First I'd like to say I'm 22, and with the help of this site and a few other sources I went from having sex with 2 girls total a year ago, to having sex with 12 total now. It's great to have the knowlwedge I now have, it has not only made me better with women, but it's made me better overall as a person, and my ****'s starting to get straight because of it. So thanks...
Just thought I'd ask; what yall think of agreeing to be friends with benefits with someone? I got into my first one about a week ago (already had sex 4 times and it's great.) She's my best girl friend though (a problem in the future? maybe,) and the reason we chose this over trying a relationship is a few reasons. 1) She just got out of a 5.5 year relationship. 2) We both love sex and are always horney. & 3) I've already had sex with one of her best friends who still has feelings for me. So we have to keep it a total secret cuz if she found out she'd stop talking to both of us (not that i care haha.)
But something weird is happening. She was the one stern on making rules such as; no kissing except during sex; no getting angry when we talk to other people; and no lovey dovey bull****. Yet a week into this, she's kissing me all the time, I could tell she was mad that she called and I told her I was talking to a girl, and she is defintely text messaging me all the time telling me that she misses me, and that she can't stop thiking about me.
My question is: Is this what happens normally? I've never been in a friends with benefits situation, but this to me doesn't seem right, it's not any different then a relationship imo, it's just we had sex the first night we agreed to this, so we got to skip the days/weeks of bs.
Just thought I'd ask; what yall think of agreeing to be friends with benefits with someone? I got into my first one about a week ago (already had sex 4 times and it's great.) She's my best girl friend though (a problem in the future? maybe,) and the reason we chose this over trying a relationship is a few reasons. 1) She just got out of a 5.5 year relationship. 2) We both love sex and are always horney. & 3) I've already had sex with one of her best friends who still has feelings for me. So we have to keep it a total secret cuz if she found out she'd stop talking to both of us (not that i care haha.)
But something weird is happening. She was the one stern on making rules such as; no kissing except during sex; no getting angry when we talk to other people; and no lovey dovey bull****. Yet a week into this, she's kissing me all the time, I could tell she was mad that she called and I told her I was talking to a girl, and she is defintely text messaging me all the time telling me that she misses me, and that she can't stop thiking about me.
My question is: Is this what happens normally? I've never been in a friends with benefits situation, but this to me doesn't seem right, it's not any different then a relationship imo, it's just we had sex the first night we agreed to this, so we got to skip the days/weeks of bs.
