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I'm going to make a thread on my approaches. I have been getting PM's how I'm getting dates, so here it is. Critique, learn and apply my experiences. Feel free to share your own in this thread.
Building a safety net:
When I walked in I immediately approached a set of 2 women in their 30's just because they gave me eye contact. One of them initiated kino with me and the flood gates were open. I was able to go around and chat people up comfortably, knowing there was a fallback.
The approach:
I introduced myself to my target's group and made sure to befriend all the guys. Asking them questions, making stupid comments to exude some laughter from them - Pretty much displaying I'm The GUY. They bought into it. I took the fat one to dance, she sucked but I didn't care. I danced with the all in the order of attractiveness. Finally danced with my target. She was very touchy feely, like the dog you left alone and coming home from work. It was very easy to isolate since the group knows me and trusts me. After I ignored her for the rest of the night and danced with others outside of the social group. I would conveniently come back to my intial safety net group just to let them know I didn't forget about them. The night closes, and I approached my target group again. Went around in circles giving them hugs and banter just trying to get a laugh or smile from them. I made sure my target was last and simply told her - "Hey Jessica, let's hang out sometime, what's your number" Her name was Jennifer lol. The level of interest is still there through texts and calls.
EDIT:
CHANGE MY TITLE BACK TO:
Successful Field Reports
I want members to contribute. It's SoSuave's journal.
Building a safety net:
When I walked in I immediately approached a set of 2 women in their 30's just because they gave me eye contact. One of them initiated kino with me and the flood gates were open. I was able to go around and chat people up comfortably, knowing there was a fallback.
The approach:
I introduced myself to my target's group and made sure to befriend all the guys. Asking them questions, making stupid comments to exude some laughter from them - Pretty much displaying I'm The GUY. They bought into it. I took the fat one to dance, she sucked but I didn't care. I danced with the all in the order of attractiveness. Finally danced with my target. She was very touchy feely, like the dog you left alone and coming home from work. It was very easy to isolate since the group knows me and trusts me. After I ignored her for the rest of the night and danced with others outside of the social group. I would conveniently come back to my intial safety net group just to let them know I didn't forget about them. The night closes, and I approached my target group again. Went around in circles giving them hugs and banter just trying to get a laugh or smile from them. I made sure my target was last and simply told her - "Hey Jessica, let's hang out sometime, what's your number" Her name was Jennifer lol. The level of interest is still there through texts and calls.
EDIT:
CHANGE MY TITLE BACK TO:
Successful Field Reports
I want members to contribute. It's SoSuave's journal.