One way is to make sure you talk to her in person MOST of the time. Keep phone talk under an hour. Rarely talk on the phone.
She has to see you in person, or she will be 'without' you. If you limit the phone and stop E-mails and limit messages, she will WANT you more. Her interest will rise or stay high. She will wonder where you are and what you are doing.
Another way is to not give her any flowers, cards, or gifts for the first two months. But you must kiss her and show affection at the same time.
This will cause her to wonder about you. You are loving yet buy nothing. Most guys give gifts and flowers. She will be very curious about this. She will think your love is genuine because you are not trying to buy her love.
But the main thing is to tell her nothing about yourself. If she asks a personal question just answer very vaguely. Use one word answers. This is only about YOU. Don't talk like that.
Her: What do you like to do?
You: Lot's of things.
Her: What do you think about girls who wear tight clothes?
You: Sometimes I look. Sometimes I don't.
Then ask her questions back to take the focus off you.
Just don't tell her too much about your personal view point too fast. Have fun for the first two months. IF she is still around in eight weeks then you can tell her more about yourself.
The whole idea is that she should just like to be with you regardless of your opinions. She should like your style, not your feelings in the first two months.
Your feelings are none of her business until she shows she likes your style FIRST.
I always wondered, “Shouldn’t I tell the GOOD things about myself?”
But Anti-Dump, of course, is correct. This is a MACHINE of WEEDING out girls. It is basically like an auction:
“Ladies! A position for POOK WIFE has just been opened!”
Now, I can’t just grab ANY chick to fill in for Pook Wife. She must be the right chick, a POOKISH chick.
So I go about my life and when I a girl catches my eye, the filtering begins. She knows what I want.
They always know. Interested girls will give me their number and go out with me.
Now, on the date, I do not go about telling her about Pook. Even if it is sensationally good. Why? Because
I am the object of focus. I basically interview HER. Sure, you say things back to her in a conversation way.
But you want to know something about women?
They love mystery.
And you know what? They love figuring you out.
They LOVE peeling the layers of yourself, seeing what jewels are inside. Yes, you could tell her your ‘good points’ and her interest level might go up a few.
But…
If she finds the good stuff ON HER OWN then the ‘good points’ go up a quadzillion times.
“But Pook! Whatever do you mean by this?”
Women like to ‘find’ great guys. They love diamonds in the rough. They scrub off that rough exterior to find pure treasure. She is overwhelmed and this is when she usually FALLS IN LOVE WITH YOU. Now compare that to the shiny diamond. Well, the shiny diamond guy is great and all but there is no mystery, no sense of ‘discovery’, the diamond guy is ruining her feminine mission. Thus…
HE BECOMES BORING.
This is why when you are great and know, you let the women find out. They WILL find out.
Think of a really hot guy. Does the really hot guy go around saying, “Hi! I am a really hot guy!” NOOOO. Women HATE guys like that.
Women have a finer eye than we do. They will notice your good points and there’s no need to declare them.
