1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I was looking through the internet when I was 16 for a good forum, and eventually stumbled upon this one.
2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
My original username was "Heretic" (inspired by the Halo 2 character "The Arbiter") but I opted out and chose "Vice" instead. I don't remember why, but I remember freshly reading The Game by Neil Strauss and trying to be trendy with my pseudonym.
3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
The best advice would honestly be the ENTIRE Double Your Dating and Real Social Dynamics product line. But to narrow it down, I would say that having masculine intent is the best piece of advice I've received.
The worst advice would have been any advice I get from guys at bars regarding how to get women. I always ask because I love entertaining myself by hearing their ineffective and limiting world view.
4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
I lurk RSD Nation frequently and post every once in a while. They seem to be more focused on going out and getting things done. There's also a level of silliness that bloats their forum, but they have some top notch posters. Every once in a while I'll look at the RooshV forum as well. I remember mASF Forums but I was really turned off by them when I was young.
5) How many chicks have you slept with?
8-9 I think. Let's say 8; I haven't kept count but if I look through my personal journals I can get an accurate count. This year I will definitely break double digits.
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Best experience was definitely public sex with my exgf that squirted. We'd do it in alleyways, rooftops, stairwells, college classrooms, in front of an art museum late at night, etc. Satisfying water splatter sound every time she came.
The worst experience was the exgf again; we both got lazy, gained weight, and stopped having all this kinky sex.
7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Once. It was when I was a teenager, and it happened because I was too much of a wuss to take advantage of all the times I could have kissed her. I was still learning.
8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Yeah, I was skateboarding on the boardwalk of a popular beach on the east coast. Me and my wing started a conversation with two girls (I initiated so I got the hotter one) and we ended up separating. I taught her how to skate a little, and soon enough I picked up my girl physically, threw her over my shoulder, and walked off with her. Then I put her down and she offered me a drink up in her hotel room. Like a dumbass, I said "maybe later", because I was expecting to go out with another girl later that day. The opportunity went away, and the girl I was supposed to go on a date with flaked.
Another one was when I was making out with a girl on the beach at night, and I decided to "tease her" by getting things hot and heavy with her, and then going home. LOL
9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
Girl: *flake text"
Me: ok cool
I don't care. I just keep inviting them out to cool things until they tell me to stop texting them. I dont' get butthurt. I approach flakes from girls in the same way I'd approach flakes from guys: it happens.
Imagine how weird it would be if me and you (the reader) started hanging out and winging together, and you flake on me for when we were supposed to go to a venue. Wouldn't it be weird as f*ck if I got all butthurt and said some sh*t like "I don't tolerate flaky behavior"?
My own female COUSIN flakes on me! It's cool. People have things going on. Sometimes a better opportunity comes up; it's not about you.
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
Only two. We'll be seeing more this year.
11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
Going to the store to by more plates. (club)
12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Varies depending on the venue, but my go-to style is:
1. Black Allen Edmonds oxford dress shoes
2. Low cut black socks
3. Rock & Republic jeans
4. Black leather belt
5. Black Calvin Kelin t-shirt, black Express fitted 1MX shirt, or on colder days I'll have a Diesel leather jacket with sleeved rolled up to expose forearms
I also rock black slacks with a
bold pink Express 1MX for when I'm feeling super confident.
13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
I just
started riding BMX again which is my cardio, my leg workout, and upper body workout all in one. Not to mention it's a cool hobby, and I get to terrorize hipsters and other people I don't like.
I also lift, but I don't buy into the BS marketing from supplement companies. I work my core, abs, deadlifts, bench, squat, pushups, situps, and pullups. Diet for the most part it vegetarian. This helps me sleep 6 hours per night. I still grow muscle. Remember gorillas are plant eaters, and they have rock hard muscles and massive bodies.
14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
College gay bars/clubs. They're not for everyone, but you get a consistent supply of hot girls that come out to these to have fun. Everyone is super friendly, the music is great, and people are non judgmental. Sometimes I get free drinks, and if you're cool, the gay dudes will introduce you to their female friends.
Going to them also helps you realize all the creepy sh*t you should avoid doing in regular bars and clubs, because you'll be approached by guys, and you'll start recognizing approaches that do and don't work in straight clubs.
Often times you're the only straight guy at the bar, so you have that novelty factor for everyone. If you're cool, everyone likes you and wants to be your friend. If you're homophobic and weird, you can go back to your sports bar with all the other chodes and watch sweaty men chase after balls on a field while I f*ck girls in the ass in the bathroom.
Met my last two girlfriends at a gay club/bar.
15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Currently doing NC with the ex. Not expecting results, I have no interest in contacting her.
16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
MAYBE, in my 40's or 50's when I get the womanizing out of my system.
17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Yeah, I remember reading it when I first joined this site.
18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
I've chatted with Espi on the phone a few times. We were supposed to hang out a few times but things kept falling through.
I've also winged with Poop1337,
the thread of our field reports is here.
19) Favorite So Suave posters?
Everyone; sometimes I'll have a major disagreement with a certain poster about a certain subject, but then I realize we're saying the same thing but in different ways.
20) Thoughts on online dating?
Online dating has its place for certain lifestyles, but if you have the ability to go out, going out is far superior. I'd save online dating for use as another source of girls for situations like during class/work where I'm stuck in one place.
21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?
I feel it's getting too political. I've found my mood is much better when I focus on getting chicks, approaching, field reports, going on dates, and practicing the fundamentals than when I read the general negativity around the manosphere, which turns me into a dark snot.
I was 16 when I started learning pickup around 2006, so I didn't have much "blue pill" thinking to get over. I was a fresh, blank mind, so I didn't have to unlearn bad habits.
22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?
Haven't read it, but I could take a look.
23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
They came frequently when I was deep into game in early 2012, going out every weekend gave me new insights every night. The best "shining moment" was when I was rejected by the hottest girl I ever tried to close. After that, it was like no other girl mattered anymore, because I already went for the hottest one. The very next week, I saw the hottest girl in the club, and she ended up becoming my girlfriend for almost two years.
It's only after your greatest failure can you have your greatest success. Take a look at the "three feet from gold" story in "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill to understand this concept.
24) How did you become a mod on So Suave?
There were positions offered, and I decided to try out for one. I got the position, and now I get to work for free and keep the forum clear of spam!
25) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
Yeah: GO OUT DAMN IT. So many problems could be solved if people here went out consistently.
Also, read more books, and invest in programs from David DeAngelo and Real Social Dynamics. They're worth the money, or the bittorrent download.
