I hate condoms!!!

Reyaj

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I seem to have issues keeping a hard on with a condom on... it sucks because as soon as I take it off and continue foreplay I am hard as a rock!

Has anyone had this issue and have any suggestions?
 

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Yes, had that issue at virginity + 2 months. Solution was viagra and using ultra thin condoms, .002 japanese. Viagra helps at first, then later you don't have to use it.

You can also find girls that you don't have to use condoms with, especially if she says anywhere only not inside me, just stick it inside her mouth once you ready.
 

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This is a common problem and often stems from two things (in my experience).

First it could be a mental problem. You mentally focus on condoms as a negative thing and those kinds of thoughts can make you limp faster than anything.

Second it could be a sizing issue. Size and feel varies person to person and you may be trying to squeeze yourself into a bag that's too small or tight in certain areas!

So, the general fix, I think, is to measure up. Find out your condom size and what options you have. Buy a few and make trying them part of the fun. You can do this alone at home or with a partner.

I have found SKYN to feel very natural, soft and almost like there is nothing there so if that size is right for you I think you should give them a try.
 

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Thanks! I do admit the Magnum Large feel a little better... but still.. your skin is basically covered by something.. there is nothing that can be done in that regard. Its like when I wear the condom I don't feel anything... but when I am going raw it feels so amazing.... so so amazing...

YOu can't honestly say any condom feels anywhere near as good? I am going to go as far as to say masturbating feels better then having sex with a condom on. Its almost all about her pleasure when using a condom I feel.
 

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I would rather lose out on a little bit of pleasure than end up paying child support or catching something nasty
 

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Having sex and knowing that I almost certainly won't make her pregnant makes me feel better than being condom-less and worrying! 100% better.

I don't like Trojans that much. Give SKYN a try, they feel great.
 

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Whenever the thought of going bareback crosses my mind.... I imagine what my **** would look like if someone rubbed sandpaper all over it.....yeah, venerial disease is going to suck worse than that rubber.
 

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SKYN and UltraSensitives are good products by Lifestyles. Best ones for me.
 

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Something that is of great help when using condoms is lubricant. Try it, and you will be amazed at how much better it feels. Sometimes you will even have to check that the condom isn't broken, because it feels like you aren't wearing one.
 

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We have a similar issue, yes I hate it, good thing my partner understands it and will just sort to withdrawal which I do cheat a lot. lol Never thought conceiving is real difficult.
 

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Stort_Brød said:
I would rather lose out on a little bit of pleasure than end up paying child support or catching something nasty
I prefer having sex without a condom, and pull out before ejaculation.

Even better is of course if the girl is on birth control like she should be. Take some goddamn responsibility. But almost no girl I have been with has been on the pill. They are perfectly happy leaving it to the guy to wear a condom, even though it takes away so much of his pleasure. They know guys have no choice, we want sex more than they do, so they can force yet another inconvenience on us and we will have to accept it. After all, why shouldn't we, after sticking our necks out initiating contact and asking for dates, then planning and paying for the dates. It is only fair that we get to pay even more.
 

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I used to think that dudes were just whining unnecessarily when they claimed that sex is so much worse with condoms...then I tried it for awhile and have seen the light. Fvck science for not coming up with a safe, cheap, easy way to turn off fertility and prevent STDs :cuss:
 

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the difference IS like night and day i'd give peolpe that.

but then a child you have to look after FOR LIFE or an STI is not worth some extra pleasure.

And pulling out before coming lololololol... you know precum can make a woman pregnant?
 

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namismybabe said:
the difference IS like night and day i'd give peolpe that.

but then a child you have to look after FOR LIFE or an STI is not worth some extra pleasure.

And pulling out before coming lololololol... you know precum can make a woman pregnant?
Oh no, you added "lololololol", that makes what you say so much more important.

No, it doesn't. It makes you look like an idiot. How do you even spell that out? The first L means "laughing", the second means "loud". Then you add another O and L after that, and keep going, so what kind of sentence is that exactly?

Oh, I see, you weren't thinking that far. You just wanted to write something that makes you look superior. But which actually shows that just parrot what you see unthinkingly.

As for your "gotcha" comment, you think I don't know "precum" can lead to pregnancy? Of course I know that, everyone knows that, so you didn't "win" anything, no matter what the "laughing out loud out loud out loud out loud out loud" spasm is supposed to indicate. I also know that the probability is very small. But you just wanted to look as if you had some superior knowledge, I suppose. Nice try, buddy.
 

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Wolfgang D said:
Oh no, you added "lololololol", that makes what you say so much more important.

No, it doesn't. It makes you look like an idiot. How do you even spell that out? The first L means "laughing", the second means "loud". Then you add another O and L after that, and keep going, so what kind of sentence is that exactly?

Oh, I see, you weren't thinking that far. You just wanted to write something that makes you look superior. But which actually shows that just parrot what you see unthinkingly.

As for your "gotcha" comment, you think I don't know "precum" can lead to pregnancy? Of course I know that, everyone knows that, so you didn't "win" anything, no matter what the "laughing out loud out loud out loud out loud out loud" spasm is supposed to indicate. I also know that the probability is very small. But you just wanted to look as if you had some superior knowledge, I suppose. Nice try, buddy.
er.. no.

In honesty, I was saying you're a fool for pulling out.

So yes, I cannot express my opinion on things, and yes you take quick offence. And oh yes, you think others owe you their time or patience. lol..
 
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