***Official Late Night with Atom Smasher Interview thread***

Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

In your opinion does it get better in regards to chicks with age?

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)

How did you become a mod on SS?

Thoughts on the Manosphere and it's direction?

Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

I'm glad you picked AS. I was thinking the same thing. Look forward to reading this.

I'm in the middle of a big project today and as soon as I'm freed up later I'll answer.

Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

I was certain, beyond any doubt, that there was some kind of "cosmic" force at play that made me completely unattractive to women. I was a typical "nice guy", and didn't have a clue why women didn't seem to like me. I was utterly baffled, and I must have done a Google search after having been at the Speed Seduction site for a while.


What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Best advice: Be sexual, be bold, DO NOT CARE, make every interaction fun. In so doing they will light up every time they see you.

Worst advice: The usual "nice guy" stuff... Flowers, candy, flattery, slavery, etc. This advice usually comes from mothers, sisters, the media, and the educational system. It seems logical, which is why guys buy into it hook, line, and sinker. After all, if every bit of counsel coming in is to be a nice guy, how could things possibly be any different? Hence being baffled by girls who swoon over the "bad boys". The "nice guy" can't comprehend this.


Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

Lurked RSD, Fast Seduction, Girls Chase. I think that SS is the best all-around forum for men to develop every aspect of their lives, not just relationships. I would say, in fact, that SS is more about your relationship with yourself.


How many chicks have you slept with?

Probably about 15. You did mean "at once", right?


What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Best experience: Fourth of July several years ago. Went out in my boat with my girlfriend for lunch, headed back in for gas and dinner in order to go out on the water to see the fireworks that night. Checked my lights at the dock before heading out and my bow light wasn't working. Had a bad connection somewhere between the switch and the light. I took out some spools of wire, took out my tools and completely rewired the circuit while she watched. She was awestruck by that, and I was handsomely rewarded later with fireworks of our own right on the Long Island Sound after the real fireworks were over with. Lesson: Women absolutely love a man who can handle tools and fix things.

Worst experience: 16 years old...Right after having sex with my girlfriend, her mother came home unexpectedly. My girlfriend ran into the bathroom, and the mother caught me buckling my belt buckle in the bedroom. She called her daughter and asked to have me leave. That night at dinner at home was the worst night of my life, waiting for that phone call during dinner. Thankfully, the call never came.

Her dad was the wrestling coach and my gym teacher, and after that episode he kept pairing me up in wrestling with the most brutal kids in the school, LOL. I held my own pretty well though and it only toughened me up.

Actually, that wasn't my worst. My worst was about 2 years ago with a dyed-in-the-wool BPD. These women are absolute monsters, and they can suck the very life-force out of you. Fortunately I recognized what was going on relatively quickly. It was heaven and hell for a few months.


Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?

I think when I was younger and a "nice guy" to a sickening degree, one or two drifted away. I didn't know it was my nice-guyness.


Most plates you've spun at one time?

Three. It was interesting but way too much to keep track of. I keep it to 2 now, or three is they're not that serious.


How do you handle having no plates?

Just working on myself and making myself stronger. I have a very busy life with lots of hobbies and interests so the dry periods are no problem. The dry periods are getting fewer and farther between because I've pretty much figured this thing out.


Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

I really don't go out to meet chicks, if that means clubs and bars. I'm a day game guy. I just always try to look my best. If I'm looking ragged because I'm in the middle of welding something and going to the store, I don't even think of trying to attract women. There is one huge secret to dressing to impress... Shoes. Women are obsessed with shoes, and that includes YOUR shoes. Nice shoes, even if casual, cover over a multitude of other sins.


For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, through family, work or whatever else..

Day, for sure. I don't have a specific technique any more. I just socialize, engage in small talk, and let the opportunities present themselves. Social circle never worked for me except in high school. Online, 100% of the chicks are batsh!t crazy.. every last one of them, even on the "quality" sites. I literally believe 100% are insane. I don't go to clubs or bars. Vacation, everyone's anonymous and things can happen very easily. Nothing through family. Work is starting to become a problem for me because now that I've got game I get a lot of attention. The company inkwell is wide open and it's harder and harder to avoid.


Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Yes, with my BPD a couple years ago. She did everything she could to suck me back into the vortex, and of course at first I would get sucked back in again and again. Finally I initiated complete NC. She tried ferociously to get me to respond to her, but I didn't waver. Now I get a "How are you doing" text every change of seasons. I ignore them even though the real Atom Smasher would like to be polite and reply. But I know the monster that awaits and therefore hold my ground.


Do you ever see yourself getting married?

Yes, at this stage in my life I do. I wouldn't recommend marriage for a young man. There's too much to lose. At my age, I've done it all and I'd like to settle down with a quality women. Chances are high that I'll never find one of the caliber I require, but if I do I'll snatch her up.


Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

A lot of it. I recall it being a good eye-opener, although as I recall there was a lot of back & forth about the merits/demerits of this point or that, which can confuse a noob. I do like Pook's stuff. He was a man of his time. Things are even more challenging today, but Pook was a pioneer and brought men here to a new level of understanding.

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Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Yes. Jophil and I became good friends, and there are a couple others who I must not mention by name. I exchange emails with 5string from time to time. He's a great guy.


Favorite So Suave posters?

I'll probably get the spelling of some of them wrong since I'm doing it from memory:

Nismo, Bradd80, PlayHer Man, (.) (.), Mike32Ct, Boroughs, 5string, Colossus,

Also any of the young guys (late teens, twenties) who value the knowledge of the older generation. Many guys dismiss this knowledge as not applicable for today, but there are a handful of youngsters who understand that wisdom is universal and it can be applied to one's own life effectively even in this day and age. These young guys are the ones who are going to go far in life, for they are watching and soaking in the wisdom that many of their peers dismiss.

I'll come back to this one as there are more and I need to think of them.


In your opinion does it get better in regards to chicks with age?

Most definitely. When you get older you experience an entire universe of nuance in social interactions that you can't even imagine when you're younger. It become easier to not give a sh!t, to avoid investing the ego into things, and to simply do what you want to do without worrying about what others think. It's much easier to convey that you won't put up with any sh!t when it comes to women, and you genuinely feel you can take them or leave them. Sexually, I feel exactly the same as I did in my 20s, so there has been no diminishing at all. I'm very young-looking, and that helps me tremendously in getting younger women. Most women my age gross me out, unless they are exceptionally well-preserved. I would say that most seem like my grand-ma to me. Again, it's probably because I look, act and feel so young.


Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)

Nope, I've been pretty much sticking with the home turf.


How did you become a mod on SS?

The call went out for mods, and I sent Allen a message that if he needed me, I'd be happy to help. A few weeks later I was offered the job. It's one of those jobs where you can't please everybody, there's always somebody who's mad at you, you ban too much, you ban too little, and on it goes. Still I enjoy doing it an I hope in some way I'm giving back to the forum that hes helped me the most.


Thoughts on the Manosphere and it's direction?

I'm running out of time.. I'll get back on this one.


Thoughts on Rollo Tomassi’s book? Have you read it or plan on it?

I bought it. I wish the teeny, tiny font was larger... I've always had bad eyes and the font really is tiny. I've skimmed through it and of course it is filled with the caliber of information we have come to expect from Rollo. I'll be digging in soon.


Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

I think that this is the place to be for any man who wants to understand male/female dynamics. This site will break long-held illusions, and it can be extremely painful to become disillusioned. When the rug of your previous belief system is pulled out from under you, there is often a time of confusion, anger, frustration, etc., but these are followed by practical knowledge that few men posses.

Having and obtaining knowledge is not always a pleasant experience. Knowledge forces us to a higher level of responsibility, whether we want that or not. We are the ones who see the inner machinations of society, and it is not pretty. Although it's an ugly, messy business, our access to these hidden truths will make us better men, and will equip us to make the necessary changes in society. My hope is that men's disgust with the status quo will reach critical mass and start to restore society back to normalcy, where women are happy to be women, where they respect men, and where men take up their mantle of authority without shame and administer this world the way it should be administered once again.

We are the vanguard of this movement, and this is why it's important to bring other men here, and to stand strong against the multitude of societal biases that are amassed against us. We must teach our sons and daughters, and teach other men and women. Life isn't about bedding down as many women as we can. In fact, that is an exercise in dissipation. Life is about standing up with the backbone that our recent forefathers couldn't find, and take back possession of this world. We are making a difference here at SoSuave, of this I'm sure.

Good read until the "saving the world" part... who cares

btw do you have any practical advice for attaining the youth looks that you possess at your age? Is it purely genetic?

The Simple Man said:

Good read until the "saving the world" part... who cares?

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Hmmph, I thought that was the best part.

zekko said:

Hmmph, I thought that was the best part.

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To each his own.

Btw, are you okay with doing an interview?

The Simple Man said:

To each his own.

Btw, are you okay with doing an interview?

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I guess so. I'm no Smasher though.