12 Tips on Getting Stripper's Phone Numbers

In the old days, a woman could be a receptionist and pay for a 1 bedroom apartment no problem. Nowadays, a person practically needs to make triple figures to comfortably afford to live alone. Not surprisingly, a much greater percentage of "nice" girls now work as strippers. Hanging out at regular bars getting free drinks and occasional dinner dates just isn't going to cut it anymore.

There are many levels of strip clubs, from no-touch bikini bars (where they are just a shade over Hooter's girls) to fully nude Gentleman's clubs (where they are just a shade below porn stars), so don't judge them right away. Unless they have a pimp they are not a prostitute. If you can't truly accept her at face value or she will sense that your are judging her.

Many men will stop right there and that is fine. But if you still want to know how to regularly get stripper's phone numbers read on.

1) Be prepared to spend $200 total the night you go out. Any less is not going to do it. There are parking, cover charges and tips to consider. If this is more than a day's pay it's not worth it.

2) Dress your best. You can't over dress in a strip club. Say you just came from church if you have to.

3) Tip all of the dancers who are on stage, and don't hang out to get attention. Just toss a few $1's for being naked and walk off. Pay them at least $2 and if you really like them then $5 or $10. They will approach you later if they like you.

4) Only talk to girls who approach you. You're at enough of a disadvantage being in a paying, supplicating environment so at least make them work a little. Most of the time they will thank you after they get off stage if you tipped them. If they don't, write them off. If they delay in any way after you have tipped them, write them off. Otherwise be patient.

5) Know that if she avoids you she either truly likes you or truly despises you. It should be easy to tell the difference (any kind of smile and you are in the former category). If you want proof that she might actually like you even though she avoids you, look at the guys she actually approaches. Girls hate getting rejected as it is, but especially by guys they actually like, so be patient.

6) While you are waiting for your favorite girl to approach you, talk to the bartenders, waitresses and bouncers, If they don't like you the strippers won't either. If you meet a bar maid or bartender who you hit it off with, focus on them. They are your best bets for legitimate dates.

7) When a dancer who you actually like approaches you (you politely refuse the rest), try to get the free table area. There are scams that have you pay hundreds just to sit on a slightly nicer couch. Tell her you'd rather give her the money and she'll tell you the most economical place to sit.

8) When you get a table with her, buy her a drink and tell her up front that you are going to give her $100 and that includes tip. Tell her she can do whatever she thinks if fair for that amount (don't demand this, but know that if she enjoys your company it will be at least 5 songs and will usually be a half hour or so for that amount). Have a $100 bill ready.

9) Tell her you don't care if she dances for you or not. With strippers you win points by not looking at their body! It really gets to them. That said, take advantage and show dominance by ordering her around a little at least once. Ask her to stand up and show you her ass or something. This makes her feel as if she has to prove herself to you.

10) Pay her a little bit early so she knows you aren't going to scam her. If possible, tell her you know she has to work and that you need to get going (end the date early).

11) Ask her to tell you her real name. If not, you will be in her phone under the alias which screams "Customer" when you text her.

12) Tell her to dial your number and send a text (signed so she knows it's you) right away. If you did everything right you are guaranteed their number (which with strippers is only a slight chance they really like you, but it helps your esteem either way).

Congratulations! From this point on she will pretty much act like any other hot girl. Your best bet to see her again is to ask her when she is working next. See her at most 3 times at the club before she agrees to meet outside the club.

here's a tip; don't date strippers..

I would rather put all that money into stock investments and get more out of my life than trying to win the attention of a harl0t.

Not a fan of dating strippers, tried it enough 20 years ago to know better these days, but to each his own. Will say that IME strippers have a higher rate of being single mothers... and you won't ever know this until you have wasted time and money, higher chance of hard drug or other risky criminal culture baggage that follows them around like a cloud of flies. Many are married prostitutes who turn tricks or even run "hot bed" scams where angry husband/bf busts in and takes everything from the mark. Higher personality disorder chance, HPD, BPD. Not a good bet for even the most casual, best to meet women elsewhere.

That OP frames them all as "just girls trying to make a living in the bad ole world" is kind of funny.

If I had to spend $200 to get have a chance at getting a hot chicks number, I'd rather spend the $200 to hire a hot escort and bang the hell out of her...at least that **** is guaranteed.

Just sayin'

Lol strippers. They are "hustlers" which means they are not in it for you, they're in it for the money. Good luck finding a stripper who will not have an STD or ruin your life. She probably has 2 kids at home and baby daddy drama.

I have to respond to this, mainly because I’ve had so much fun playing with strippers, finding them, or at least the ones I spent time with, much better than their reputations would suggest.

First, you don’t get strippers by giving them money. I’ve always gone by the $20 rule. Spend no more than $20 a night at a strip club. $5-6 for a drink and a dollar tip for the bartender. Tip the strippers no more than a dollar a dance when they are on stage, never pay to go to a VIP room or do a table/lap dance.

The trick is to flirt with them, eye to eye, while other guys are gawking at them. If you try to hit on them, especially PUA style, you will lose every time.

I first got into strippers as a bit of an ego thing. I found I could go into strip clubs and be attractive to strippers. That is to say that I could go into just about any strip club and find at least one stripper who would readily sit and talk with me. Never dated any with bastard children, addictions, STD’s or any of the other problems guys tend to cite when rejecting strippers. I often suspect that most guys that say bad things about strippers do so because they can’t have them so they make things up.

I used to go into strip clubs incognito to see certain dancers. This was necessary as many clubs don’t like boyfriends going into the clubs when their girl is working. Anyhow, once I heard these two guys talking about a certain stripper. The one was telling the other how he and another guy had gotten this stripper to leave with them and he was going on in all kinds of detail the sexual adventures that the two of them had with this stripper the weekend before. He was pointing to my gf. I’m sure he was lying, especially because the previous weekend she and I had gone camping. Besides, she just isn’t that kind of girl.

potato said:

The trick is to flirt with them, eye to eye, while other guys are gawking at them. If you try to hit on them, especially PUA style, you will lose every time.

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And potato/zarky's subtle and ongoing quest to hate on game continues. Just be honest you quite literally have no idea what game is do you? I still remember that time you were unable to grasp a simple neg. As I recall you thought a neg was "any insult toward a chick" lulzlozloz

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In the case of strippers my being the best looking, smartest, most charming guy in the room has gotten them coming on to me, telling me their real name, their phone number, their home address, suggesting we should meet elsewhere. Guys with game don’t have this kind of success. I first became of the fraud that is so called game by watching PUA wanna bes get the knees kicked out from under them by strippers.

potato said:

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In the case of strippers my being the best looking, smartest, most charming guy in the room has gotten them coming on to me, telling me their real name, their phone number, their home address, suggesting we should meet elsewhere. Guys with game don’t have this kind of success. I first became of the fraud that is so called game by watching PUA wanna bes get the knees kicked out from under them by strippers.

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Why of course , you just sat back and watched all the men with game get knocked out of park at the "strip joint". *SMH*

I've seen caught out 6 year olds compose more believable stories than your efforts.

Hmm wait a minute... I wonder if this hatred for game you have comes from you actually being gamed once? Could it be? Maybe you googled those unexplainable tingles you got one day after one too many pump and dumps...and here we are all these years later still listening to you piss and moan over the "evils" of game.

My apologies for the hijack Bigneil, but this ****s a fraud.

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Why of course , you just sat back and watched all the men with game get knocked out of park at the "strip joint". *SMH*

I've seen caught out 6 year olds compose more believable stories than your efforts.

Hmm wait a minute... I wonder if this hatred for game you have comes from you actually being gamed once? Could it be? Maybe you googled those unexplainable tingles you got one day after one too many pump and dumps...and here we are all these years later still listening to you piss and moan over the "evils" of game.

My apologies for the hijack Bigneil, but this ****s a fraud.

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( * )( * ) you crack me up bro! LOLLL













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I have banged quite a few dancers (10+) I'm not really proud of it or anything. The sex can be great, but the baggage is brutal. To be honest my approach is a lot different from the OP.

Pretty simple:

Be the best, or one of the best looking guys in the club. Face, body, clothes.

Don't spend too much money on them or they may just see you as a customer. I haven't had a lap dance in years.

Be comfortable. Not like you own the place, but pretty damn close.

Be sexual. Don't try to be their friend. I usually just tell them I think they look good and keep the conversation sexual from there.

Touch them in an aggressive but not predatory way. In other words, hand on the small of the back is ok, grabbing their snatch isn't.

I don't give a crap about their real name. Whatever they want to tell me is fine by me. So many guys ask them that, it doesn't make you unique.

Be friendly with the bartenders and the managers. Makes the girls feel like they aren't headed into some kind of trouble.

Go to the strip club with the intention to flirt with some skanks and have a few cheap drinks. Looking for a "date" gives off the wrong vibe.

The way a "successful" hookup usually happens for me:

See a hot dancer
Give her a couple bucks on stage
She will come thank me
I may buy her a drink
She will ask me what I'm doing later
I will set up the logistics of getting her to my place, that night, without getting her in trouble
For the most part, they either ask me to hang out on the 1st night I see them up to about the 3rd or 4th. After that, 95% of the time it just isn't happening.

Trying to directly pick them up hasn't really worked for me.

Whatever, YMMV. Frankly, although I had some fun, I don't recommend it.

first question. why would you want to date a stripper.

second question. most of these girls are trashy why would you want to date a stripper

3rd question. why the fook would you want to date a stripper!!!!

if your only motivation is to date her is because she is hot. you are clearly doing it wrong!

As always, some great advice from bigneil...spend $200 to get a stripper's phone number. if you want to save a few bucks, spend $150 and get her email. $100 to be added as her friend on facebook. It would be funny if it wasn't so sad.

12 Tips for Ridding Yourself of STDs You Get From Strippers

There is more than one way to skin a cat.

Here's how I used to do it:
1. Never buy lap dances.
2. Don't do things customers do.
3. Get to know all of the staff.
4. Own the place.
5. Bring lots of liquor to the byob clubs. Have some unique bottles/unique liquor. Makes for good conversation. Used to bring in a bottle that was shaped like a Tommy Gun. Also had some wine called ****Burn. Pour cheap vodka into your Grey Goose bottle, they'll never know the difference and you'll save money.
6. Be high energy and fun. I always went to party, never to pick up girls.
7. Pull your phone out and start looking at p0rn. haha
8. Hang out in the smoking area with the girls.
9. Look good and smell good.
10. I never spent more than $30.
11. When the janitor comes out to clean the stage and wipe the pole down go tip him. You'll be an instant celebrity and all the girls will join in.
12. Every now and then, bring a hot female friend with you to serve as your wing woman.
12. I rarely went for the phone number on the first visit. I like to plant the seeds and watch them grow. Filters out a lot of the flakes that way.
13. If you aren't highly secure with yourself then you shouldn't be dating a strippa.

From my experience, these girls are no more/less likely to have std's than a regular civilian girl you might meet in public. And they are just as crazy as the next woman. Crazy isn't just found in Stripperville. Its everywhere.

Some of my best times were when I dated strippa's. Got some wild and crazy stories.

serious why I would ever want to date a stripper? and if I have to spend on the first night over 200 just to hang out, better pay a ***** it will be cheaper...

I've had enough of this thread, can't stand it anymore.

Three steps to banging a stripper:

1. Ask for lap dance
2. while getting lap dance, pull out large bag of coke and give dancer a bump
3. exchange contact info

And that's all you gotta do.

Now, for the record, I'm personally not a fan of buying coke, much less carrying a large bag around on me.....but I have a few friends that are. So...

......if they want to pull the above maneuver, and the stripper brings friends.....well, lets just say, I'm not going to be the one to tell my buddy how to live his life.

Peaks&Valleys said:

1. Ask for lap dance
2. while getting lap dance, pull out large bag of coke and give dancer a bump
3. exchange contact info

And that's all you gotta do.

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Most relevant post in this thread . Drugs truly are the key to skank's heart. It's as simple as that. There aren't many strippers who are not into drugs. And most of them have no reservations about sleeping with a guy for free drugs. It's not much different from hiring a prostitute, except you pay her with drugs instead of cash.

On a side note, this does not only apply to strippers. It's a rarely discussed point on this forum, but one of the main reason why girls like the so-called "bad boys" so much is because they get drugs from them. If you have access to drugs and hang out with women who are into drugs, you don't need "game" or any of that nonsense. Now I'm not suggesting anyone here become a drug dealer for the purpose of getting poon. Being in the drug game has some very obvious downsides, such as the extremely high probability of getting shot or locked up in jail for a very long time. But it's important to understand the role that drugs play in inter-gender dynamics.

Howiestern said:

There is more than one way to skin a cat.

Here's how I used to do it:
1. Never buy lap dances.
2. Don't do things customers do.
3. Get to know all of the staff.
4. Own the place.
5. Bring lots of liquor to the byob clubs. Have some unique bottles/unique liquor. Makes for good conversation. Used to bring in a bottle that was shaped like a Tommy Gun. Also had some wine called ****Burn. Pour cheap vodka into your Grey Goose bottle, they'll never know the difference and you'll save money.
6. Be high energy and fun. I always went to party, never to pick up girls.
7. Pull your phone out and start looking at p0rn. haha
8. Hang out in the smoking area with the girls.
9. Look good and smell good.
10. I never spent more than $30.
11. When the janitor comes out to clean the stage and wipe the pole down go tip him. You'll be an instant celebrity and all the girls will join in.
12. Every now and then, bring a hot female friend with you to serve as your wing woman.
12. I rarely went for the phone number on the first visit. I like to plant the seeds and watch them grow. Filters out a lot of the flakes that way.
13. If you aren't highly secure with yourself then you shouldn't be dating a strippa.

From my experience, these girls are no more/less likely to have std's than a regular civilian girl you might meet in public. And they are just as crazy as the next woman. Crazy isn't just found in Stripperville. Its everywhere.

Some of my best times were when I dated strippa's. Got some wild and crazy stories.

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This - My friends who bang chicks out of strip clubs never spend a f*ckin dime on dances. Be a regular, own the place/interaction, and a little bit of blow won't hurt.

Strippers are easy to f*ck as long as you aren't acting thirsty and aren't falling into the frame of a typical customer. IE: Slip you $200.00 for a few dances and maybe ill get your phone number and eventually bang = nice guy.

Same game rules apply for these girls as any "normal" girl. In fact, you can get away with a lot more and they are even more responsive to jerk boy charisma.