Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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- Nov 15, 2004
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Two weeks ago, I went out with this HB8.5. This woman is very attractive and was dating an acquaintance. She seemed to have some interest in me even when she was dating him. A month after they broke up, I went in for the kill. We went and browsed a thrift shop and then went to grab a bite to eat. I honestly forgot to use kino for the duration of the date (I didn't even have to try on the last few dates I've been on.)
When I dropped her off at the end of our date, I didn't get a kiss, nor even a hug. I was kinda shocked. I don't remember the last time I had a date end without any sort of physical contact. I was thinking of NEXTing her until she told me that she had fun. I had a couple of other plates spinning at the time, so I focused on those more.
Over the next couple of weeks, I tried setting up another date with her. Those attempts were greeted with other, more important plans with no counter-offer. As my other plates spun off the table and smashed onto the ground, I began having the desire to push a little harder. The thing about increasing interest in a woman to secure a date is you cannot do it in just a couple of 'killer lines', you have to literally write a fvcking book to accomplish your goal.
So yesterday, I decided to work at raising her IL. I intentionally posted the following on Facebook:
Her: Did you have a bad date?
Me: No, just don't really have the time for it.
Her: I understand
Me: But I won't necessarily turn someone down if they're interested
Her: That's cool
What I did here is make her feel like I was never really all that interested in her. I let that sit with her for the rest of the evening.
I greeted her this morning with a funny text. Eventually, I started teasing her..
Me: Are you being good today?
Her: I think so. Why do you ask?
Me: Just making sure you're not ripping tags off mattresses or putting ketchup packets under car wheels
Her: Nope negative to both!
Me: Then you won't be needing hand cuffs
Her: Aw I'll go punch an old man or something after work
Me: I knew you were evil! You'll get hand cuffs and bent over my knee for that one!
Her: :O That sounds super! I mean awful. I wouldn't like that at all...
Me: Good! I might pull out the whip yet
Now she starts to point out that I'm flirting. But remember, I've sworn off dating for a while!
Her: LOL you're bad teasing me at work
Me: There's no teasing here
Her: No huh?
Me: Nope nope nope. Just making sure you keep those evil little thoughts under control
Her: Ah, doing your civic duty I gotcha
Her: It's been so long since I've had any of that kind of fun I've probably forgotten most of it lol
Me: I'm sure your memory could be jogged, given the right circumstances
Her: Yeah that would be nice, I get pretty lonely
Me: That's no good, you should fix that
Her: I do my best to be social and spend time with friends, not the same as dating someone though.
At this point, I saw an opening to begin elevating the conversation to a sexual level...
Me: Very true. There's nothing like the physical contact with another person, doing things together, laughing with them.
Her: Definitely. Just been a crazy year between losing my grandmother, getting divorced, then the bull5hit with my ex and the dope I dated for a short while before him. Sometimes all feels like a waste of time and energy
NO! YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DRAG THIS CONVERSATION DOWN THE EMOTIONAL TOILET.
Me: I know what you mean. I had a pretty rough year and add on top all the trash I dated. Having a good companion makes the tough times a bit easier. I try not to let it get me down though. I'll eventually find someone who will enjoy having me squeeze them from behind, kiss the back of their neck, and have me whisper in their ear
Her: Meow. Whatcha gonna whisper?
Me: I'll first use her name. Then I'll let her know how much she drives me crazy. Anything after that will be the result of how turned on she's made me solely from the contact of our bare skin
Her: Damn. Think I need to take a cold shower now
...Now, let's make that cold shower worth it
Me: Ever have someone wash your hair or scrub your back, following the freshly cleaned skin with a trail of soft kisses?
Her: Nope, never! Sounds very nice though
Time to bridge the thought of me doing this to her... indirectly of course!
Me: What kind of men have you been dating? I absolutely love the feedback I get when I do stuff like that. And I don't like my showers cold.
Her: Immature ones I think. End up with ones that more need a mom/someone to take care of them than a partner. That's something I have to watch out for though because I am caring and have a strong maternal instinct. Men often take advantage of it.
If there was anything that convinced me that I have a half-decent quality woman here, this was it. Now it's time to push a few more attraction buttons...
Me: I enjoy being the strong one when she's feeling weak, and making her laugh when she's feeling lousy. And of course making her feel loved, appreciated, and sexy with touching that will send goosebumps up and down her arms.
Her: You sound like quite the romantic at heart. I like that.
Now I'm getting the feedback of her showing attraction. The conversation is almost finished.
Her: It's too bad you've given up on dating for awhile, was thinking we could go out again.
After that text message, it was clear that I had accomplished my mission. I set up a date for next Wednesday with no hesitation from her
When I dropped her off at the end of our date, I didn't get a kiss, nor even a hug. I was kinda shocked. I don't remember the last time I had a date end without any sort of physical contact. I was thinking of NEXTing her until she told me that she had fun. I had a couple of other plates spinning at the time, so I focused on those more.
Over the next couple of weeks, I tried setting up another date with her. Those attempts were greeted with other, more important plans with no counter-offer. As my other plates spun off the table and smashed onto the ground, I began having the desire to push a little harder. The thing about increasing interest in a woman to secure a date is you cannot do it in just a couple of 'killer lines', you have to literally write a fvcking book to accomplish your goal.
So yesterday, I decided to work at raising her IL. I intentionally posted the following on Facebook:
Shortly after, I get a text message from her:Gonna take some time off from dating. Lots of other stuff to keep me entertained
Her: Did you have a bad date?
Me: No, just don't really have the time for it.
Her: I understand
Me: But I won't necessarily turn someone down if they're interested
Her: That's cool
What I did here is make her feel like I was never really all that interested in her. I let that sit with her for the rest of the evening.
I greeted her this morning with a funny text. Eventually, I started teasing her..
Me: Are you being good today?
Her: I think so. Why do you ask?
Me: Just making sure you're not ripping tags off mattresses or putting ketchup packets under car wheels
Her: Nope negative to both!
Me: Then you won't be needing hand cuffs
Her: Aw I'll go punch an old man or something after work
Me: I knew you were evil! You'll get hand cuffs and bent over my knee for that one!
Her: :O That sounds super! I mean awful. I wouldn't like that at all...
Me: Good! I might pull out the whip yet
Now she starts to point out that I'm flirting. But remember, I've sworn off dating for a while!
Her: LOL you're bad teasing me at work
Me: There's no teasing here
Her: No huh?
Me: Nope nope nope. Just making sure you keep those evil little thoughts under control
Her: Ah, doing your civic duty I gotcha
Her: It's been so long since I've had any of that kind of fun I've probably forgotten most of it lol
Me: I'm sure your memory could be jogged, given the right circumstances
Her: Yeah that would be nice, I get pretty lonely
Me: That's no good, you should fix that
Her: I do my best to be social and spend time with friends, not the same as dating someone though.
At this point, I saw an opening to begin elevating the conversation to a sexual level...
Me: Very true. There's nothing like the physical contact with another person, doing things together, laughing with them.
Her: Definitely. Just been a crazy year between losing my grandmother, getting divorced, then the bull5hit with my ex and the dope I dated for a short while before him. Sometimes all feels like a waste of time and energy
NO! YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DRAG THIS CONVERSATION DOWN THE EMOTIONAL TOILET.
Me: I know what you mean. I had a pretty rough year and add on top all the trash I dated. Having a good companion makes the tough times a bit easier. I try not to let it get me down though. I'll eventually find someone who will enjoy having me squeeze them from behind, kiss the back of their neck, and have me whisper in their ear
Her: Meow. Whatcha gonna whisper?
Me: I'll first use her name. Then I'll let her know how much she drives me crazy. Anything after that will be the result of how turned on she's made me solely from the contact of our bare skin
Her: Damn. Think I need to take a cold shower now
...Now, let's make that cold shower worth it
Me: Ever have someone wash your hair or scrub your back, following the freshly cleaned skin with a trail of soft kisses?
Her: Nope, never! Sounds very nice though
Time to bridge the thought of me doing this to her... indirectly of course!
Me: What kind of men have you been dating? I absolutely love the feedback I get when I do stuff like that. And I don't like my showers cold.
Her: Immature ones I think. End up with ones that more need a mom/someone to take care of them than a partner. That's something I have to watch out for though because I am caring and have a strong maternal instinct. Men often take advantage of it.
If there was anything that convinced me that I have a half-decent quality woman here, this was it. Now it's time to push a few more attraction buttons...
Me: I enjoy being the strong one when she's feeling weak, and making her laugh when she's feeling lousy. And of course making her feel loved, appreciated, and sexy with touching that will send goosebumps up and down her arms.
Her: You sound like quite the romantic at heart. I like that.
Now I'm getting the feedback of her showing attraction. The conversation is almost finished.
Her: It's too bad you've given up on dating for awhile, was thinking we could go out again.
After that text message, it was clear that I had accomplished my mission. I set up a date for next Wednesday with no hesitation from her