***Official Late Night with Desdinova interview thread***

Here's your questions:

What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?

How many chicks have you slept with?

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?

Most plates you've spun at one time?

How do you handle having no plates?

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, family, work or whatever else..

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)

Do you ever see yourself getting married (again?)?

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?

Do you think it really gets better with age?

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?

Favorite So Suave posters?

Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)

How did you become a mod on SS?

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?

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What brought you to SS and how did you find the site?

The girl I was engaged to decided that she "needed time to do things on her own". I was devastated. She was my high school sweetheart, so I had no clue how to date women outside of high school. I went to google and typed in "dating tips". I ended up on getgirls.com and read a bunch of tips. Many times while reading the tips, I came across the phrase "Don Juan" and ended up googling that. I found the site in 2001 and I'm still here.

What's the best and or worst advice you've ever received in regards to chicks?
The best: Use Kino. Always assume attraction in the beginning. Be positive, fun, energetic.
The worst: All women are bytches. All women are crazy. Use Peacocking.

Have you ever posted or lurked on other seduction forums?
Yes, but never remained. There's been lots that have come and gone over the years.

How many chicks have you slept with?
Less than 20. That comes from being married once, engaged once before, and the desire to be in LTRs as opposed to ONSs. That number will likely increase very slowly since I've recently been diagnosed with HSV-2. I'm pretty sure I have a game-plan in place to deal with this new piece of information, and I've only begun putting it in place. The next year or so is going to be very interesting.

What was your best/worst experience with a chick? (girlfriend or not)
There's been lots. I had one stalk me after seeing her 3 times, I had one who called 911 just before I banged her, and of course the one who gave me HSV-2, but that's only going to be a problem if I make it out to be one

Have you ever gotten friendzoned by a chick and if so were you able to get out of it or blown out by a chick and recover from it?
I was able to get out of the friend zone once. I had met her shortly after starting to come to this site, and I started using her for practice. She eventually started to find me attractive, and I ended up dating her for a couple of months.


Most plates you've spun at one time?
Four, and that is too much. These days my maximum is usually 2, but I occasionally hit 3 if I'm having an influx of garbage chicks.

How do you handle having no plates?
It really depends on the situation. Sometimes I need to take a break from women because I get frustrated with the large amounts of low-quality ones out there. When I get out of a relationship, I'm very anxious to start dating ASAP and having no plates becomes frustrating.

Dress style for going out to meet chicks?
I've been told I look like Kid Rock, so go with that

For meeting chicks which way is most successful in your point of view and have you tried all venues? Day, Social circle, Online social media/ Online dating, clubs, vacation, family, work or whatever else..
I've tried pretty much all of it. The best route is meeting women through a social circle, and that means not dating anyone who's immediately in it. You can meet friends of people in the social circle, and you can even fvck the ex-gfs of the guys in the social circle. It's the port-hole to finding more quality girls.

Bars usually contain trash, online contains attention wh0res, vacation is a waste of time IMO since you're pressed for time and it's better to fill it with fun instead of dozens of rejections. Work is only good if it's a job you don't care about, and I've never fvcked a family member in my life.

Have you ever went full "No Contact"? (Not expecting "results" of getting a chick back.)
I've done it with most of my exs. Most of them are not worth getting back.

Do you ever see yourself getting married (again?)?
No

Have you read the full DJ Bible? Or some of it/none of it?
I've probably read all of it. Most of the content in it was created when I first joined Sosuave. I read every post in the Tips section, and a large chunk of it ended up in the DJ Bible. I occasionally go back to it when I need a boost-up, especially after a breakup.

Do you think it really gets better with age?
Yes! 11 years ago, I was dating women in the 18-24 age range. Currently, I date in the 19-37 age range. It's a significant amount of more available women, although the women who are closer to my age tend to be more fvcked up in the head.

Have you ever met up with or talked to any So Suave posters offline?
I met one. I can't remember his username, but it was really interesting to discuss game with someone IRL.

Favorite So Suave posters?
Most of my favorites no longer post on this board. Sir Chancealot, Prosemount, SexPDX, RKTek, A-Unit are some of the ones I remember. Some of the currently active ones are Scaramouche, Boilermaker, Danger, 5string, Warrior74, Atom Smasher, just to name a few.


Ever travel to other countries and pick up chicks? (Not necessarily to meet them. Vacation but wound up meeting etc.)
The only time I ever traveled to another country was when I was still married. I generally have no desire to travel at this point in time.

How did you become a mod on SS?
I applied and got voted in.

Thoughts on So Suave itself and ideas for improvement/ last words or comments?
None, but I'll be happy to answer any further questions.

10 Years at SoSuave

This was the first thread I've read coming back here. Every time I would think about my ex, I would re-read your thread. I probably read it half a dozen times, each as refreshing. I just read it again. You absolutely had it much worse than I did and if you were able bounce back and live happy, there should be no reason why I shouldn't. Thanks for writing it.

Great read in the link