100 Direct Daygame Approach Journal for March 2014

Wats up every1. I havent posted on this site for years. In the upcoming threads i'll talk about what i've been thru etc. For now I will talk about me doing direct daygame approaches. I just got out of a relationship well marriage so to speak 2 months ago.

I now want to get back into the game so I want to set a goal for myself. 3-4 days a week I will go sarging at malls, bookstores this whole month. I live in Queens New York so if anybody wants to be my wingman etc then pm me on here.

Hopefully today I will go to the mall for an hour or 2 and approach girls. An approach is talking to her for more then 30 seconds. Just talking to a girl and she ignores me doesn't count as an approach to me or maybe it should idk yet. The goal is to talk to 100 girls.. 7-10 in look range. I will post here daily to give everyone an update. I will be posting thru my iphone most of the time so plz mind my grammar at times.

Keep this up man. I would be interested to hear about what happens!

Well didn't go last night. Should have went to the mall by myself since he later on said he was busy,but I didn't feel up to it. Will be going tom even if one of my friends don't go with me i'll go by myself and talk to them.

My goal is not just for the women but to have that real confidence also which is most important.

Alil update on everything(it is alil long lol) Haven't went to the mall yet been busy with other things right now like basketball and looking for some jobs (Either will get a flight attendant one or usps jus for the time being lol).


Last night before i went to an open gym I saw an HB 7 walk by and i firgued just to say something. I said how you doing beautiful. But she still kept on walking. I know a few things why she ignored. Next time i have to say it louder. And dont say how you doing beautiful lol. I will say Excuse me to get her attention n show that I want her to stop what she is doing and listen/interact.


This week I was on tagged but i dont adivise anyone to use tagged because it is alot of spam on there aka fake profiles. Might have sent like over 200 messages and received legit girls like 10. Out of 10 i got one a few days ago number. We talked abit only thru text messaging. Said if she was busy this week and she said yea to friday,sat,sunday. So I said how about Thursday night. She agreed to it. Now after that, this was like tuesday night. I texted her again and she didnt text me back until wed afternoon sayin sorry she has been busy etc. I talked to her thru text this morning saying a line I read on a site last nite. What would you say if I told you I wanted to pull your panties off with my teeth and lick you for hours? She said wow and lol. So I said it would be good in the morning and she said yes it would lol.

So during this time i talk about her favorite positions etc.

Me: you cant handle me and
Her: that she is a handful.
Me:well I have alot of energy
Her: she never taps out
Me: never say never and that we will see
Her: yes we will see


So we are supposed to see each other tonite. My thing is this, I doubt what this becomes to is a relationship. Usually for all of my dates that I do. I go to movies and then usually my own crib. Problem is tho is that I dont have my own place no more and moved back to my parents crib until I get myself back together with jobs/money.

Im seriously thinking forget the movies and just pay for the hotel. Take her to a pizza place around there then esclate to take her to the hotel. She is traveling by train like an hour and some change. Does any1 think that she really wants to just go on a movie date and that is it??? I seriously doubt it. What does every1 else think i should do. I know that once i first meet her tonight that it will depend on the vibe and chemistry we have at first. If it feels good and she still looks good in person then I will proceed with the hotel idea. I know it is early but seeing from her text it seems like she loves sex. O yea i forgot to mention the first day we talked thru text. She asked me what is my favorite thing to do. She asked that because in all of my texts with every new girl I tell them to play alil game to know each other better. The would you rather live in a big city or mountains etc. Think it was from here or somewhere.


So she asks me what is my favorite thing to do. I say Basketball, travel, videogames and Love to have sex. I then ask her the same thing and she says Videogames also, movies and the last thing that I said also lol. So she loves sex also of course we all know girls love it ha. So what does every one think? Am I going to fast and i should just do a movie date and see what happens from there. Any suggestions would be great. I will update tonight or tom.

I wouldnt do the movie thing until after you've banged her and if you still wanna see her. Best bet is to meet at a bar or go out for coffee. Search up videos of justin wayne on youtube, his vids helped me a lot with my daygame.

^^ thanks and yea i know alot well some about justin wayne. I like and respect what he does since im black myself and always wanted to master the daygame skill. Also like sasha daygame. I feel like Daygame and being sober is harder then nightgame so i rather master the daygame or at least do that alot for now then later do nightgame. Plus im alil broke now so daygame is right for me lol. His site was good until you have to pay for one of his products to be in the forum section. Probably will pay for one of his products in a few weeks etc.

Idk for me I never been much of a bar type of person and dont like coffee but I will do coffee or eat at the pizza shop then go to hotel. Hopefully everything goes well tonight. First thing is i hope she doesnt flake. Usually i dont care if a girl flakes but ive been on a 2month dry spell so I kind if want this lol.

Man do I have a story to tell yall smh.. I'll post it in a few mins damn

Had to play a few games online on NBA2k14 to relax ha.

Anyways so she finally texted me at like 7 something and said she was at the station. I meet her and she does look better then her pics so that was definetly good. I immediately hug her. We start walking a few blocks and my destination was the pizza shop around the motel. She has her hands in her pocket and I say its cold and for me to hold her hand. She gives it to me. We talk a bit until we get to the pizza shop. I order the pizza and we wait there for like 10 mins. Food is ready and he says to stay or not and I ask her and she says its up to me. So I say to go. She offers to hold the pizza while i hold the drinks. We walk to the motel, I can tell that she was thinking like wtf lol.

So we get inside, I do for 4 hours. We get to our room and she sits in a chair. I sit on the bed. We eat our pizza and I start to lay down. She takes her time and then she starts to smoke her ciggarette. I dont really like girls who smoke but it's ok. I then tell her to come over here to lay down and she says she was about to ha. She then comes and lays down with me. She talks about her body is achin etc so I give her a massage to her arms and legs and neck. After that then I start to kiss her in the lips for about 10 seconds. Then........

She tells me hold on. She told me I wish you would have told me that we was going here instead of just chillin and going to the movies. Im like what you on your period?? She starts to laugh no but what makes you think I want just sex. I said o. She then says for all of that you didnt have to waste my money and we could have just went to her own crib and could have spent the night smhhhhhhhhh damn. I said i kno i wasnt really thinking lol. She was like she dont even know me. She said we could have just had coffee and see how things go then whatever happens happens lol. So im like ok its cool.


Silence for a few mins while we watch tv. I start to hold her more then massage her butt but not inside just outside her pants. I then try to take her pants off but she said no not the first date. So I just massage her inner thighs then massage her ***** but outside of her pants smh. Then I kiss her neck for abit and she says to stop. I say y and she said cuz that turns her on and thats her soft spot. Of course I do it again but then tells me to stop so I stopped and we just turned on mtv2 for fear factor.

She just keeps telling me that I should have just told her thru text first that i was going to take her to a motel and that i shouldnt have thought to just have only sex. Before we leave I kiss her again. She says that she made alot of mistakes before etc and she wants to do it right.



So we set a date for monday because she said she is busy this weekend. Then i said is she busy monday. She said she was but now she is not cuz she was gonna go out on a date but now she is not gonna show up supposedly lol. Im just mad at myself that instead of my traditional move that I do to movies first then the girl usually says that she doesnt want the night to end etc.


Lesson learned tho so from now on just let my intentions known at first. Im gonna chalk that one as a lost. She did text me sayin she had a good time then I said I missed her lol. She said she missed me also. So what should I do with her? I think if I go to her place on monday i will be able to hit. She has no kids and is 30 and a nurse..

Tom I feel like going to the mall to talk to girls but I dont know. Feel like I wasted some energy tonight.

Did one of the most rookie mistake.. Some people might relate to when their state is not 100 percent there. I messaged her saying since we doing this old school im gonna do it old school also and ask you to be my girl etc. and to give me an answer not no idk yet etc just yes or no.

Its now almost afternoon and no response. So I guess I wont hear back from her again. Should I not text back later on and say I was feeling you but guess you wasnt feeling the same but it's all good. Then i'll never text back again. Might do that but either way never will do that bs again..

Im not gonna lie yesterday took energy out of me to not even go out today to talk to girls. I'll just message on here if people respond back in here and also think about how I can get better with daygame and my life for work etc lol.

no dont send her any more texts bro

iight yea i'm not going to even tho i feel like i should just one more like at 8pm etc. If she really wanted to talk she would have hit me up so im not going to message back. Had a few lessons learned in one date lmao. What sucks the most is that it seemed like we had good chemistry etc.

What a waste of money and awkward situation that actually almost led to you getting laid. Why in the fck wouldn't you have tried to get her back to her place and had the date around her if you have no place to fck other than a motel. C'mon hehe. Also why not just bring her to your parents place is it no girls aloud. I find parents less of an obstacle then a motel. Keep up your approaches in real life

^^^ Lol man i tried to when she said it's time for her to go. It was late so I said i'll go with you. She said it's to late because all she would do is fall asleep etc. No way I would want to bring her to my parents crib the first date lol. It was my fault for even taking her to the motel for the first date. I should have had a regular date by taking her to the movies then take it from there. Wish it was today that I took her then I would have def went to the movies and saw 300 part 2 movie smh. Lesson learned so I guess I needed that.

Im feeling alil bit better after I deleted all our text conversations. Next is to go out tom to the mall and maybe barns and nobles and talk to some. Thing is if my friend is busy I dont know if I want to go to the mall on a sat by myself lol. I do think if I can go to the mall by myself and approach girls that I would learn more and get better faster.

So its basically 9pm and im at home bored watching the knick game. She never texted me back. I havent texted back either and wont. Im kind of frustrated in how im at home not really doing nothing. Anyone ever just think like dam doing the same things gets me the same results time after time again..

Tom afternoon even if its by myself I will approach women during the day. Then play ball. Im having this feeling like I dont care I just need to talk to girls and get at least one that sticks for awhile. I know every1 preaches about not being outcome dependant and I agree. But damn if i approach like 20 tom I want to see at least alil results lol. I will update this with approaches tomorrow.

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Don't sweat in man. It is 100 direct approach challenge. All the online chicks are just icing on the cake to kill time.

I love to be real so imma be real.. I aint fap pause aka no homo lol in like a week. Im trying to get to the point in not doing that ever again. Newayz last night jus did it to release stress.. Woke up mad tired and lazy and unmotivated smh. Then I just said screw it im going to text her one more time and say good morning and that are we still on for monday.

When I texted it just said sent. Usually says delivered when I text. So i assumed she blocked me lol. So I went on the tagged app and said look you blocked me? All you had to say is that you didnt want to talk to me no more and that's it then i would have stopped. Have a good one and I had a good time regardless.. 20 mins later I get a text and it says yup. I then says or thought you blocked me and she said no. So its supposedly still on for monday. Should I continue to text her till monday or just text monday morning and see what time on monday

YoungSir4sho said:

I love to be real so imma be real.. I aint fap pause aka no homo lol in like a week. Im trying to get to the point in not doing that ever again. Newayz last night jus did it to release stress.. Woke up mad tired and lazy and unmotivated smh. Then I just said screw it im going to text her one more time and say good morning and that are we still on for monday.

When I texted it just said sent. Usually says delivered when I text. So i assumed she blocked me lol. So I went on the tagged app and said look you blocked me? All you had to say is that you didnt want to talk to me no more and that's it then i would have stopped. Have a good one and I had a good time regardless.. 20 mins later I get a text and it says yup. I then says or thought you blocked me and she said no. So its supposedly still on for monday. Should I continue to text her till monday or just text monday morning and see what time on monday

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What is the point of this? Either

A) She blocked you because she wanted to. You b!tching about it will change nothing. The only move left here is to hopefully bump into each other 'randomly' and restart your game from scratch.
B) She didn't block you and you look insecure as fvck.

Not sure why you made that move but it never looks like the right move to me.

You right it was not a good move lol.. Im just going to text her in the morning and say whats up. Then monday morning also to set the date up. Just came back from playing ball. Should be a nice day tomorrow also so i'll do some approaches. Have to get focused on that again and get through my 100 goal for this month.

I'm not trying to be judgemental here, but you made this thread a week ago and you have yet to go to the mall and make any approaches. I know the first step is the hardest, but I'm beginning to wonder if this is a realistic goal for you. Maybe start out smaller, like saying hi to a stranger like in the bootcamp, or make one approach or something.

Thanks for the concern but no I love challenges and I will reach the goal this month. My next thread for next month will be another goal but this is the first step. This week will be the start of changing for the better.