Señor Fingers
Master Don Juan
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"Mmmm...Sensuality"
Of all the obstacles I have faced along the way, getting physical with women was by far the most difficult. In fact it is a huge sticking point for me, and I still struggle sometimes. I attract a girl, get some awesome rapport with her, sometimes even end up in the same bed with her and then just freeze up, unwilling to make my move. I would often hear a voice in my head trying to push me, "WTF are you waiting for? She's READY!! GO FOR IT!!!!" and I would still not do a damn thing! I was afraid my sexuality would offend her.
Yes, it's true.
How crazy is that? I actually believed that only I wanted sex and she was doing me a favor by "giving it up". I fell prey to one of society's most deceptive myths.
THE PRUDE MYTH
"Women don't like sex. And the ones who do are not women...they are SLUTS!"
Newsflash: Women love to fukk. LOVE ... IT! Probably more than you! Think about it.
Can you have wave after wave of multiple orgasms for hours?
Are you capable of having not one but several distinct types of orgasms?
Do you have an organ designed solely for sexual pleasure that is ten times more sensitive than a penis?
Do you scream and convulse in ecstacy when you climax, begging for more?
Yeah, didn't think so!
So if women are obviously capable of levels of pleasure we can only imagine, then why does getting them into bed often feel like you are breaking into Fort Knox?
The problem is the social stigma they are trying to dodge. Most girls would rather die than be labeled a slut. So they build these little obstacle courses for you to jump their hurdles and shyt. So therein lies our challenge. How do we break through this barrier? Well, let's review
1. Approach - She admires your confidence
2. Charm and Attract - Your playful vibe just brightened her day
3. Pass shyt tests - She is impressed by your persistence and disarming humor
4. Push / Pull Qualifying- She digs your high standards and your sense of mystery.
5. Rapport - She trusts you and there is a connection between yall.
At this point if you don't make your move soon, the window of opportunity will close and you get the dreaded LJBF. Go for the kiss close but also realize that some girls will just flat out refuse to bone within the first 2 or 3 meetings. Patience is a good thing, as long as it is accompanied by persistence! Assuming you have gone through the above phases, it is safe to say that she is interested in you, and there is definitely a connection there, so now what?
This is where the game needs to switch to the other side of your brain. You have to switch gears into Sensual Mode!
The Power of Instinct
Of all the inventions and ideas that the human race has brought to life, there is one thing we have always excelled at....sex! For thousands, if not millions of years, we have been very fruitful and multiplied like roaches. Our DNA is encoded with desire. We all long for the touch, scent, sight, sound and taste of a lover. One of the ways you break the barrier is to tap into this primal essence. Forget you are a civilized person or a minute and project your...
Sexual State
All you have to do is make polite conversation while you let your body communicate messages of desire. The first step is to actually become aroused yourself. When you talk to that HB, imagine all the lurid things that you want to do to her. Let your hottest fantasies go buck wild in your imagination. The beauty of this is that you keep the conversation casual, yet there is this erotic undercurrent that shows in the tone of your voice, eye contact and body language. Women pick up on these cues and will either respond favorably, or not. When faced with a frigid bytch, all you have to do is move on to the next. It's not like you invested any time or emotion into her. All you did was fantasize!
Neutral Conversation
It is great to get all profound sometimes, but when you want to escalate things physically, you don't want her mind to be so engaged that she is too absorbed in the convo to get freaky with you. After you have a nice rapport going, let the conversation lighten up a bit. Talk fluff while you escalate kino and sexual state.
Proximity
Slowly draw her closer to you so that you can soften your voice and touch her more. Don't crane your neck and lean in, try to get your bodies to touch.
Sensual Rapture
When you areup close and personal, get lost in your senses! Really enjoy the pleasure of the slightest touch. Tell her she smells good and close in on her to smell her neck. This drives them wild! The trick is to just let yourself go. Be bold and caress her body to see how she reacts. If it is a bad reaction, pull away and distance yourself until you can warm her up with your words. If it's all good, then escalate!
Triangular Gazing
Maintain eye contact with her while you steal furtive glances at her lips and neck. If you want to test her receptiveness, brush some of her hair away from her face, like a lover would, and if she doesn't flinch or break eye contact, she wants to be kissed! Tilt your head and close in slowly.
Isolation
You can get away with a lot of these moves in public. But they are much more effective when you get her alone. Here are some ways I like to get her back to my place (or her place):
Are You Hungry?
Tell her you are starving and ask if she has any food at her place. If not, then either invite her to yours or to a restaurant within walking distance (less pressure). If she does, then get her to describe what she has in the fridge and qualify her a little, asking if she can cook, and what dishes she could whip up for you. Field tested with great results every time.
Let's Go Over Here!
Simple. Just take her by the hand and lead her to a more private place.Get her worked up and pull away from her as you breathlessly say "My place or yours?" Then shut up, make with the bedroom eyes and let her decide. If she is not 100% ready, tell her it's no problem. Get her worked up even more and turn up the heat before asking again.
I Wanna Show You Something
It doesn't matter what it is, just give her a non-sexual excuse to go to your place. I happen to be a musician so I ask her if she wants to hear some of my original music. Other times I can win them over with my massage skills and promise them a professional massage when they come over. Of course they have to do something to earn the massage, otherwise I look a bit creepy, which is where I make use of...
THE BARTER SYSTEM
One of the biggest mistakes I used to make was I would do girls favors for free. I'd give them massages and expect nothing in return, thinking my good deed was enough to win them over. WRONG! People want to feel they have earned your favors. So don't cheapen your deeds by doing something for nothing! Work out a trade. My favorite move is to tell girls I will teach them how to massage as long as they promise to practice on me. I then give them a 5 minute massage lesson, explaining all my basic moves as I go along. Then they give me a massage and I critique them and show them some advanced moves. (wink, wink) You can trade anything for a favor, just use your imagination and you can come up with plenty of arrangements and excuses to get her back to the pad.
Click the link ^^^ for the Table of Contents.
"Mmmm...Sensuality"
Of all the obstacles I have faced along the way, getting physical with women was by far the most difficult. In fact it is a huge sticking point for me, and I still struggle sometimes. I attract a girl, get some awesome rapport with her, sometimes even end up in the same bed with her and then just freeze up, unwilling to make my move. I would often hear a voice in my head trying to push me, "WTF are you waiting for? She's READY!! GO FOR IT!!!!" and I would still not do a damn thing! I was afraid my sexuality would offend her.
Yes, it's true.
How crazy is that? I actually believed that only I wanted sex and she was doing me a favor by "giving it up". I fell prey to one of society's most deceptive myths.
THE PRUDE MYTH
"Women don't like sex. And the ones who do are not women...they are SLUTS!"
Newsflash: Women love to fukk. LOVE ... IT! Probably more than you! Think about it.
Can you have wave after wave of multiple orgasms for hours?
Are you capable of having not one but several distinct types of orgasms?
Do you have an organ designed solely for sexual pleasure that is ten times more sensitive than a penis?
Do you scream and convulse in ecstacy when you climax, begging for more?
Yeah, didn't think so!
So if women are obviously capable of levels of pleasure we can only imagine, then why does getting them into bed often feel like you are breaking into Fort Knox?
The problem is the social stigma they are trying to dodge. Most girls would rather die than be labeled a slut. So they build these little obstacle courses for you to jump their hurdles and shyt. So therein lies our challenge. How do we break through this barrier? Well, let's review
1. Approach - She admires your confidence
2. Charm and Attract - Your playful vibe just brightened her day
3. Pass shyt tests - She is impressed by your persistence and disarming humor
4. Push / Pull Qualifying- She digs your high standards and your sense of mystery.
5. Rapport - She trusts you and there is a connection between yall.
At this point if you don't make your move soon, the window of opportunity will close and you get the dreaded LJBF. Go for the kiss close but also realize that some girls will just flat out refuse to bone within the first 2 or 3 meetings. Patience is a good thing, as long as it is accompanied by persistence! Assuming you have gone through the above phases, it is safe to say that she is interested in you, and there is definitely a connection there, so now what?
This is where the game needs to switch to the other side of your brain. You have to switch gears into Sensual Mode!
The Power of Instinct
Of all the inventions and ideas that the human race has brought to life, there is one thing we have always excelled at....sex! For thousands, if not millions of years, we have been very fruitful and multiplied like roaches. Our DNA is encoded with desire. We all long for the touch, scent, sight, sound and taste of a lover. One of the ways you break the barrier is to tap into this primal essence. Forget you are a civilized person or a minute and project your...
Sexual State
All you have to do is make polite conversation while you let your body communicate messages of desire. The first step is to actually become aroused yourself. When you talk to that HB, imagine all the lurid things that you want to do to her. Let your hottest fantasies go buck wild in your imagination. The beauty of this is that you keep the conversation casual, yet there is this erotic undercurrent that shows in the tone of your voice, eye contact and body language. Women pick up on these cues and will either respond favorably, or not. When faced with a frigid bytch, all you have to do is move on to the next. It's not like you invested any time or emotion into her. All you did was fantasize!
Neutral Conversation
It is great to get all profound sometimes, but when you want to escalate things physically, you don't want her mind to be so engaged that she is too absorbed in the convo to get freaky with you. After you have a nice rapport going, let the conversation lighten up a bit. Talk fluff while you escalate kino and sexual state.
Proximity
Slowly draw her closer to you so that you can soften your voice and touch her more. Don't crane your neck and lean in, try to get your bodies to touch.
Sensual Rapture
When you areup close and personal, get lost in your senses! Really enjoy the pleasure of the slightest touch. Tell her she smells good and close in on her to smell her neck. This drives them wild! The trick is to just let yourself go. Be bold and caress her body to see how she reacts. If it is a bad reaction, pull away and distance yourself until you can warm her up with your words. If it's all good, then escalate!
Triangular Gazing
Maintain eye contact with her while you steal furtive glances at her lips and neck. If you want to test her receptiveness, brush some of her hair away from her face, like a lover would, and if she doesn't flinch or break eye contact, she wants to be kissed! Tilt your head and close in slowly.
Isolation
You can get away with a lot of these moves in public. But they are much more effective when you get her alone. Here are some ways I like to get her back to my place (or her place):
Are You Hungry?
Tell her you are starving and ask if she has any food at her place. If not, then either invite her to yours or to a restaurant within walking distance (less pressure). If she does, then get her to describe what she has in the fridge and qualify her a little, asking if she can cook, and what dishes she could whip up for you. Field tested with great results every time.
Let's Go Over Here!
Simple. Just take her by the hand and lead her to a more private place.Get her worked up and pull away from her as you breathlessly say "My place or yours?" Then shut up, make with the bedroom eyes and let her decide. If she is not 100% ready, tell her it's no problem. Get her worked up even more and turn up the heat before asking again.
I Wanna Show You Something
It doesn't matter what it is, just give her a non-sexual excuse to go to your place. I happen to be a musician so I ask her if she wants to hear some of my original music. Other times I can win them over with my massage skills and promise them a professional massage when they come over. Of course they have to do something to earn the massage, otherwise I look a bit creepy, which is where I make use of...
THE BARTER SYSTEM
One of the biggest mistakes I used to make was I would do girls favors for free. I'd give them massages and expect nothing in return, thinking my good deed was enough to win them over. WRONG! People want to feel they have earned your favors. So don't cheapen your deeds by doing something for nothing! Work out a trade. My favorite move is to tell girls I will teach them how to massage as long as they promise to practice on me. I then give them a 5 minute massage lesson, explaining all my basic moves as I go along. Then they give me a massage and I critique them and show them some advanced moves. (wink, wink) You can trade anything for a favor, just use your imagination and you can come up with plenty of arrangements and excuses to get her back to the pad.
