yellow teeth? I did, buy whitening toothpaste, the strips too if you can afford them. Anyway, with attraction, you need to look the best you can if you want to come out on top. Get some tweezers, pluck those hairs, i know it hurts, suck it up, im one hairy mofo but i look smooth. Fix those eyebrows, but be careful not to over-do it.
OK thats the looks part.
Btw, i dumpster dive too, i DO not advise you to do that, it is legally trespassing and i have been stopped by police on numerous occasions. It is also dangerous and sometimes you dont find anything. But remember when trash day is and go to the rich neighborhoods and look around the day/night b4. 
