Hi guys, I admit I am pretty inexperienced when it comes to sex (although I am in my late 20's - my previous shyness and fear of women played a big role in it) and I need some advice on how to proceed with this girl.
Met her about 3 months ago on a 3 days trip where I managed get her crazy about me and a week or two after the trip we ended up in bed. However, I was very drunk and couldn't get it up. I didn't contact her afterwards, because I was too embarrased about it.
I ran into her by accident after the Christmas, she told me she was disappointed that I didn't contact her back then, so we set up a date where we just chatted and ended up kissing. Yesterday, I came over to her house for a glass of wine and again we tried to have sex, however, I was so nervous that it would happen again with the same girl that... it really did (she seemed understanding though). I spent the night anyway and when I was leaving her house, we kissed and she told me to contact her.
She's very hot, so her attractiveness is not an issue - my nervousness is. I have a few questions:
1) How to proceed now? Should I invite her over to try again right away or should we hang out first? Should I text her now to let her know I'm still interested?
2) How to get rid of the nervousness? It happened 2 times, so I guess the 3rd time the pressure on me will only increase :-(
3) In case it does happen again, for the third time, is there a way to handle it or am I pretty much ****ed?
Thanks
Met her about 3 months ago on a 3 days trip where I managed get her crazy about me and a week or two after the trip we ended up in bed. However, I was very drunk and couldn't get it up. I didn't contact her afterwards, because I was too embarrased about it.
I ran into her by accident after the Christmas, she told me she was disappointed that I didn't contact her back then, so we set up a date where we just chatted and ended up kissing. Yesterday, I came over to her house for a glass of wine and again we tried to have sex, however, I was so nervous that it would happen again with the same girl that... it really did (she seemed understanding though). I spent the night anyway and when I was leaving her house, we kissed and she told me to contact her.
She's very hot, so her attractiveness is not an issue - my nervousness is. I have a few questions:
1) How to proceed now? Should I invite her over to try again right away or should we hang out first? Should I text her now to let her know I'm still interested?
2) How to get rid of the nervousness? It happened 2 times, so I guess the 3rd time the pressure on me will only increase :-(
3) In case it does happen again, for the third time, is there a way to handle it or am I pretty much ****ed?
Thanks