1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I honestly don’t remember. I remember randomly finding a PUA forum online and lurking out of curiosity. After exploring further I guess I managed to stumble on to this site, was intriguing and after a few months of lurking I made an account.
2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
It was the name of a character I made on the computer game The Sims 2. He ended up sleeping with just about every woman in town :crackup:
3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
I’d say the best advice was having an indifferent, carefree mindset when it comes to women. I think it’s one of the main reasons for any success that I’ve had.
This one is a bit difficult to answer. I had virtually no experience with women before I started reading about how to interact with them so I had no opportunity for any AFC/beta experiences. I do have experience with using good advice the wrong way though. I went no contact on a chick when it really wasn’t necessary. I then pvssied out and starting talking to her again a couple weeks later but she wanted nothing to do with me.
4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
I’ve lurked on several. About two years ago when I first got into PUA I lurked on The Social Man, Real Social Dynamics, Bobby Rio’s site and a few others. I also read several books and programs (never bought any of that overpriced sh!t though). I’ve looked at a ton of sex products as well. They all claim to give a man the power to make any woman a sex slave for life which is a bit silly but they still had a few bits of gold. Eventually most of it sounded too gimmicky and I settled here. Right now I visit pua-zone, Rollo’s blog the rational male, and I visit girls chase, heartiste, and goodlookingloser occasionally.
5) How many chicks have you slept with?
An astounding two fortunate souls. I slay pvssy left and right.
6) What was your worst and best experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
My worst experience was the no contact situation I described earlier. That was my first real experience with a woman and the rejection hit me hard.
My best experience was getting a chick to travel on her own dime half way across the country to meet me, her booking a hotel for a weekend sex marathon, and her screaming in pleasure as I gave her the D :yes: . Going from being a virgin with no experience with woman to that was a massive self confidence boost.
7) Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it?
Negative. I never had the opportunity to get friendzoned. I know I’d be able to get out of it if it happened now though
8) Have you ever had a chick or chicks offering their pvssy to you on a platter and you blew them off for whatever reason? And why? (IE: They offered the pvssy on a platter to you at a bar in conversation or even at yours or their place and you blew them off.)
Nope. I have had chicks that were obviously interested but I did nothing due to shyness.
9) How do you handle chicks who flake?
Never had a chick flake because my game is too tight…I mean I’ve never had the opportunity. I don’t ask women out.
10) Most plates you've spun at one time?
1. It’s hard out here for a pimp
11) How do you handle a time of having no plates?
Hah this was never an issue. I think I was borderline asexual for the first 21 years of my life. I didn’t even watch porn or jack off.
12) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Not about that life. When I do go out I keep it simple. Jeans, button downs, tshirts, polos. I am working on broadening my style though.
13) Are you currently working out/exercising?
No but I know I need to. I’m skinny as hell so I want to work on a proper diet before I start working out.
14) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view
and have you tried all venues? (Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..)
Like I said before I’m not about that life. All of my experience has come from the wonderful world of the internet.
15) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Addressed earlier. I did it for the wrong reason. I overreacted about something that wasn’t that serious and it ended up blowing up in my face.
16) Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Yes, in the near future perhaps as I addressed in this thread
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208446. If I do it and it turns out to be a massive failure I’ll be sure to come here and let you guys know so you can say “I told you so.”
17) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Not the whole thing but quite a bit. Pook, Senor Fingerz, Anti-Dump’s machine, all of the sex stuff and a few others.
18) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
I have not
19) Favorite So Suave posters?
Damn…this will be a tough one. Recent ones off the top of my head are PlayHer Man, Floydb25, bukowski merit, and a few others. If I’ve repped you then you’re probably one of my favorites
20) Thoughts on online dating?
I’ve never used any dating sites. The chicks I met online were through other means. I don’t see a problem with it. As long as a man is getting what he wants then I’m not gonna knock his way of getting it.
21) Your thoughts on the Manosphere?
It is quite illuminating. It has certainly changed my thoughts on many issues. I believe it’s generally a good thing and every man should be informed about the issues that the manosphere discusses. It should be obvious to all that there are elements of society that are blatantly anti male and this needs to be dealt with. On the other hand, I find some of the white supremacy elements of the manosphere amusing
22) Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?
I bought it but I have yet to read it. I’ve read much of the blog and there’s tons of gold in it so I’m sure the book will be the same.
23) What is/was your shining moment as a Don Juan and when you felt you just “got it” in regards to chicks, or are you continually evolving?
The same as my best experience. I do feel like I’m continually evolving however. It’s quite satisfying to see the stuff that I read here play out in a positive manner in my life. There is still growing that I need to do. I need to get out more, start building my social skills, getting more experience with women, getting a career started, and generally becoming a better man.
24) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
So Suave is a great site. It has taught me a lot and I enjoy discussing, debating and sharing my opinions with the men here. The daily onslaught of noobs can get a bit tiring but we must all remember that we were similar to them at one time. Show them the right path and perhaps they’ll turn into veterans who will leave nuggets of gold here one day. As far as improvements are concerned I think the site is basically fine as it is. Upping the post limit would be a nice start, getting rid of the ridiculous profanity filter, and adding a field report section would be nice additions however.
As you guys can see I don’t have a ton of experience. I don’t have 1000 lays or a haram of females and I don’t do any gaming in the field. Many would argue that this makes me unqualified to give advice, undeserving of my shiny green squares, a keyboard jockey, ect. I don’t believe that's what this site is about however. We are men discussing and sharing our opinions on subjects that are rarely discussed in the real world. I bet most of the men here have few if any people that they can talk to about these subjects without getting weird looks or ridiculous reply's. At the end of the day we are all expressing our views on the world and no one should take what any man says here as gospel. Take everything with a grain of salt; if it makes sense to you then try it out, if not then discard it and move on. It would have been simple for me to claim that I had 100’s of notches on my bedpost. I could have created outrageous tales of all kinds of debauchery and none of you would’ve had any idea if it was the truth or not. Your favorite poster could be a 300 pound bored housewife trolling all of us for the fun of it. This is the internet. Everyone needs to use their common sense to separate the gold from the garbage. Keep sharing your unique experiences whether you have a haram of 10 women or are a 30 year old virgin. The varied perspectives of men is what makes this site great. Thanks HumbleNinja for starting these interviews. It was a brilliant idea and worthy of a sticky or its own section.
