logicallefty
Moderator
GET THE GIRL:
- AT FIRST, a woman must be initially attracted to your looks/body, and perhaps your status too. These get you "in the door" so to speak.
- When a women first meets you there is a switch that will flip in her brain: POSSIBLE DATE/SEX, FRIEND, or CREEP. This is critical to your future with her.
RETAIN THE GIRL:
- GOING FORWARD, a woman must also be initially attracted to your frame and personality.
- You must stand out from the crowd of betas she has orbiting around her like Jupiter and it's 63 moons.
- You must be that studly and mysterious alien ship that floats in from another galaxy and leaves her leaking to learn more about you.
KEEP THE GIRL
- Keep your frame, NEVER ever ever ever compromise your frame. Black holes will appear and she will try to suck you in and compromise it. Stay strong and persistent and don't fall for it, ever.
- Know that she is NOT DIFFERENT until she proves it to you that she is. Every woman will say she is different. You may even start to believe she is. Just sit back and watch for A LOOONG TIME.. If she seems different keep the mindset that her true colors just haven't came out yet, but they could anytime. Only deem her DIFFERENT after many many years of proof that she actually is, and even then, never let your guard down 100%.
- Establish boundaries. Make sure she knows that you have boundaries and if she doesn't respect... NEXT.... :kick:
- Remain a mystery. Always hold something back and leave her ooozing out her panties for more
- Always remain calm. Black holes will appear and she will try to suck you in. Stay calm and don't fall for it.
- Use push-pull a lot.
- Reward her for good behavior, but only when she earns it. A safe gage is to be 15% beta/wuss and 85% alpha/DJ.
LOOSE THE GIRL
Here is what NOT to do.
- She starts to lead the relationship, and you follow ?
- She starts to get b|tchy with you and treat you like a little boy getting scolded by a hateful teacher, and you let her ?
- You start "opening up" to her, expressing your feelings and inner self, and talking to her about things you shouldn't. She leads you to think that "she is different" and it's OK to do that, and you follow her lead ?
- You start doing more for her and are "such a nice guy", she sucks it in and leads you to believe that it's exactly what she wants (and in the deep cracks of her mind, she WANTS TO WANT it, but doesn't actually WANT it) ?
- Your appearance starts to slip. You must remain at least equally as physically attractive to her as you were the very DAY you had sex with her for the first time
- You start flooding with her with too many compliments. After all, she is "different", isn't she, so this should be fine, right ?
- You start talking about marriage and family and kids at the very time when it's the absolute single most damaging thing you could possibly talk about ?
Next thing you know, she puts you back on the ship you rode in on and blasts you off into space.
- AT FIRST, a woman must be initially attracted to your looks/body, and perhaps your status too. These get you "in the door" so to speak.
- When a women first meets you there is a switch that will flip in her brain: POSSIBLE DATE/SEX, FRIEND, or CREEP. This is critical to your future with her.
RETAIN THE GIRL:
- GOING FORWARD, a woman must also be initially attracted to your frame and personality.
- You must stand out from the crowd of betas she has orbiting around her like Jupiter and it's 63 moons.
- You must be that studly and mysterious alien ship that floats in from another galaxy and leaves her leaking to learn more about you.
KEEP THE GIRL
- Keep your frame, NEVER ever ever ever compromise your frame. Black holes will appear and she will try to suck you in and compromise it. Stay strong and persistent and don't fall for it, ever.
- Know that she is NOT DIFFERENT until she proves it to you that she is. Every woman will say she is different. You may even start to believe she is. Just sit back and watch for A LOOONG TIME.. If she seems different keep the mindset that her true colors just haven't came out yet, but they could anytime. Only deem her DIFFERENT after many many years of proof that she actually is, and even then, never let your guard down 100%.
- Establish boundaries. Make sure she knows that you have boundaries and if she doesn't respect... NEXT.... :kick:
- Remain a mystery. Always hold something back and leave her ooozing out her panties for more
- Always remain calm. Black holes will appear and she will try to suck you in. Stay calm and don't fall for it.
- Use push-pull a lot.
- Reward her for good behavior, but only when she earns it. A safe gage is to be 15% beta/wuss and 85% alpha/DJ.
LOOSE THE GIRL
Here is what NOT to do.
- She starts to lead the relationship, and you follow ?
- She starts to get b|tchy with you and treat you like a little boy getting scolded by a hateful teacher, and you let her ?
- You start "opening up" to her, expressing your feelings and inner self, and talking to her about things you shouldn't. She leads you to think that "she is different" and it's OK to do that, and you follow her lead ?
- You start doing more for her and are "such a nice guy", she sucks it in and leads you to believe that it's exactly what she wants (and in the deep cracks of her mind, she WANTS TO WANT it, but doesn't actually WANT it) ?
- Your appearance starts to slip. You must remain at least equally as physically attractive to her as you were the very DAY you had sex with her for the first time
- You start flooding with her with too many compliments. After all, she is "different", isn't she, so this should be fine, right ?
- You start talking about marriage and family and kids at the very time when it's the absolute single most damaging thing you could possibly talk about ?
Next thing you know, she puts you back on the ship you rode in on and blasts you off into space.
