EvilSpirit22
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Yesterday, I completed 60 days of No Contact with my ex girlfriend of 1 year. This is a brief account of what I felt during each week of No Contact and how I was able to complete it.
Week 1 - I was ****ing miserable and even went back to the church where we usually went and spent some time together. I CRIED there as I was sitting alone. All the good memories were flashing and I was moaning over my loss and doing the EMOTIONAL EATING during this phase. Received no calls or texts from her. Was waiting.
Week 2 - I deleted her number, blocked her on facebook and every other platforms where she could or I could contact her. Deleted all her photos and destroyed every gift and greeting cards she ever gave me. Felt a little better.
Week 3 - I saw her in college but ignored her completely and realised I was doing a great job so far with the no contact thing.
Week 4 - ACCEPTED that she is not gonna come back and I gotta get my life together and jump back into the field.
Started Intermittent fasting and Workouts on alternate days.
Week 5 - Felt like calling her but went out with friends that night. I was DRUNK but still I had control on myself to never contact her again.
Week 6 - Exams result came out, was 3rd in whole class. Party at a local club. Met this girl who was almost an 8. Hooked up with her there and then felt so ****ing amazing and realised that I DESERVE MORE IN LIFE.
Week 7 - I almost forgot her and all the memories associated with her as I was doing everything I wanted to do since a very long time but had been postponing it because of her.
Went out on a date with this girl in college. The night ended with a long romantic kiss. She said i'd love to be your girlfriend. But I said maybe we should spend some more time and get to know a little more about each other.
Was down 10 lbs and looked much better than what I usually looked.
Week 8 - Had one more plate who was my classmate in school and I had a crush on her at that time. We went out for a Movie and during that I held her hand,felt her entire body and I could tell from her heartbeat and breathing that she was horny as ****. After the movie we went back to her apartment where we had sex multiple times. No memory or any sign of my Ex during this week.
No Contact helped me to get back my life together. And to establish myself as a Strong person who is not dependent on anyone for his happiness. At this point of time I can live alone because I love myself even more than before. I lost 13 lbs in almost 4 weeks. I had sex with 2 girls, kissed 3 girls and now I have 2 plates for sex and 1 for maybe a relationship but I don't wanna go down that road again.
I am much happier than I was ever with her and I realised that no amount of girl's bull**** should affect you. No amount of love should make you weak and dependent on someone else to make you feel good.
Next 60 days would be related to my development as a person only and I would lose a ****load of weight.
My Aim : Get better Lose weight Look good and focus on myself. Girls would sense this and would ****ing CHASE YOU.
Thanks SS and all the members who helped me during this period. I owe you my Life.
Week 1 - I was ****ing miserable and even went back to the church where we usually went and spent some time together. I CRIED there as I was sitting alone. All the good memories were flashing and I was moaning over my loss and doing the EMOTIONAL EATING during this phase. Received no calls or texts from her. Was waiting.
Week 2 - I deleted her number, blocked her on facebook and every other platforms where she could or I could contact her. Deleted all her photos and destroyed every gift and greeting cards she ever gave me. Felt a little better.
Week 3 - I saw her in college but ignored her completely and realised I was doing a great job so far with the no contact thing.
Week 4 - ACCEPTED that she is not gonna come back and I gotta get my life together and jump back into the field.
Started Intermittent fasting and Workouts on alternate days.
Week 5 - Felt like calling her but went out with friends that night. I was DRUNK but still I had control on myself to never contact her again.
Week 6 - Exams result came out, was 3rd in whole class. Party at a local club. Met this girl who was almost an 8. Hooked up with her there and then felt so ****ing amazing and realised that I DESERVE MORE IN LIFE.
Week 7 - I almost forgot her and all the memories associated with her as I was doing everything I wanted to do since a very long time but had been postponing it because of her.
Went out on a date with this girl in college. The night ended with a long romantic kiss. She said i'd love to be your girlfriend. But I said maybe we should spend some more time and get to know a little more about each other.
Was down 10 lbs and looked much better than what I usually looked.
Week 8 - Had one more plate who was my classmate in school and I had a crush on her at that time. We went out for a Movie and during that I held her hand,felt her entire body and I could tell from her heartbeat and breathing that she was horny as ****. After the movie we went back to her apartment where we had sex multiple times. No memory or any sign of my Ex during this week.
No Contact helped me to get back my life together. And to establish myself as a Strong person who is not dependent on anyone for his happiness. At this point of time I can live alone because I love myself even more than before. I lost 13 lbs in almost 4 weeks. I had sex with 2 girls, kissed 3 girls and now I have 2 plates for sex and 1 for maybe a relationship but I don't wanna go down that road again.
I am much happier than I was ever with her and I realised that no amount of girl's bull**** should affect you. No amount of love should make you weak and dependent on someone else to make you feel good.
Next 60 days would be related to my development as a person only and I would lose a ****load of weight.
My Aim : Get better Lose weight Look good and focus on myself. Girls would sense this and would ****ing CHASE YOU.
Thanks SS and all the members who helped me during this period. I owe you my Life.
