Met with the ex. **** went good all night. Went back up to her room. Watched TV pulled her over started making out, then heavily. Picked her up and took her to her room. She started asking serious questions we talked some. Opened up about the past we both talked. I shouldn't of! Seriously! Long story short it ended up with her getting off her bed. Walking to her living room. Me putting back on my shirt and her saying she had no expectations of hooking up etc. (Why the **** you kissing and making out with me and dry humping me and saying you missed me?!?!) I left, said good luck to her and she said everything went weird. THIS WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN! **** I FEEL STUPID.
What A F.cking Disaster!
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MillionBillionaire
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You knew this was a bad idea.. now she knows she can have you whenever she wants.. even if she "can't" she got all the attention and validation she needs.
Now go hang your head in shame.
(I feel mean today)
Now go hang your head in shame.
(I feel mean today)
JohnChops
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Never bring up the past, that is all associated with negative emotions. That's why you didn't get laid. If you deflected those serious questions, in a playful way as if the past is in the past, this wouldn't have happened.
BrainDamage92
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Well the downside is you didnt get laid couse you killed the mood, but you have already fvcked her more times than you can count, so the bright side is brighter, and the bright side is you dodged the big pile of horse**** that is getting back with an ex.
Because imagine, you sleep with her, reminded how nice and warm her vagina feels so you soften up and then BAM big mistake.
You seem to worry about why she didnt put out, the answer is you killed the mood, but what you should really be worried about is why you ended up in a bed with your ex, when you know its damn stupid to do so.
With women its like, she met you, the passion inside of her reignited, but you put it out with bringing up the past, WHICH IS A GOOD THING IN THE END. Because the same way her passion reignited, your love may have reignited too from the sex, and then you would have to live the whoooole dysfunctionality all over SO BE HAPPY.
And dont give me the "Nonono I am mature I know what to do" couse you still have feelings for her dont lie.
Because imagine, you sleep with her, reminded how nice and warm her vagina feels so you soften up and then BAM big mistake.
You seem to worry about why she didnt put out, the answer is you killed the mood, but what you should really be worried about is why you ended up in a bed with your ex, when you know its damn stupid to do so.
With women its like, she met you, the passion inside of her reignited, but you put it out with bringing up the past, WHICH IS A GOOD THING IN THE END. Because the same way her passion reignited, your love may have reignited too from the sex, and then you would have to live the whoooole dysfunctionality all over SO BE HAPPY.
And dont give me the "Nonono I am mature I know what to do" couse you still have feelings for her dont lie.
I can't even remember who brought stuff up. But it happen. We were both drunk. I shouldn't of spoke about anything and stuck to my game plan and **** would of been fine. After I posted I called her up drunk. She didn't answer. I text her and said you really want to leave things like this? No reply. Probably was sleeping because she had to be up early. Then I sent the longest drunk text in my life to her which was probably the dumbest thing I've done in my life. I removed her from social media a few minutes back. And yeah I'll be hanging my head over this for a while.
And yeah I do have feelings for her. Sometimes they come back in familiar times and events with women of the past. What a stupid night. Very poorly played.
And yeah I do have feelings for her. Sometimes they come back in familiar times and events with women of the past. What a stupid night. Very poorly played.
VladPatton
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This is why you cut all connections with an ex. ALL. You leave no open doors because history and bad chemistry will just repeat itself and make you feel like you do right now. You pretty much did it to yourself. What a lesson you learned, eh?
KingBeef
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^^ THIS... :crackup: Tasty....El Payaso said:
And congrats on being the new mod. You'll do great...
Between_The_Lines
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A good friend of mine visited Colorado recently, and he told me that the vendors at dispensaries are excellent at cutting off patrons during mid-sentence of one of the most commonly asked questions: "Do you think I can sneak some..." "::NO!!:: I know what you're about to ask, and under NO CIRCUMSTANCE should you even try..." Odds are, you will (now) become just like one of them the second you hear someone ask about getting back with an ex. It would be redundant to advise you never to forget this bleep, because you won't..
JohnChops
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ayyyy thats my man right there lol :yes:El Payaso said:
Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
So the next day, she text me and was pissed. I was in the wrong basically so I said sorry, and told her to call me later that night when she had some free time, she never replied or called me. Next day I text her and told her I'd like to make things right between us. No text back.
Finally earlier today she text me and says she'll call me tomorrow. I casually text back two hours later with a "k". If what she wrote me was true from what I allegedly said it blows my mind she reached back out. Some girls are very forgiving.
Finally earlier today she text me and says she'll call me tomorrow. I casually text back two hours later with a "k". If what she wrote me was true from what I allegedly said it blows my mind she reached back out. Some girls are very forgiving.
BetterCallSaul
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I typically don't advise getting back with exes even if they come crawling back to you. In this case just trying to get a bang out of it, I can understand that. It appears your mistake was when you took her back to the bedroom apparently some delay gave her enough time to start 'thinking' thus engaging the somewhat more rational part of the female brain (female brains are not capable of logical thought).
So to summarize, should have gagged her then proceeded to bang.
So to summarize, should have gagged her then proceeded to bang.