El Payaso
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 16, 2014
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Seriously, this app is a gold mine! Tons of hot girls and guaranteed numbers with little effort. For the uninitiated, Tinder is a dating app for Android and iOS that uses your Facebook account to match you with other Tinder users. It's that simple. When you open the app, you get a series of pictures of "possible matches" and you either swipe left for "nope" or right for "like". It's a basic concept of hot or not. If you "like" a girl and she "likes" you back, you are then allowed to message each other.
I find Tinder to be better than OKCupid and POF because of several reasons:
1) You can't message a girl until you both "like" each other. Just like I mentioned earlier. So why is this an advantage? For one, it eliminates a high chance of rejection and time wasting because you're only going after girls that definitely or to some degree find you attractive. They have basically said "Hey, I'm interested in you. Talk to me". Unlike other dating sites whereby it's all a huge gamble of if she'll even respond to your message. If she even does, you're probably dealing with someone who's just being polite by responding, an attention wh0re, fake account or a possible flake. It doesn't mean that those don't exist on Tinder but in my time using it. I've only met ONE flake ever and that was because she traveled out of the country.
2) It eliminates the creep factor for many girls. Girls feel more comfortable using the app because only those they find attractive are able to talk to them. Therefore they are less likely to be bombarded by creeps, weirdos, shut ins, d!ck pics etc. I find that the girls here are more relaxed, comfortable and at ease rather than tense and alert. It leads on to my third reason.
3) There are more attractive girls. Due to girls feel comfortable using it, there are more regular and thus attractive girls using it compared to POF and OKC. Fewer mega land whales, baggage carriers, jaded ex-slvts etc. Again, I'm not saying that those don't exist on Tinder but the amount of really beautiful girls I've seen on here is ridiculous. One possible reason for this is in my next reason.
4) Barrier of entry is low. All you need is a Facebook account and an ounce of brain matter to write two sentences. That's it. For some people, the Facebook account feature might be a deal breaker. All I did was create a Facebook account just to be able to log in and uploaded about four pictures. I didn't bother with adding friends or any of that garbage. Some rumors I've heard is that Tinder finds new girls for you based on your mutual friends. I don't know how true this is but I've gotten matched with a lot of girls and it's not even a "proper" Facebook account so...
5) Because the barrier to entry is low, profiles are short and simple. This keeps the mystery for guys because she can't read all about you through the multiple quiz questions that OKCupid forces you to take or the lengthy profile and chemistry questions that POF encourages you to fill out or take. Girls are purely interested in you for your looks. That's about it. For the guys looking purely for sex, there are even a number of methods you can use to determine if the girl is DTF that very day or night.
Your mileage may vary based on these five reasons due to your location, age and of course how attractive you are. I live close to one of the biggest college campuses in the U.S. I'm in my early twenties and I'm not the hottest guy but I'm not the ugliest guy either. Whenever I'm free, I'll just open it up and swipe "like" on every picture without even looking just to get a few matches. From there I use a selection process on who I actually want to talk to. Since joining about a month ago, I've lost track of the numbers I've pulled but I'd say it's about twenty-something. Obviously, I can't date them all due to time constraints but so far, I've f-closed about eleven of them.
Seriously, Tinder is set up in such a way that you have to be extremely stupid or have really terrible game that girls who find you attractive get turned off. If I can do it, I'm sure a number of more attractive guys out there who are curious can definitely do it.
I find Tinder to be better than OKCupid and POF because of several reasons:
1) You can't message a girl until you both "like" each other. Just like I mentioned earlier. So why is this an advantage? For one, it eliminates a high chance of rejection and time wasting because you're only going after girls that definitely or to some degree find you attractive. They have basically said "Hey, I'm interested in you. Talk to me". Unlike other dating sites whereby it's all a huge gamble of if she'll even respond to your message. If she even does, you're probably dealing with someone who's just being polite by responding, an attention wh0re, fake account or a possible flake. It doesn't mean that those don't exist on Tinder but in my time using it. I've only met ONE flake ever and that was because she traveled out of the country.
2) It eliminates the creep factor for many girls. Girls feel more comfortable using the app because only those they find attractive are able to talk to them. Therefore they are less likely to be bombarded by creeps, weirdos, shut ins, d!ck pics etc. I find that the girls here are more relaxed, comfortable and at ease rather than tense and alert. It leads on to my third reason.
3) There are more attractive girls. Due to girls feel comfortable using it, there are more regular and thus attractive girls using it compared to POF and OKC. Fewer mega land whales, baggage carriers, jaded ex-slvts etc. Again, I'm not saying that those don't exist on Tinder but the amount of really beautiful girls I've seen on here is ridiculous. One possible reason for this is in my next reason.
4) Barrier of entry is low. All you need is a Facebook account and an ounce of brain matter to write two sentences. That's it. For some people, the Facebook account feature might be a deal breaker. All I did was create a Facebook account just to be able to log in and uploaded about four pictures. I didn't bother with adding friends or any of that garbage. Some rumors I've heard is that Tinder finds new girls for you based on your mutual friends. I don't know how true this is but I've gotten matched with a lot of girls and it's not even a "proper" Facebook account so...
5) Because the barrier to entry is low, profiles are short and simple. This keeps the mystery for guys because she can't read all about you through the multiple quiz questions that OKCupid forces you to take or the lengthy profile and chemistry questions that POF encourages you to fill out or take. Girls are purely interested in you for your looks. That's about it. For the guys looking purely for sex, there are even a number of methods you can use to determine if the girl is DTF that very day or night.
Your mileage may vary based on these five reasons due to your location, age and of course how attractive you are. I live close to one of the biggest college campuses in the U.S. I'm in my early twenties and I'm not the hottest guy but I'm not the ugliest guy either. Whenever I'm free, I'll just open it up and swipe "like" on every picture without even looking just to get a few matches. From there I use a selection process on who I actually want to talk to. Since joining about a month ago, I've lost track of the numbers I've pulled but I'd say it's about twenty-something. Obviously, I can't date them all due to time constraints but so far, I've f-closed about eleven of them.
Seriously, Tinder is set up in such a way that you have to be extremely stupid or have really terrible game that girls who find you attractive get turned off. If I can do it, I'm sure a number of more attractive guys out there who are curious can definitely do it.