***Official Late Night with Peaks&Valleys Interview Thread***

***Thanking all who participate in these interviews for your honest replies and interesting reads in advance.***

Peaks&Valleys, please answer the below questions in a reply to this thread. Thanks.

Here's your questions:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

5) How many chicks have you slept with?

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

19) Favorite So Suave posters?

20) Thoughts on online dating?

21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?

22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?

24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

Great idea NN. I had a similar one back in the day (about a month ago ) about SSers writing up their so called Manifestos: What they believe in, what they want, their goals in life...women, professional, where they see themselves now and in the future....that kind of thing. Then maybe the powers that be, take these manifestos and publish a book. "The Manifestos of Don Juans" -by Sosuave. Advertising and revenue, not a bad thing.

Anyway, here's my answers:

1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I was referred to it, but the first time I saw it was after doing a google search on a question I had: "what does it mean when a girl calls you hun?" My ex and I were back in touch and she kept calling me it while trying to real me back in, just so she could be the to dump me. I knew she was a manipulator but I was vulnerable at the time, what she was saying to me was working. It sounds like something petty but it didn't sit right with me, I was trying to see if there was any advice out there on the subject and what do you know...there was.

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
Yes. It seems to be who I am. Either it's all going great and I'm knee deep in vag or personal success, or I'm out walking through the desert on my own. There doesn't seem to ever be that consistent middle ground for me. I'd like there to be, but that's not who I am. I get bored, restless, like to go out on adventures. Sometimes it leads me astray, but I need that change the unfamiliarity, without it I don't think I could be happy.

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
I've gotten so much bad advice through the years. The one thing I can recall is: "girls like guys that are nice." Taken out of context that advice can drive a man though a wall.

The best, in so many ways: "Be a man"

4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
No, this was it. I was thinking of trying some other forums but I haven't found my way there yet.

5) How many chicks have you slept with?
I'm in the 100+ category. I started early, I've had quite a few rough patches but I've never been married and am 37, so I've had a lot of opportunities. It is what it is.

6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
The worst was my high school girlfriend, was reeling off her for years...and years. She was the one that got away, that gave me the biggest mind fvck of my life. The best, don't know, have to think about that one. The ones that get away are usually the ones that make a lasting impression.

7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Yes and yes. My advice here, when a chick friendzones you...let it be. If you remain in touch as friends that's okay, treat her as a friend....don't be an orbiter. You'll find that sometimes these "friends" suddenly get an urge and wants to have sex...fvck her. But afterwards, put her back in the friendzone. Treat it as if it didn't happen. You'll see how quickly the tides can turn.

8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Yes, but not on a consistent basis. It happens though, and afterwards if you are still in contact with them for whatever reason, they usually will try to find a way to get at you. They will try to take advantage of you, it's happened a few times with me. I've had chicks that I had initially turned down feeding me shots then offering BJ's. It works both ways

9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
This is a funny thing. There are times when I'm 100% sure a girl won't flake...and she won't, in those rare occasions she does, it's for a legitimate reason and we end up meeting at another time. It's the grey area ones that do. You have to take your chances, if she does flake, it may burn, or it may be no big deal. It all depends, I usually blame it on myself. Try to figure out what I did wrong, how I could have made it a different outcome.

10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
This is a tricky one. For me a Plate is a vague definition. I've had weekly plates, monthly plates, last minute plates, 2:00 AM plates...sometimes all going around the same time. I'd say in general, 4 or 5. I've never had the Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, etc. plates. One or two are usually falling out of the picture for whatever reason, while a few more are coming in..

11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
I usually have higher standards as far as plates go. But it's rare that I couldn't get ahold of some chick from my past if I really wanted to get laid. At my age though, sometimes it's not worth the hassle. I feel if she's a plate it should be effortless with no confusion or BS. I don't mind going weeks or even a month without getting laid. I read a lot, go to the gym, try to improve myself somehow. Reflect (which I'm always doing). Sometimes, if I'm in the mood, I'll head out by myself to a local dive or somewhere where a live band is playing. Mainly just to get out, but a lot of the times there will be singles out by themselves as well. Even if I don't pull anything, just getting out and mingling with people can lift your spirits if you're down.

12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
It varies, and it's really all about the situation you're in. As long as you're stylish to where you're at. At the same time I've pulled chicks from a semi-formal bar while wearing board shorts, a T-shirt, and sandals. I believe I have style, but it's okay to not neccesarily be dressed up for every occasion. Sometimes dressing down and just not giving a fvck can be the best option.

13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
Yes, always. My whole life.

14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
I've met women in every type of situation imaginable. But clubs and bars have always been my go to. My day game is so-so but I'm getting better at it. I'm not the guy that "can pick up any girl". I have a few certain types, get me close to them and I'm usually good to go

15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
The ol NC. I've went NC, as you've described, just not wanting to deal with a chick anymore, yes. But when I do it as a means to an end it's one of my downfalls. If I start to go NC with someone just out of pride or to teach her a lesson, but I'm still attracted to her, it's tough for me to ignore her for too long. I believe NC comes down to inner game, truly knowing you're better than this chick you're dealing with. Knowing that in the long run you're better off keeping your doors closed. Inner game is key, something I'm constantly working on.

16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Yes, one day. I'm not settling though and my standards are high in that regard.

17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
I've read a few parts, I personally feel it's too long and some of it is out dated. The book of Pook though IMO will be able to stand the text of time. His style is to make you think for yourself, to reflect and bring out your inner game. It's not a list of rules that only apply to certain situations.

18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
Never met up with anyone.

19) Favorite So Suave posters?
Tayuu_okoto, pimpsicle, zekko, BeDJ, Mike32ct, Scaramouche, Aristippus, Vladdpaton..a few others.
Those are the guys I feel I can relate to the most. There are others that give great advice but it's not necessarily my style. Everyone has there own views, what works for them. I can't see this forum without (.)(.) and Zarky going at it, as I said in an earlier post, this forum wouldn't be the same without those dueling every once in a while. I feel this forum has a great core of posters that have been here a lot longer than me. Atomsmasher is the the cool laid back moderator, while bradd80 is the feisty argumentative type. Purefilth is laid back gives good advice when he gives it, same with samspade. Zunder, who I first noticed while he was flaming me has some good ideals, he may be a step away from the game at the moment though but he's on the right track. tyte_eyez gives great advice, and should post more. NN is the quirky but seems like a good hearted guy that makes things interesting....and comes up with things like this.

I try to take everyone for who they are. I can be dogmatic at times, but that's because I'm pretty close to my ideals. I try to be open, but some things I feel I have to comment on. There's a lot of guys that I agree with at times but not at others. Everyone's different, in the long run that's what makes this forum what it is.


20) Thoughts on online dating?
Take it for what it is. I was on it years ago, and did pretty well with it. I feel it's changed though, either that or I have. It seems like a lot of work now, my time's more important to me. It's good for a last resort or if you're in a dry spell, for that reason I may be getting back on eventually, haven't decided yet. Might try my "luck" here pretty soon. All in all though, I feel it has a negative effect on the dating and relationship world. For some of these women it's like a kid in the candy store with $100 in their pocket. They get blinded, and then eventually get tired of it.

21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?
Every action has a reaction.

22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?
Haven't read it. Maybe some day when I get through my current books on the list.

23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
Shortly after discovering David Deangelo because of the book "The Game". At the time DD was a "PUA" who's style I could relate to the most. After reading some of his material it was like someone slapped me across the face then opened my eyes to a lot of my past successes and failures. Soon afterward I went on a weekend cruise with a buddy of mine, and had girls eating out of my hand. It was one of the first times I felt like I was seeing things from a higher perspective. For the time being....I understood. That was a while ago. Then of course I get into a few LTR's and a lot of my inner game that I had built up had went out the window. This site has helped me greatly to get back on track.

24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
I feel this site is like AA for alcoholics. If we fall back into the blue pill zone, we can come back here and get back on the wagon. Most people are here to look out for the other's best interest. That being said, I'd like it to be more of a close knit atmosphere. It's great that people can randomly find this site and sign up instantly but it would be nice if there was a section for only approved members. Posters with some experience or who have been verified....some type of "VIP room" so to say....approved access. I like to give advice but I don't like to spin my wheels on a poster who's had 3 posts only to find out later that they're a troll. Same with getting advice, I don't know who that person is who's giving it to me. I know a lot of these younger guys don't know which advice to take and which to disregard. I've seen quite a few threads where there was one or two posts of excellent advice, only to be overshadowed by some bad advice. That's usually rare though.

All in all I feel this is a great little community that I'm glad I discovered and am a part of.