***Official Late Night with AlexLefty Interview Thread***

HumbleNinja

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***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

AlexLefty, please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks.

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

22) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
 

AlexLefty

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HumbleNinja said:
1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
It was brisk winter’s eve. School had just gotten out and I was hurriedly walking to the trax station, hoping I wouldn’t miss my train ride home….
No seriously, I was a sophomore, I think, and when I got to the train station I saw this chick Ilean that I really liked. Long story short, I tried talking to her, couldn’t, but then did and ****ed up. I googled something like “how to talk to girls” and clicked on a yahoo answers page where the top answer linked to sosuave.


2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
Yeah, one of my nicknames is Lefty, but some as5hole already took that name so I decided to add my first name to the front. Makes sense right?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Hmmm. Worst? Not sure, but it probably had something to do with being a white knight or whooing a girl or something. Honestly, the best advice I ever received was in regards to the ego. I learned, in short, that you must be like a ghost, and be completely independent of all external influences. This means that whether I’m praised as a god, for looked down upon as a piece of ****, I still feel exactly the same as I would any other day. There are many nouns to describe this phenomenon. Buddha calls it Dhamma, and thus I wear a Buddha necklace to remind me of the concept.

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
Nahhh. Mostly because I have other things to do, a lack of interest, and perhaps some laziness.

5) How many chicks have you slept with?
Five. Though hooked up (at least head) with? High 20s. There are various reasons for the large gap between the numbers and I can expand if you’re interested.

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Worst?
Probably during prom of senior year when I lost 2 girls simultaneously because my bro c ock blocked me. To be truthful, it was my fault because I didn’t pull the trigger fast enough, so I had to settle for my 3rd choice :/, still kind of upsets me today.
Best? Hmmm. Not sure. Probably the night when I was able to get 2 sisters to give me head. It wasn’t simultaneously, but they were each trying to get me to themselves and hide me from the other one so they wouldn’t find out. In the end I got some from both of them that night, but they ended up finding out. I never talked to either of them again haha. OR when I was on a trip with my student government and was able to seduce like 5 chicks; my game was on point.


7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Yeah, many times in my early years I’m sure, but I don’t really remember. I was friend zoned by this one chick Allison Sophmore year. As my skills improved, I was able to get her mad attracted by senior year and actually went to prom from her. Unfortunately, she’s the same girl from above and I lost her because I didn’t pull the trigger fast enough. But, I still count that as getting out of the friendzone ;) These days I don’t get friend zoned because I feel that only pvssys put themselves in the position to get friendzoned.[/COLOR]

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Yeah. I can’t remember real specifics, but mostly I blew them off just because I didn’t want it, and thought I could do better.

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
“No big deal”. Simple as that. I’ll show them that I don’t really care, and then I’ll usually try to use one of the others girls I’m gaming to make the flaker jealous. The real trick, however, is to ACTUALLY not care. This goes back to my whole thing of Dhamma, where it’s just like “She flaked? Meh.” But I haven't actually had a chick flake in a really long time.
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
God I don’t know. 5 or 6? Also, what the hell does “spun plates” mean. Flirting, hooked up with, sexed, etc.? For some reason I hate the term “plates” haha.

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
If ever I don’t have any girls at a point in time it means that I’m deep into doing some other sh1t like school, internships, work, etc. and don’t have time for girls. So, for the most part, my life goes on without me really noticing because I’m so busy. But once again, if it gets to the point where I’m really lonely, go back to the principles of Dhamma.

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
I’ve worked on my style for years now, and I feel that I’ve finally nailed it this past year. Basically every girl I get intimate with compliments me on my style. I rock some nice shoes, slim jeans/ khakis, most likely a plain vneck t shirt, a necklace, a multitude of bracelets, and some nice sunglasses.

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Yes sir. Gotta be buff to compensate for my height.

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
For MEETING chicks cold approaching or going to any public venue like a club is the best way. For MEETING chicks you just go to where the most amount of girls are. But, I think what you’re actually trying to ask is where I’ve been the most successful with chicks on an overall basis. I’ve been the most successful by using social circle game. That is, using status and what not. It’s so easy, but it just requires a lot of patience. You have to build yourself up to be a god in her eyes. But, like I said this may take a while. The good thing is that since she’s in your social circle you know she’ll always be there. Other than that, I most prefer cold approaching. You can be very successful with this method if you work at it, and I genuinely enjoy it.

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Yeah. She came back after me a few months later. However, whether it was for attention or because she genuinely wanted me I do not know.

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Uhhhh. Probably, I mean I’m not dying single, but not until my 40s or late 30s probably. Also, I’m not sure I want to get married to just one chick, so I still have some exploring to do with this.

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Most of it. I stopped when I realized I could better utilize my time with better stuff.

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
No, but BPH is supposed to come down here in January…. Of 2013….so we’ll see. Hopefully we’ll meet up soon.

19) Favorite So Suave posters?
LearningSlowly, BPH.

20) Thoughts on online dating?
Don’t do it. Fvcking waste of time. I put some time into this because I wanted to improve my texting game, and my final thoughts are that it’s stupid. I can’t believe how much time people waste discussing online dating theories and ways to best present your profile. What ever happened to going man mode and just clubbing a chick over the head for sex? Seriously, online game is safe, and it’s ruining guys. You need to actually get out there and be social – there’s nothing more exhilarating.
TLDR; fvck it.


21) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
I think you’re always continually evolving. Like I have confidence that the pro PUAs can ATTRACT any woman they want, but I don’t think there’s any man who can actually SLEEP with any woman he wants. Until we reach that, we’re continually evolving. But to be honest, I’ve hit like 5 spots in my life where I’ve been like “Damn, I’m finally the man I want to be, I’m a boss”… and then like 2 weeks later I realize I can still improve. Despite this, my shining moment was recently when I went on a trip with my student government. I was fvcking on point with my game and was attracting like 5 dimes. I was also building mad status and just being a boss. Needless to say, this lead to some pretty good times when I got back home.

22) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
MAKE A COLLEGE FORUM.
More single post field reports? So I don’t have to look through all the journals.
Peace out.
 

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Jack Wealthy said:
Also college forum. Great idea.
Won't happen here any time soon. Discussed with mods a few times, simply not enough viewership. Matt's college forum may get bigger in the future and we could post there though.
 

AlexLefty

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Jack Wealthy said:
I'd like you to elaborate on the reasons.

Also college forum. Great idea.
I feel like it generally stems from my lack of availability. I'm a 4.0 college student, work part time, have an internship, am in student government, and volunteer. As a result, I obviously don't have as much time to put into game as I would like. Sometimes, this means that I get overly aggressive and drive the girls away before we can get to sex. More times than not, however, it means that I usually settle for head, and then lose interest or don't bother pursuing for sex afterwards.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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