chick wants to meet or not?

pyros

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Hi.

I just met this chick HB7.2 some months ago. We spoke one time for 2-3 minutes.
Then some nights ago I bumped into her in a club. We talked, I teased her a bit, we danced and I got her number. She lives in a village that is 40 minutes away from my city. She lives and works there. She teaches fitness in a public swimming pool in the evenings.I do not want to travel 40 minutes but she has a hot body and nice face so we'll see.

Anyway, two and a half days later I texted her in order to set a date, we had a small convo, she replied in no time, and here it is how it continued:

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(small chitchat)
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me: how old are you? 23? 62?
her: I wish...Im almost 25
her: hahaha, 62? my god, no!
me: good, because 62 is too much
her: yeah, its a bit too much
me: and are you single or seing someone?
her: single
me: aha
her: and whats your age?
me: Im inmortal so it doesnt really matter...
her: haha really? and how many centuries have you
been around?
me: Im 455, but I look like 28.
her: so you're 28? really?
me: you dont believe me?
her: well, I thought you were a bit younger, you look good :p
me: yes, I do
me: so, lets go to grab a drink sometime, shall we?
her: when?
me: let me check my agenda...
me: (today is wednesday) friday or monday is ok
her: bad days
me: why? what are good days then?
her: I mean that I cant make it on those days
me: I know, that why I ask what days are ok for you
her: I dont know yet, maybe sunday. It has to be monday right?
me: what?
her: you just told me that is either friday or monday, right?
me: yes
her: arrrff, and next week is holiday weekend
her: lets talk again and we'll see then
me: right, good night
her: oh, you going to bed? ok, good night


Im not planing on contacting her again. I think if she has any interest, she will contact me.
What do you think?

Thanks.

P.S.
On the other hand I also met a chick which is not as hot as this one but is ok, that is willing to meet with me any day. But shes not as hot as this oneeee :(
Im meeting with her next monday anyway cause she is a HB6.75, and reaaaaally wants to see me but, damn...
 

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Let the fitness chick approach you.

You don't/shouldn't have to travel to her area.
I'm sure she will prefer it if she comes to you since she hangs out in clubs/bars over there.

Keep in mind that you'll probably be sh1t tested about this.

Play them both without fear of the outcome and you'll be golden.
 

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I would not expect her to contact you yet.

Though you don't state what happened in your initial encounter, the text messaging sounded only a little flirty and with her showing about medium interest.

She's intrigued but the hook has not set yet. She's gonna expect you to put in a little more work.

You should sit back and wait for a woman to contact you if she's excited to hear from you, if she offers strenuously to additional dates and works hard to find a mutually agreeable one, and especially if there was some kissing and very high interest expressed upon the first meet.

Women have a smorgasbord of guys passing through their lives daily. They don't have to try, really. At least the one's with the higher SMV.

If she thinks she can get a better man than you, she's not going to contact first. I see nothing in your post that suggest you've spiked her interest where it is through the roof. She'll not let a man she considers to have high SMV out of her reach.

So, my advice is to give it one more shot in a few days. Get her out, and do the usual... be aggressive, kino, tease her, don't take her seriously, make her prove herself to you, don't kiss her azz, be sexual, and so on.

Right now, the fame is you pursuing her and that's normal initially. But you cannot expect that frame just to flip into her pursuing you from just what you posted in your text message. She's nibbling but not yet in that state where she's thinking, "I'd be an idiot to let this one out of my sight."

Get her out, spike her interest and THEN see if she'll do a little work in the chase department.
 

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Your text conversation could have been better. At times i felt you forced a "laconic" vibe when it was uncalled for. And nothing should be a big deal to you so when she cant make it...dont say "why?".

me: how old are you? 23? 62?

Like it^

me: and are you single or seing someone?

Dont ask this....assume shes single. You come from a qualifying mentality with the above statement. It should be the other way around...she should be wondering how many women YOU are seeing.


me: let me check my agenda...
me: (today is wednesday) friday or monday is ok


No need to "check your agenda"...just do it. It comes off as "try-hard" as if your trying to communicate OVERTLY that your a busy man.

me: why? what are good days then?

Bad response as Ive said before. This is why I like to ask "what nights are you free this week?" Then when she gives you a couple days...you pick one. None of this back and forth trying to match schedules. Savy?

her: I dont know yet, maybe sunday. It has to be monday right?

You: "Alright, well whenever you figure your schedule out, go ahead and text me. We'll set something up...looking forward to it."

Just sit back and spin other plates...if shes interested she will contact you. Go out with the HB6 and get some sex.
 

pyros

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the very first time I saw her (some months ago) we just had small chit chat for 2-3 minutes, I found her cute but I had other girls in mind.
For the ones that wanted the previous convo, here it goes complete:



me: hi XX, how are you?
her: hi hi, I just finished gym, Im getting home :)
me: how was the gym?
her: good, Im getting tann
me: yeah, you're pretty tan now
her: yes, Im becoming mulata haha
me: almost like a kitkat hahah
her: how was your day?
me: good, I went to the beach before
her: so you're beoming mulato as well :p
me: Im trying but its not paning out...

me: how old are you? 23? 62?
her: I wish...Im almost 25
her: hahaha, 62? my god, no!
me: good, because 62 is too much
her: yeah, its a bit too much
me: and are you single or seing someone?
her: single
me: aha
her: and whats your age?
me: Im inmortal so it doesnt really matter...
her: haha really? and how many centuries have you
been around?
me: Im 455, but I look like 28.
her: so you're 28? really?
me: you dont believe me?
her: well, I thought you were a bit younger, you look good :p
me: yes, I do
me: so, lets go to grab a drink sometime, shall we?
her: when?
me: let me check my agenda...
me: (today is wednesday) friday or monday is ok
her: bad days
me: why? what are good days then?
her: I mean that I cant make it on those days
me: I know, that why I ask what days are ok for you
her: I dont know yet, maybe sunday. It has to be monday right?
me: what?
her: you just told me that is either friday or monday, right?
me: yes
her: arrrff, and next week is holiday weekend
her: lets talk again and we'll see then
me: right, good night
her: oh, you going to bed? ok, good night
 
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