What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?
I had oneitis for this girl, pretty badly actually, and I needed advice on how to get rid of her so I googled girl advice and ended up here on SS.
What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
Best advice: It would actually have to be recent advice. Atom Smasher posted a thread about being
BOLD and it really spoke to me. I applied that to my life and saw instant results
Just be bolder in your actions and words; Don't be afraid to say something, especially sexual things to girls (not on a creepy level) but on a flirty level. Its killer.
Also escalate escalate escalate! I can't stress that enough, strike when the iron is hot or you will miss your chance. Girls will only put up with no sex with you for so long before she gives up and puts you in the friendzone. This also depends on interest level.
Worst Advice: Be a nice guy. Ugh I just remember back in the day I asked this girl out and I got the dreaded "your to nice" line. That opened up my eyes a bit.
Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
Nope.
How many chicks have you slept with?
just hit double digits, 10.
What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
Worst: I tell this story to everyone. One night me and my buddies were hanging out with a group of girls, just driving around, it was pretty dark and we ended up not finding anything to do so we all went home. One of the girls, she was sitting in the front, called up my friend and said "you think JC would be interested in hooking up with HB?". I never saw her so I said why not, got her number and we started texting. Added her on Facebook and she looks really fvcking good! Fast forward to when we hangout, i pull up her to drive way and shes sitting there outside, FVCK looks nothing like her picture. Pretty much a 3 -___-. We go inside to watch a movie, her moves in the kitchen, I spark up a 15 minute conversation with her mom (lol) because I didnt really even want to hangout with this girl anymore. So weree watching a movie, didnt make a single move. After she asks "So you wana go up to my room?" I text my buddy real quick saying "Dude call and pretend your my dad and theres an emergency i need a bailout", he ends up calling me and then I tell her "ah sorry i have to go family emergency"!.
Made it out of there. However, I was big into blogging back then and ended up posting an entry (her best friend followed this blog btw) on how you cant trust girls facebook pictures because they always look worse in real life. Her friend saw and showed the HB how i hung out with. Let the sh1t storm begin! Lets just say when she sees me now she hates my guts :crackup:
Best: I would have to recall one particular night when I was a senior in highschool. So it was about 7pm I head over to this girls house, ive been hooking up with her for a little bit, and we ended up just hooking up then she ended up cooking for me after
nomnomnom. I left around 9pm. Get a text from this girl throwing a party, I head over to her house and get to partying. It was huge, like 50 something people. I ended up making out with 4 different girls at that party.
I was texting this other girl, who will later be that oneitis girl who brought me here, and I split from the party early to go hangout with her. We end up in a parking lot and she kept telling me how great of a "tease" she was. I called her on her BS, as soon as I say that she says "Backseat NOW" demanding voice. We start making out and then she rips, no exaggeration, my pants off. I thought she wasn't going to do anything because she said she was a tease, then she starts sucking me off. Funny part is, I had gotten laid like 4 hours beforehand and literally could not nut whatsoever. She gave up and then started questioning her head giving skills, oops :crackup: .
that night goes down in my own history books.
Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?
Yes, havent had the whole "lets just be friends" line said to me but its happened. I saw no point in getting out of it but I finally recovered from my god damn oneitis after 2 years. She was BPD and it was a nightmare.
Most plates you've spun at one time?
5 or 6, I can't handle more than that. I prefer 1-2.
How do you handle having no plates?
I have a slew of hobbies and usually no time to do them anyway. I'm usually busy with school work, studying or the gym which usually takes up 90% of my day. Even with plates the only free days I have to hangout are thursday and friday.
Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
Clean and simple. A button up, nice shoes and jeans
For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..
Hmm not sure actually. Ive done the whole club thing, I like it but its only good for one night stands. Social circle, eh only if you have a social circle filled with sane women. I went that route a couple of times and it was pretty crappy. I prefer girls in my classes because they are like minded like me in their future.
Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
I've done it multiple times with my only oneitis girl. At first I wanted to send her a message "I changed" message. But then with the help of SS and my friends I finally realized she was poison and dropped her for good. Being BPD she kept sucking me back in every month. Ever since I went full no contact, Ill usually get the "heyyyyyyyyy" text every couple of months. Im not going back to that black hole though.
I actually went no contact on a girl I met at college last fall and that ended up spiking her interest alot. She currently has a boyfriend and keeps asking me to send her nudes of myself..... She did a complete 180. Fvcking weirdo.
Do you ever see yourself getting married?
At the age of 20 I cannot see that happening any time soon. By the time im out of school ill be about 26-27 and then just starting my career so I cannot see that happening until 35+. Also it would have to be with the right girl.
Ever considered children?
Well if I was to get married, then sure! I love kids.
Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)
Nope, look forward to going to study abroad soon though. I am possibly going to Greece for the summer.
What pickup/seduction resources worked for you and which didn’t and were you ever involved in PUA as in seminars etc.?
DJBible and How to be an Alpha Male by John Alexander were my starting points. The book of Pook was a game changer for me as well.
Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
All of it, and the motivational/mood pick up section when im feeling down.
Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
Not that I know of.
Favorite So Suave posters, blogs, sites?
Atom, perseverance , Iceberg, Igetit, Purefilth, NN and anyone else who shows a good positive attitude to what we are all trying to accomplish here.
Thoughts on the Manosphere and its direction?
People need to start grabbing their balls and getting their own sh1t done and stop worrying about what these chicks think! I think we are headed in the opposite direction though.
Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?
Nope, maybe in the future.
What, if any, books have really shaped your philosophy and what did you learn in them that was eye-opening?
Book of pook, DJB and how to be an alpha male really made me do a complete 180.
Any special reason for your So Suave username, why you chose it?
Just a nickname.
Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
I think SS is okay as of now. I think we need to get rid of the trolls, it was not as bad as a couple of months ago, but it would be nice to be troll free.
Also I would love to see it switch into from the "i hate women" mentality to something a bit more positive.
Id also love to see a lot of people stop walking on egg shells all the time and stop worrying about what these women think of them. I see to many threads on "what Do i do next, what do i text her, what does this mean?" It isnt oyur job to figure that crap out, its your job to maintain frame. The women s job is to worry the mans job is to lead and escalate.
