Why give advice to other men?

sylvester the cat · Dec 7, 2013

Some of this knowledge is gold.

Why give it away so freely to other men?

SUrely they are competition. Wouldn't it be in your interest to keep people in the dark?

There is a saying in the bible:

Matthew 7:6 Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.

denverfan110 · Dec 7, 2013

The amount of knowledge bestowed probably won't be enough to significantly impact my own life.

Also I'd much rather see my fellow brothas flip the switch on sh1tty females and bang them for all their worth than be the only one happy to have figured out the game.

BraddH · Dec 7, 2013

Makes no sense whatsoever.

adam225 · Dec 7, 2013

To help each other ?

Tictac · Dec 7, 2013

Sly,

I am 62-years old, live in New York City and operate on a plain you could barely understand much less compete in.

You are (likely) younger, live somewhere else and can do things ICH cannot.

How is it that we 'compete'?

I do this - read here and write here - because it both helps me and, I hope, occasionally helps those who read what I write.

I'm a bit grey-haired to spout about the Bro Code. But hey, it's the Bro Code.

user name · Dec 7, 2013

denverfan110 said:
The amount of knowledge bestowed probably won't be enough to significantly impact my own life.

Also I'd much rather see my fellow brothas flip the switch on sh1tty females and bang them for all their worth than be the only one happy to have figured out the game.

what if the brotha uses this advice to get it on with a married chick?

denverfan110 · Dec 7, 2013

user name said:
what if the brotha uses this advice to get it on with a married chick?

I never condone that. Relationships, okay, if she's coming on to you the other guy will learn his lesson about how to maintain attraction in his girl.

Marriage is different. I'd never condone attempting to steal a married girl. Ever.

Albatross953 · Dec 7, 2013

Most threads where a guy is going after an attached woman, he gets beat up verbally for it. This place teaches responsibility for the most part.

Well except maybe the azz eating thread. Lol

VladPatton · Dec 7, 2013

We give advice because we do not want others to fail anymore and to reset the standard of what a guy should be. We are past religion, we are above profit, and we advise because we care on a brotherly level.

The_flying_dutchman · Dec 7, 2013

By helping other men, we are correcting the wrongs of this modern feminized society. By withholding information or sabotaging each other, we will only perpetuate a society that marginalizes young men.

Having said that, we could give out advice, but only few will take it to heart, fewer, still, will have the courage to execute it, and if they have the courage to execute then they should be embraced as a brother.

Tomo · Dec 8, 2013

I remember too vividly how AFC I was, how whipped I was and how I continue to kick myself about it to this day. I don't regret it nor would I change how I was to whom I have become. But if I can help even one guy stand up for himself, not be whipped nor chase ***** at the expense of himself, then I will give my advice if they want to hear it.

adam225 · Dec 8, 2013

I'm out to help all men regardless. This is just as much out in real life as on the internet. The bible is just a book, it isn't the answer to everything. A lot of it is down to your interpretation of it. You need to distinguish consciously between right and wrong or good and bad.

Man on Fire · Dec 8, 2013

I give advice freely because I want to return the favor. Mentor and be mentored. It wasn't that long ago I was clueless. There is some pretty damn good advice on this site.

Solomon · Dec 8, 2013

sylvester the cat said:
Some of this knowledge is gold.

Why give it away so freely to other men?

SUrely they are competition. Wouldn't it be in your interest to keep people in the dark?

There is a saying in the bible:

Matthew 7:6 Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you.

I think exeprinces are priceless the advice you give from leanring from your own trials and tirbulations no one can take that away from you or compete with that.

My experinces are different from yours, if I give advice to tell a man to approach a woman to get his confidence up doesn't mean the guy will have the mastery of approach down after one approach these things can take time. But with advice and guidelines and eagerness to fail a man can go far. THe mind is powerfull combine that with the spirit and you can reach heights you didn't existed

DragonBlood · Dec 8, 2013

Karma.

The people here have helped me so much in the past its hard not to return the favour. I think our gathered experiences has made us much stronger individuals than if we were to try and 'figure it out' and 'suck it up' on our own. Even the most experienced members run into trouble on occasion, no one has all the answers. I dont think anyone is losing here.

DarkDetective50 · Dec 10, 2013

By giving other men advice on how to treat women, you are actually helping yourself too. Because if more and more men started treating women like dirt instead of idolizing them, the game will become much better for you. More women will realize their place and it makes it easier for you in the long run.

If you withhold information, more women will think they're the sh*t. Look at how women rally up and share information about men. You think they don't know the male psyche from A - Z? While you were playing with your hot wheels and action figures in class, girls your age were already meeting in the bathroom and discussing how to attract boys. They all realized from an early age that a little cleavage goes a long way while you still didn't even know how babies were made.

So yes, there is a lot of incentive to share information with other men.

PlayHer Man · Dec 10, 2013

Regardless of how much knowledge I share here.. I know that I'm the only "ME" in the world and that will never change.

Plus only men who pedestalize women are threatened by the success of other men. Women are low value so its not a big deal to me if other men get p*ssy because of things I share. In addition to that.. even some of the men who agree with what I say don't have the balls to actually go out and implement it.

So I have no concerns.

DarkDetective50 said:
By giving other men advice on how to treat women, you are actually helping yourself too. Because if more and more men started treating women like dirt instead of idolizing them, the game will become much better for you. More women will realize their place and it makes it easier for you in the long run.

If you withhold information, more women will think they're the sh*t. Look at how women rally up and share information about men. You think they don't know the male psyche from A - Z? While you were playing with your hot wheels and action figures in class, girls your age were already meeting in the bathroom and discussing how to attract boys. They all realized from an early age that a little cleavage goes a long way while you still didn't even know how babies were made.

So yes, there is a lot of incentive to share information with other men.

+1 Rep

CrimsonPanther · Dec 11, 2013

every society's success depends on the willingness of individuals to work together, help each other and grow together. a society with only selfish individuals falls quickly.
by helping others, you help yourself. by sharing a point you have reached to, you will get feedback, and possibility to evolve beyond a level achievable by yourself.
being jealous of other's success is both a beta and a feminine trait.
women are motivated by envy of others or being envied by others. this is why they seem so stupid on some level.
men look up to those with success, trying to be like him, without feeling resentment. and this positive energy is more creative and proactive than that motivated by envy.

user name · Dec 11, 2013

CrimsonPanther said:
every society's success depends on the willingness of individuals to work together, help each other and grow together. a society with only selfish individuals falls quickly.
by helping others, you help yourself. by sharing a point you have reached to, you will get feedback, and possibility to evolve beyond a level achievable by yourself.
being jealous of other's success is both a beta and a feminine trait.
women are motivated by envy of others or being envied by others. this is why they seem so stupid on some level.
men look up to those with success, trying to be like him, without feeling resentment. and this positive energy is more creative and proactive than that motivated by envy.

A rather idealistic outlook, wouldn't you say?

Men don't envy other men and look up to those with success, without feeling any resentment, heh?

History says otherwise.

zekko · Dec 11, 2013

DarkDetective50 said:
By giving other men advice on how to treat women, you are actually helping yourself too. Because if more and more men started treating women like dirt instead of idolizing them, the game will become much better for you.

Is that what they're teaching here? To treat women like dirt?
Straight up serious question.

Of course you certainly don't want to idolize them either.

Why give advice to other men?

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