24.6 5:50
Some people here are so stupid, their message shows nothing but their own stupidity. Ignorant bastards. They need therapies themselves before they should start to give advices to somebody.
Have you ever realized that the moment you start fall deeper into the other, he or she starts looking much better. And the attraction or feelings rise much more higher.
The look that you are talking about is nothing compared to the look when you are in love. Have to noticed? The look that you get from half unknown or unknown people are very momentary. You see her as hot at the next moment.. You have already forgotten about her completely.
The reason they talked bad about your friends look is because they are simply out of their need of drama. They find a good looking and they make a whole drama out of it. And also, when try find a below average looking, also they need to make a big drama out of it, otherwise they cannot get attention.
But this bad looking guy, once he starts to show his status, condfidebt, overall once this guy knows how to dominate the woman, in other words make them fall in love with him, the looks suddenly starts to look very good.
Have you ever noticed how some girl suddenly turned from ugly cvunts to hot biches? For example, you spent three years in high school, you must have noticed this. Some woman in the beginning looked really ugly, but once you started to know her better, she started to somehow look much more hotter. And it is funny, because now the girls you considered hot in the beginning, you start to find weak qualities in them. For example, there is a model, a very underweight and then there is this normal girl; does not have a small body of a models. Depending on the projections, if you have been conditioned to love models and find them as hot, then you will in this case too. Thee are many people who are very repressed towards models. For these people, model body looks like a skeleton. No ass, no tities, simply put, a tall skeleton.
Now, let say you are very conditioned towards models, the whole west is; the east finds models as disgusting, skeletons who does not have money to feed themselves. And then you meet a normal weight with good ass. You then start to know and after a moment you find yourself liking to spent your time around her, you start to fall for her... Suddenly... This girl starts to look like the most beautiful girl in the whole world and her ass has suddenly turned into a hot tight ass. The same girl is there that you was against before you met her, now you have changed your conditions from the model towards this woman, and the funny thing is that the model that you found hot is no longer hot. Rather the bad sides starts to come up. Once you have fallen in love with the normal eright and maybe a few pounds over weight for the tighter asset. Once you fall in love with this girl, she suddenly becomes the most beautiful girl I. Your life and now the model simply looks like a skinny skeleton with no ass, no tities, just cold skeleton. And her face.. Once looked very attractive but now it just looks like a dead face with bones..
Just imagine yourself at this position and it is very easy to do so. If you are I. Love with a woman with a average face shape, no fatties, no bones, she starts to look beautiful and outshine the skeleton model. Now the model has suddenly turned into a very repressive skeleton. But only if you fall in love with the average shaped girl.
In your friends case, he might not look very good for your eyes or the girls' eyes, but that is simply because of their projection and their condition towards a certain face shape. If you are fromeest, then it is most likely the skeleton face that you are conditioned towards. If this skeleton would go to the east, they would not welcome her, she would look like a dead corpse trying to walk. And have you seen how the models walk? If this model goes to walk like that I the east, they would simply think that she is an complete idiot. For god sake, you looks like a dead skeleton already, please try to even walk like a normal human being, and smile! Models does not smile, so they are not very attractive to the east, because in eastern countries, they smile all the time. Whenever passing a neighbour, they smiles. Or whenever the kids comes from school they always treats their parents and smiles to them. So this cold skeleton looking dead corpse who tries to walk like an alien is not very attractive to the eastern society.
In your friends case, he could have shaped his hair a little bit into a western type of hair, and he suddenly starts to look great again. Then a little bit of tanning.. Because the west loves tanning. And if he ws overweight, then a few pounds down and he looks way hitter than before.
My main point simply put was only that if he had other parts that attracted women like confident, social proof and not important women's social proof, or perceived value, his looks would simply rised high in the sky! Have you ever seen some douchebag, jerk looking guy, but still he has some girl saying that he looks so good? Even if he looks like a complete jerk, but if he had other parts that's tracts woman, then from they he gets perceived value and suddenly people will start to think so too. So everything can help. But I say can only, because it can make it worst too.
For example, if people viewed you as good looking. Then naturally everyone would just check every part of your face, what exactly is so good looking? And if there are people who are conditioned towards a complete different face type, they will not find you attractive. And the other thing is tat they will start to compare you. They will compare you to someone even more hotter than you. And they can only be for or against. If they are for the other, the they will be against you. I just found something funny recently. I have been watching the fans of socccers reaction I their favorite players. Now they start to compare two best players in the world, messi and Ronaldo. And how you seen it? You must have, you were a good football player.
Now Ronaldo and messi, we all know they are the two best players in the world. But the fans of Ronaldo says that messi is **** and the fans of Messi says that Ronaldo is the worst player in this whole century. Both fans now finds every single cons of the player and they make it the worst possible. They say that Ronaldo fights, gets angry, dives and is arrogant - that's why he is the worst player in the world. Now there were in the news.. just lately that the players killed the referee for some bad decisions.. That is a real stupidity. Those should be banned from football, and given the title of the worst player of the whole history. And they say that messi would not be able to do anything without Xavi and iniesta. And there are good rationalazitation: messi cannot do Anything with Argentina - because there is no Xavi and Iniesta. Basically they give him the puppy title. They say that messi is Xavia and iniestas puppy who does whatever Xavi and iniesta decides him to do.
You say that girls talk good about your looks. Are you sure about it? They might like your charm, personality and from that they build a perceived value. They like you so, they must like your face shape too. It is just a face shape!
You also have many haters. You have not simply emblem aware of it. Those who hates you tries to avoid you, they never say anything to you. Only those who loves you tells you bad you look. Because out of compassion they wanna tell you the truth so you can do something about it. Now it is very tricky. They can also tell you that you look good just to avoid hurting you. Now there might have been authentic compliments, don't get too over confident about it, overconfident is never enough, it makes you not see your flaws that you could easily fix. Thee might have been authentic compliments and then you simply decided that that is the case. Especially those who have suffered the inferior side of the society's model shape, will take compliments very seriously. They feel accepted and they will rationalize that it is the way! It must be the way! Now if we take a look about people who have always from their very childhood gotten compliments. They never get overconfident over those compliments. They never suffered any inferior complex so they aren't even aware of the compliments. But if you compliment a bad looking person, he will be so happy, he might just cry!
You must also remember that there are compliments just to use you or to shut you up. Many times it happens that women compliments you just to get something from you. Maybe your fame or maybe your money.. Your other friends that really looks good.. You never tell your mother the truth, eventough she is really ugly, or a close friend, uncle, aunt.. You never tell them the truth. And if you tell your mother the truth, she won't feed you milk anymore!
So be very careful with what people say, especially women. You cannot really know wherever they really did not like your friends look or they simply was jealous of him having something far greater than their own boyfriends!
And who are you to decide that you face is 9/10? Unless you have got the whole worlds report, person by person, can you know the accurate measurements. And I tell you something, if the west likes your face shape, the east hates it. Western style and eastern style are completely different and they never fit each other. They never like each others style.
