buzzin_frog
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Buzzin' Frog's 10 Golden Rules For The DJ Mindset
A lot of guys who are trying to score with women don't have the fundamentals or the mindset to get the job done!!
they just kind of blindly go through the dark hoping to get good results...that will never work!!!
A good DJ should always have the right mindset and have a game plan with the particular chick you are trying to score with...that is the essential part of your success!!
A lot of guys do have the right mindset..... but they quickly throw it out the window for a chick they like or when the chick starts to lose interest in them..... that quickly spells doom because they are either dumped or turned into a beta!!
Every great DJ follows the same basic outline and principles of the DJ philosophy.....but it is up to each individual man to gain his own experience and create his own gaming style that works for him
Reading great advice is always good, but you need to gain experience through your own trial and errors before you can be a success
Your own experience is better than any advice that anybody can ever give you....because the advice that someone is giving you might not even work for you!!
Acquiring the right DJ mindset, gaining knowledge through experience, having a plan, while keeping all those in check will guarantee that you will have success with women.
Below is the 10 Golden Rules that you should adopt and use anytime that you are dealing with women!!
The DJ mindset, goals, missions, objectives, attitudes you should have to maximize your dating results
Rule #1. Remember that your goal in dating is to bang as many chicks as you can
Rule #2. Your objective is to spend the least amount of time, money, and effort on women
Why spend more time and money on chicks to obtain your goal when you don't have to? that is ridiculous!!! But yet, I see guys giving outdated advice and guys doing the wrong things that prolongs the intended goal ...you are just wasting your time!!
Uninterested chicks won't fvck you, but they will be happy to let you spend your money on them ....don't waste your time, effort, and money on chicks that won't put out or go out with you....Skip the Flakes and Fvck the Dates!!
Chicks that are attracted to you, will fvck you....so you don't have to spend any extra effort or money on them to obtain your goal....you should be getting as much as you can out of them, while giving them as little as possible....Why do more when you don't have to?
Rule #3. Your mission is to escalate the chick as soon as you possibly can
Waiting and being passive never helps anybody...in fact, it slows you down and hinders your ability to achieve what you want to accomplish....which is getting laid!!
This goes for waiting too long after you get her number.....and especially with kino!!
Escalation should start as soon as you are textng/calling her before your date
The faster you get the chick hot for you, the sooner you will get her into bed!!
Rule #4. Never Accommodate Your Date
This should always be your attitude
Anytime you allow the chick to flip the script by changing your date...you will get burned!!
Guys will allow women to change the day/time/location on them...guys do that because they are afraid they will lose the date...so out of fear, these men accept what these women tell them...these guys usually get flaked on or don't get laid...This is your date...don't let it be her date...never just try to accommodate your date for her sake...you will get burned!!
Guys will do this all the time.....they will try to accommodate the chick every step of the way just to get a date...they will change their own plans to fit her needs...they will change their own original date just to please her....they will even accept her date offer making it her date instead.
An example would be: a guy asks a chick out on a date....she texts him and tells him she can't make it...she texts him to meet her at this place or on this day instead....being the beta guy that he is, he accepts her demands because he is desperate to have that date....that doesn't work out for the guy very well because she sees him for the AFC he is...his date now becomes her date....she has flipped the script on him!! don't let that happen!!
Remember interested chicks won't lose interest in a guy she likes....keep it that way by staying in control and set up your date to fit your needs, not her's.
Rule #5. Never worry about what a chick may/may not think about you
This a big one because guys will start thinking negative...then they will become negative with their thoughts and actions...because they are worried about what a chick may/may not be thinking about them!!
Doing this, will put you behind in the game... you start to hand over your power to her and put her above you...therefore, you become weak and will only try to please her because you want her to like you...also, you start putting her above you which is wrong.....this is beta behavior at it's best!!
I see a lot of fearful advice given out with this same mentality...."Don't text her because she might think this"...."Don't take her out for drinks, she will think it's "too forward"...Don't initiate kino, she won't like it"
That is all beta/AFC thinking.... because right off the bat, you are already worried by reinforcing negative ideas in your head!!
over thinking and over analyzing women will put you behind and out of the game!!
AFC men are always trying to please a chick at any cost because they are insecure!!
Rule #6. Never give up anything for a woman
Men will sacrifice their own time/money/happiness/goals/lives/independence/dignity/success in order to keep a woman, make her happy, or getting her to like you....Never do that!!.....some guys will always put a chick's needs/wants before their own because they want to please them or are afraid of losing them....that is wrong!!...you will end up being miserable after she dumps you or doesn't appreciate what you have done!!
You are also setting the bar super high by doing that...she will then expect you to be doing this all the time for her...then she will get mad as soon as you don't deliver!!
She wouldn't do it for you...so why would you do it for her?
Your own happiness, goals, achievements, success should always come first.... you will get burned if you keep putting her's first!!
Rule #7. Skip the Flakes and Fvck the Dates
If you get flaked on, get an excuse, or are getting low IL from her, take that as a lack of interest and put her at the bottom of your list....make her show you some interest before you set up another date....wasting your time asking her out again or 4 days later, isn't going to help when she has no interest in you!!
Uninterested chicks won't fvck you, no matter what you say or do....so why the hell are you spending so much time trying to get them out? your goal is to get laid....you can't accomplish that goal with an uninterested chick....you are wasting your time!!
Spend your time with interested chicks, ones that will eventually put out....you should be dating smart, not dating desperate by entertaining chicks who don't really give a sh!t to be with you...because nothing is going to happen!!
Rule #8. Your mission and objective should be to have a game plan set up before your date
You should know enough about this chick already going into your date, so you can start your escalation into getting in her into bed...Remember the early bird catches the worm!!
Going in cold and blindly stumbling in the dark never works out well
Be the man with the plan, know what you are going to do, game her, make some changes if necessary, start the escalation of getting her into bed
Every good team has a game plan going into their game....you should be doing the same on your dates with women!!
Rule #9. Don't spread yourself too thick or too thin
Never do too much of anything because you will end up overdoing it....that will lead to problems down the road when she loses interest in you.
This goes for guys who try to overdo their ****y and funny on a chick...they go overboard and they end up looking stupid, especially if they aren't naturally funny....the right amount always works the best!!
Always have chicks ready to go in your rotation in case you need to let one go...or you end up losing one.....never spread yourself too thin, especially with women!!
A good baseball team always has a strong starting rotation and so should you with chicks!!
Rule #10. Don't drive down AFC Road
Never allow a woman to turn you into an AFC...whether it is asking for a date, in dating, a relationship, or marriage....women will try to manipulate you into doing what they want...lots of men are prone to doing that....once you get behind the wheel driving down AFC Road.....you will soon be the chump driving off the cliff....then it will be over for you when you get turned down or dumped for being an AFC...don't let this happen to you!!
A lot of guys who are trying to score with women don't have the fundamentals or the mindset to get the job done!!
they just kind of blindly go through the dark hoping to get good results...that will never work!!!
A good DJ should always have the right mindset and have a game plan with the particular chick you are trying to score with...that is the essential part of your success!!
A lot of guys do have the right mindset..... but they quickly throw it out the window for a chick they like or when the chick starts to lose interest in them..... that quickly spells doom because they are either dumped or turned into a beta!!
Every great DJ follows the same basic outline and principles of the DJ philosophy.....but it is up to each individual man to gain his own experience and create his own gaming style that works for him
Reading great advice is always good, but you need to gain experience through your own trial and errors before you can be a success
Your own experience is better than any advice that anybody can ever give you....because the advice that someone is giving you might not even work for you!!
Acquiring the right DJ mindset, gaining knowledge through experience, having a plan, while keeping all those in check will guarantee that you will have success with women.
Below is the 10 Golden Rules that you should adopt and use anytime that you are dealing with women!!
The DJ mindset, goals, missions, objectives, attitudes you should have to maximize your dating results
Rule #1. Remember that your goal in dating is to bang as many chicks as you can
Rule #2. Your objective is to spend the least amount of time, money, and effort on women
Why spend more time and money on chicks to obtain your goal when you don't have to? that is ridiculous!!! But yet, I see guys giving outdated advice and guys doing the wrong things that prolongs the intended goal ...you are just wasting your time!!
Uninterested chicks won't fvck you, but they will be happy to let you spend your money on them ....don't waste your time, effort, and money on chicks that won't put out or go out with you....Skip the Flakes and Fvck the Dates!!
Chicks that are attracted to you, will fvck you....so you don't have to spend any extra effort or money on them to obtain your goal....you should be getting as much as you can out of them, while giving them as little as possible....Why do more when you don't have to?
Rule #3. Your mission is to escalate the chick as soon as you possibly can
Waiting and being passive never helps anybody...in fact, it slows you down and hinders your ability to achieve what you want to accomplish....which is getting laid!!
This goes for waiting too long after you get her number.....and especially with kino!!
Escalation should start as soon as you are textng/calling her before your date
The faster you get the chick hot for you, the sooner you will get her into bed!!
Rule #4. Never Accommodate Your Date
This should always be your attitude
Anytime you allow the chick to flip the script by changing your date...you will get burned!!
Guys will allow women to change the day/time/location on them...guys do that because they are afraid they will lose the date...so out of fear, these men accept what these women tell them...these guys usually get flaked on or don't get laid...This is your date...don't let it be her date...never just try to accommodate your date for her sake...you will get burned!!
Guys will do this all the time.....they will try to accommodate the chick every step of the way just to get a date...they will change their own plans to fit her needs...they will change their own original date just to please her....they will even accept her date offer making it her date instead.
An example would be: a guy asks a chick out on a date....she texts him and tells him she can't make it...she texts him to meet her at this place or on this day instead....being the beta guy that he is, he accepts her demands because he is desperate to have that date....that doesn't work out for the guy very well because she sees him for the AFC he is...his date now becomes her date....she has flipped the script on him!! don't let that happen!!
Remember interested chicks won't lose interest in a guy she likes....keep it that way by staying in control and set up your date to fit your needs, not her's.
Rule #5. Never worry about what a chick may/may not think about you
This a big one because guys will start thinking negative...then they will become negative with their thoughts and actions...because they are worried about what a chick may/may not be thinking about them!!
Doing this, will put you behind in the game... you start to hand over your power to her and put her above you...therefore, you become weak and will only try to please her because you want her to like you...also, you start putting her above you which is wrong.....this is beta behavior at it's best!!
I see a lot of fearful advice given out with this same mentality...."Don't text her because she might think this"...."Don't take her out for drinks, she will think it's "too forward"...Don't initiate kino, she won't like it"
That is all beta/AFC thinking.... because right off the bat, you are already worried by reinforcing negative ideas in your head!!
over thinking and over analyzing women will put you behind and out of the game!!
AFC men are always trying to please a chick at any cost because they are insecure!!
Rule #6. Never give up anything for a woman
Men will sacrifice their own time/money/happiness/goals/lives/independence/dignity/success in order to keep a woman, make her happy, or getting her to like you....Never do that!!.....some guys will always put a chick's needs/wants before their own because they want to please them or are afraid of losing them....that is wrong!!...you will end up being miserable after she dumps you or doesn't appreciate what you have done!!
You are also setting the bar super high by doing that...she will then expect you to be doing this all the time for her...then she will get mad as soon as you don't deliver!!
She wouldn't do it for you...so why would you do it for her?
Your own happiness, goals, achievements, success should always come first.... you will get burned if you keep putting her's first!!
Rule #7. Skip the Flakes and Fvck the Dates
If you get flaked on, get an excuse, or are getting low IL from her, take that as a lack of interest and put her at the bottom of your list....make her show you some interest before you set up another date....wasting your time asking her out again or 4 days later, isn't going to help when she has no interest in you!!
Uninterested chicks won't fvck you, no matter what you say or do....so why the hell are you spending so much time trying to get them out? your goal is to get laid....you can't accomplish that goal with an uninterested chick....you are wasting your time!!
Spend your time with interested chicks, ones that will eventually put out....you should be dating smart, not dating desperate by entertaining chicks who don't really give a sh!t to be with you...because nothing is going to happen!!
Rule #8. Your mission and objective should be to have a game plan set up before your date
You should know enough about this chick already going into your date, so you can start your escalation into getting in her into bed...Remember the early bird catches the worm!!
Going in cold and blindly stumbling in the dark never works out well
Be the man with the plan, know what you are going to do, game her, make some changes if necessary, start the escalation of getting her into bed
Every good team has a game plan going into their game....you should be doing the same on your dates with women!!
Rule #9. Don't spread yourself too thick or too thin
Never do too much of anything because you will end up overdoing it....that will lead to problems down the road when she loses interest in you.
This goes for guys who try to overdo their ****y and funny on a chick...they go overboard and they end up looking stupid, especially if they aren't naturally funny....the right amount always works the best!!
Always have chicks ready to go in your rotation in case you need to let one go...or you end up losing one.....never spread yourself too thin, especially with women!!
A good baseball team always has a strong starting rotation and so should you with chicks!!
Rule #10. Don't drive down AFC Road
Never allow a woman to turn you into an AFC...whether it is asking for a date, in dating, a relationship, or marriage....women will try to manipulate you into doing what they want...lots of men are prone to doing that....once you get behind the wheel driving down AFC Road.....you will soon be the chump driving off the cliff....then it will be over for you when you get turned down or dumped for being an AFC...don't let this happen to you!!
