Before I answer these questions I just wanted to say....when I seen these threads popping up I said to myself "Im not going to do one if asked" because it felt like the threads were more about the person answering the questions than the people who would learn from the interview.....but I said to myself when I first came here "If I can do something to help even one person...Im gonna do it". And to see all the positive feedback that the interviews have been getting and the personal request from Frayzer, I owe it to others just to do it.
Here's your questions:
What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
Ive seen SS mentioned before in other "works" and my curiosity got the best of me. I figured I could help people through this venue, so I made an account.
Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
It gets the job done.
What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
BEST: That being a "MAN" or "alpha" is sooooo much more than just how you deal with women. Its a whole MINDSET....a way of viewing the world. The "prize mentality" is certainly part of that....but its so much BIGGER than that.
WORST: I dont remember specific bad advice, but I will tell you this...if someone gets "angry" or "upset" that you dont follow their advice.....its usually not worth a damn. They have ego invested into it, and its more about them than helping you. Me? When I give advice, I hope you follow it....but if you dont....its no skin off my back.
Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
No.
How many chicks have you slept with?
I dont count them.
What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
BEST: Saying "I Love you too" to my girlfriend.
WORST: Was getting a bl0wjob one time, and this girl kept scraping her teeth on my head...either I have a fat d1ck or she wasnt opening her mouth wide enough. This was in my younger days and was too scared about saying anything, thinking she would get mad and stop giving me one all together.....stupid boy
Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?
Used to happen all the time. It where I learned about "No contact" and how its really not about getting women back. Its about you wasting your time with chicks that aren't interested. Them coming back....is just a side effect from you being a cool cad and rolling with the punches.
Most plates you've spun at one time?
I dont count them.
How do you handle having no plates?
Same as I would with plates....but with more free time and money....lol I had too.
These are actually the moments when you really grow. Things may be frustrating but if you can take that frustration and put the energy into something else...say work, fitness, projects, etc. Youve just improved.
Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Same as if I werent meeting chicks. V-Neck T shirt, Jeans, Boots, Camo Hat.
For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..
Bars/Clubs are the easiest by far. Im on a college campus so everyone is pretty friendly once you get past the myth that "approaching is tough because people are mean". Especially when alcohol is involved...everyone wants to talk. Its where I met my current girlfriend....isnt there a saying about not meeting girlfriends at the bar? Lol
Social Circle game is easy as well. Just be a cool dude and dont try too hard. You already have value from being a friend.
Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
Like I said above...this is what its all about. I go NC on every girl that is either:
-not interested
-leaves for another man(ex bf or another guy shes seeing)
-she doesnt meet my standards
-etc
Its never a "hateful" process, I never wish ill will on a girl I go NC on....its just indifference. "It just didnt work out".
Do you ever see yourself getting married?
Yes.
Ever considered children?
Yes. Want atleast one boy and one girl. Hopefully more boys.
Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)
I dont even have a passport.
What pickup/seduction resources worked for you and which didn’t and were you ever involved in PUA as in seminars etc.?
None of them work, their bullsh1t. I remember being in high school and reading "Mystery Method" and trying to learn all those stages and sh1t. Fvck all that, just meet a girl, be a cool cad, and escalate = Game over. Wash, rinse, repeat.
Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
Some of it. Pook definitely stands out as the best author. Great posts and I recommend them to anyone who hasnt read them.
Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
No.
Favorite So Suave posters, blogs, sites?
Rational Male, CH, and recently started going through A Dark Heart. There is another, but I dont disclose it often. Just know that its a little gold nugget and I would not be where I am today, if I had not stumbled upon it.
What, if any, books have really shaped your philosophy and what did you learn in them that was eye-opening?
None.
Why do you keep making mistakes which you have addressed really well in your writing? (especially considering your advantage in the looks department)
I dont know what the he11 this is supposed to mean other than that Frayzer is hitting on me.
Any words of wisdom or advice to give out?
Not specifically.
Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
Its an alright place. Sometimes feel its more about certain posters "being right" than actually helping others, but at the end of the day....its up to the readers and fellow posters to determine someones worth when giving advice....including mine.
