***Official Late Night with "Pimp-sicle" Interview Thread***

Solomon was right about one thing, this forum does something to you and I don't know what.

The PairPlusRoyalFlush interview thing really did fvck with me though... I really did look up to the dude. Probably because my dad was a veteran whom I pretty much watched pass away when I was about 5. A boy needs a mentor or someone to look up to after all. But anyway I'm going to leave for a while. I've already drained all the knowledge I could possibly know. This place served as a getaway for me, but I'm not going to experience and learn life with someone watching every step I take. Plus I already have the tools to deal with literally everything life has to throw at me. This forum and the people in it have been great, but I feel I don't need a mentor(s) anymore.

I'll probably roam here every now and then but first I want some insight from my few favorite posters that haven't been interviewed yet before I create my journey.

Pimp-sicle said:

Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Ever considered children?

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)

What pickup/seduction resources worked for you and which didn’t and were you ever involved in PUA as in seminars etc.?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters, blogs, sites?

What, if any, books have really shaped your philosophy and what did you learn in them that was eye-opening?

You are one of the older members that post from time to time, how did it transition throughout the years. Lastly, how do you think it will transition into the future?

Any words of wisdom or advice to give out?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

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Frayzer said:

You really think I care if you can pick up 27 girls in one night and sleep with all of them? NO. I care if you can look yourself in the mirror for 30 seconds without looking away or developing a shred of negativity.

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I've realized that this is all I care about. Love yourselves guys, don't let anyone else dictate your life via your ego or any other method.

Amazing how fragile kid these days are.

Little insults come from a fellow poster, and now he is crying about leaving the forum.

Godspeed, chump.

btw don't worry, I bet you will come back here crying after some b!tch dumps your @ss in the future.

Another question for Pimp-sicle,

You are one of the older members that post from time to time, how did it transition throughout the years. Lastly, how do you think it will transition into the future?





Frayzer,

Not everyone here is cut from the same cloth. If I were cheated on by multiple LTR's, I would be attentive with women as well. The littlest things that most men overlook may appear as Defcon 2. It does not alter the quality of the post and opinions.

That being said, you remind me of myself years ago:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=130647

I went away for years, only to come back and find an incredible amount of relevant information that I did not compute when I was younger. It took years of experience to connect some dots and relate it back to previous members' perspective.

I fondly remember this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=146064

The entire time, I held my hands to my ears and yelled LALALALALALA. Experience builds character and perspective. Look at the number of members and guests that have come across this site over the years. Cross reference it to the suicide rate. One man's subtle hint could save another man's life.

Closing the laptop and finding a path is like Forrest Gump breaking out of those braces. Just know this community is here to help you------You know what? I'm going with ya. Reading the threads I posted tells me I have much more fvck-ups in me.

Originally Posted by Frayzer

What up! Damn I'm super late on this, but definitely wanted to chime in here & hopefully my journey can help out some of the newer/younger guys on the site.


1) What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

I found SS through bb.com & thought it was a great site & definitely started absorbing things like a sponge right away. There wasn't anything specific that brought me here (no girl issue), just heard it was a great site and got hooked on it right away.

2) Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?

Haha… no not at all. To be honest its cringe worthy looking at my username now, I think looking back it was all about embodying the mentality that I was the mutha-fuvkin' shiat & believing it to the max; hence the cheesy username.

3) What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Hmmm where do I start. I'll just start naming things that come to the top of my head right now:

Worst:

1) cater to what she wants to do (early on) 2) be yourself 3) wait 3 days-week to call/text after getting the number to make yourself "stand out & be mysterious" 4) all women are crazy 5) you shouldn't be friends with women ever - not to be confused with being in the friend zone, big difference.

Best:

1) Pure, unapologetic confidence is the ultimate ****tail to getting the woman you want. Some of my best success has been when I was very VERY direct and expressed my intentions.

a) Direct game trumps 9/10, there are cases where indirect game is best, but as a man you should always go take what you want, not only with women; in life.

2) Rap worthy line: Never chase byatches, chase your dreams and the byatches will come."


4) Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

I'm Sauce-head from BB.com, lots of old school posters know this, but perhaps a lot of newbies who also visit BB.com don't. Started the "New Formula For Getting Chicks" thread back when I thought I knew it all! haha


5) How many chicks have you slept with?

Honestly, I lost track of the exact number, if I sat there and really thought about I could probably figure it out, but its between 35-40. I've turned down more sex than I've had for a couple reasons.

1) The number of partners I've had has never mattered to me. I'd much rather bang a girl who has the body/sexual vibe I like over and over again, than bang through a host of girls who are mehh.

2) Girls that I'm somewhat into, or not that into tend to get attached to me pretty quickly. So rather than banging those girls, I tend to drift away subtly & then LJBF them. I've never put pu$$$y on a pedestal and realize its better not to bang out those girls, rather than deal with all the ensuing drama.

I know this is the internet so its hard to really prove anything, but if I ever gave a shiat about "my number," it would likely be a lot higher if I took advantage of all the opportunities I've passed up over the years.


What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

I don't really look at any experience as bad. I know one reason I'm different from most guys is I tend to learn from my mistakes very quickly. So although in the moment it might suck, I'm always grateful for each experience because I learn a lot more about myself when its run its course.

I've seriously dated 2 certified nut job chicks. When I didn't know that shiat existed, I would say that was the best/worst experience I've been through. When its good = like the best high ever; when its bad = it'll make you question reality depending on how far down in the abyss you go.

One thing a lot of guys have is approach anxiety. They have the desire to bang, approach, etc; but their fear makes them freeze up. I've probably approached at least a couple thousand girls in my life, I can't remember one time, whether the girl was interested or not where they were extremely rude or f-d up.

Point being go for what you want, it will never be as bad as you think even if it doesn't go well.

One of the best f-buddies I had was a girl I met twice. The 3rd time I saw her, I walked up to her, isolated her; looked her straight in the eye and said:

"I know you want to fuvk me & that's cool because I want to fuvk you too."

She respond by smiling and saying "wow, that's a very confident thing to say."

I responded by saying "it is, but I know its true, so I'm just putting it out there, here's my # call me when you want it to happen."

She said she "kinda had a bf." I said "great, if your happy stick with it & we can still be friends, but if your not, hit me up and we can have some fun."

She waited a week and hit me up, some of the best shexx I had for a long while.

5) Have you ever gotten friend zoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?

I tend not to beat around the bush, so if I want a girl I go for what I want. Of course there are times it doesn't happen and in those situations I just drop it & either let them on their way or wait for them to come back to me because I never chase.

I dated this actress a few years ago, very sexxy girl that some guys on this site have seen pics of. Anyways long story short she was engaged at the time. Started dropping hints of interest. Eventually she broke it off with her guy, came over we messed around, didn't bang. The next few times we hung out (at her apartment) we get in bed and every time she stops a step or two before I get it in.

She eventually tells me she thought we were just friends having fun, which is all I wanted. I dropped her after that night, she tried to get back in touch a couple times after but I was over all that. That's probably the one semi-FZ story that sticks out in my mind.

In high school I was FZ'd pretty regularly because I was clueless & didn't start really developing physically until I got serious about lifting around 21.


6) Most plates you've spun at one time?

Fraternity days in college I had a few different times where I was actively dating 3-5 girls. Some from different sororities at the same school, along with a couple girls from different cities….. fun times!

7) How do you handle having no plates?

This will sound arrogant since its over text, but I'm at the point now where I know attractive women like me and want me. When I was younger I only pursued women who showed interest in me, which was a "safe" route & most likely necessary for building confidence. Results are the ultimate confidence builder.

Now and for the past 3-4 years I only go for girls I'm really interested in. When I say "really" I don't mean I'm more interested in them than they are in me; I mean the girls I'm truly attracted to.

That can also be a bad thing though, because I am extremely picky and have noticed I will turn down pu$$$y on a platter simply because I think I'm better than the girl. However, I have noticed those girls tend to be the ones that work extra hard to please you sexually and maybe its because they recognize that on some level as well….

Anytime I'm not dating anyone or have any active plates I stay very busy with all my hobbies, friends and work. Huge gym rat, car enthusiast, big on going to sporting events, the beach and trying new things. I feel like the days just race by.


8) Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

I'm a very typical Southern California guy. I dress super casual, was raised in the surf/skate culture. So I'm wearing jeans & a t-shirt most night when I go out. However I always make sure the shirts fit my frame well, I'm pretty muscular so that helps.

Dressy for me would be a button up with designer jeans and nice slip on shoes. I'm casual to the max!

9) For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

Never online dated, probably never will, actually I should never say never.

Vacations have been awesome, particular Spring Break & 3-Day Carnival Cruises, lots of hot, horny girls on those. Social circle has been very good to me as well. Lots of guys are not big on this, but I always end up banging a girl or two that I work with, but I'm very good about following Rollo's model on that. In that I'm very upfront and honest and I find that girl's respect you more, see you as a valuable, wanted commodity and will bang you like a pornstar to try to get you to commit.

Clubs, particularly Vegas & Hollywood have been really good to me too. Girls are pretty aggressive over there from my experience. Going out, getting #'s and finding girls to bang at the bars isn't very difficult. Just takes pure confidence and finding opportunity.

10) Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Yes, fairly recently too, actually did it twice. Both girls came crawling back, sending me a barrage of text messages. I went back with one (mistake) and never talked to the other one. Not because she did anything that horrible, more so because I just wasn't interested in her anymore, had already banged her several times and knew I would never be exclusive to her.

11) Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Honestly I don't know. 5 years ago if you would have asked me that question I would have said "hell no, marriage is for chumps blah blah blah." But it would really really depend on finding that needle in the haystack girl.

My issue has always been this: I can find girls that I find really sexy and want to bang over and over. But there is something missing outside of that.

Then I find quality girls who would be great partners etc, but they just don't get my dhhhick hard! ---- that's a problem!

Where's that ideal mold, hard to find.

12) Ever considered children?

I've had a couple close calls over the years with f-buddies and gf's. I love kids, a big part of the reason I will likely have kids is 2 fold:

1) my dad was totally absent in my life. He was present and all, but just didn't think it was important to spend time with either of his kids. I definitely realize as I've gotten older that this really affected me and my thought pattern when it comes to women & relationships. Since then he has realized the error in his ways and does try to make an effort to be involved in my life, which has been really cool. I was very VERY resentful towards him for a while because not only was he not around as a dad, he was a horrible husband to my mom. I really didn't like him for a long time.

2) I'm the only male in my generation, so I've got a lot of pressure on my nut-sack! haha If I don't have kids, my family's lineage ends…..don't want that to happen. If I do have kids, I see it happening in the next 3-5 years.

13) Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)

Yes, done pretty well in Europe, even though I didn't speak much Spanish or any French. It was all eye contact and body language. Vacations, I mentioned I've done really well on 3 day cruises.

14) What pickup/seduction resources worked for you and which didn’t and were you ever involved in PUA as in seminars etc.?

Never been to a seminar, I would never pay to go to one because I feel like I have always had half natural ability with women, but the other half was missing until I found Sosuave.

I have read Mystery's book (well written and good), Double Your Dating was the OG book that I first read through this site. I've read various articles on the net from time to time, but really all you need is in on this site. Its really all about getting out there and messing up, so you can get closer to being that much better.


15) Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?


I've read a handful of articles in the Bible, all good stuff. As its grown, I haven't taken a look at it in a while.

16) Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline

No, would be interested in potentially do that.


17) Favorite So Suave posters, blogs, sites?

Off the top of my head: Enjoy reading Rollo's stuff, Señor Fingers, Jeffst1980, Bible Belt and a lot of other guys who stopped posting on this site years ago. I really feel like from 2004-2007 there was some really solid posts on this site. Around 2008ish, it changed and brought in a new wave of emo-woe is me kids.

And its brought it to where it is now, with the extreme "all girls are evil" crowd and the guys stuck in the matrix. We lost a lot of even keeled guys over the years.

18) What, if any, books have really shaped your philosophy and what did you learn in them that was eye-opening?

Probably my favorite book I've ever read is 48 Laws Of Power. Just a great read and really applies to so many avenues of life. I always refer back to it when I'm going through different situations in life.

19) You are one of the older members that post from time to time, how did it transition throughout the years. Lastly, how do you think it will transition into the future?

I enjoy teaching, I think I'll always feel indebted to Sosuave. I truly believe without this site I wouldn't have banged some of the girls I really wanted to because I didn't have the knowledge or was too extreme with PUA stuff when I first started.

I think I'll always be around here, I've tended to drift off when I start dating someone seriously, I realize that's a mistake. I think this place is a good head check regardless of how well things are going with any one or multiple girls.

I pretty much log on now to answer PM's I get during the week and will chime in on some interesting threads that I feel I can help in.


20) Any words of wisdom or advice to give out?


Yes, get out of your head. Get out there and don't be afraid to be a man and let it be known that your dhiccck belongs in that pink pu$$$$y. Women love men who are direct and confident.

Also don't be afraid to mess up. Too many guys here try to get everything just right, when they don't have the experience. You NEED TO crash and burn in order to tweak and perfect your gaps.

21) Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

We should come up with a way of qualifying who should be allowed to give advice on various threads. When a newbie is listening to a guy who doesn't really know or is just regurgitating what he has read here, it doesn't serve anyone.

Most newbies are prone to taking everything at face value and then can be shooting themselves in the foot from someone who really doesn't know and is just saying something to say it.


Be careful who you take advice from here! ---- And finally don't fall into the trap of thinking all women are crazy, worthless people who are only meant to bang. With that said, if your under 30-31, don't get involved in serious relationships. Go out, experience life, make new friends everywhere and bang the girls you really want to fuvk.









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