Need some Guidance

Ok so I'm really interested in a girl from my class, she's my age, very beautiful, and has a boyfriend.

We are close, out of school I'm the one that some times text's her and in school in some class's (the ones that we can do this) she asks me to sit next to her, she talks to me, play's a little with me (if were close to each other she star's messing around like playing with my hair or ears, etc...) when we are together in class's I play a lot with her, I hold her hand things like that, some times when I play with her nose or something like that, she tells me to stop but I continue doing it and she lets me, some times I kiss her in the face (I really need some help with noticing when a girl want's me to kiss her because I don't really get those signs, I'm really a loser in noticing signs like when a girl is interested or wants me to do something more), then she just puts her head and body against me (I don't know if I'm expressing this part in the right way), she knows that I'm interested in her.

I also need some guidance with texting because yesterday day I told her the following things:

Me - Are you better?
Her - Yes and you?
Me - I'm normal. So why didn't you go to class?
Her - I didn't want to.
Me - It was boring without you, didn't had anything to do
Her - Was it boring without me?
Me - Yes, I missed you
Her - :3
Me - I want you close to me x(
Her - :/ oh
Me - Even with that face I wan't you <3
Her - My face is cute
Me - By some chance it became cute, but It was only for a chance x3
Her - =3
Me - I love playing with that nose xD
Her - =--3
Me - Such a cute noze <3
Her - no, no :3
Me - Yes yes cute , I love taht nose x3
Her - Own =-3
Me - But I like its owner even more >-< (and this was the part I think I blew it)
Her - ok
Me - Why do you get those headaches?

No answer, and i didn't text her anymore

Does that ok means something bad or is it something else?

I really don't want to let this girl go, I'm in the last weeks of school, And I'm only going to have like 4 classes per week and on monday I don't have any, and after this we are going to different schools.

I'm really a noob at understanding girls so go easy on me, I read some things of the DJ Bible that helped me a lot before at overcoming a situation that was doing me bad and that was very stupid, but at this I don't really get it

She has a boyfriend and she's not into you. You can tell by the way she abruptly doesn't respond to your advances.

NorwegianDJ said:

She has a boyfriend and she's not into you. You can tell by the way she abruptly doesn't respond to your advances.

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I don't know, I think I'm going to try it anyway, I've nothing to lose by doing this, but could someone give me some advice on how to understand body language (like knowing when a girl wants to kiss, those kind of things), and on texting. I'm going to look in the DJ Bible for body language, but anyway I would apreciate if someone shared some knowledge.

Ok going to paste here some more info my texting with her from yesterday (for you and others that read this, to tell me what do you think, about it, and what are your conclusions, and if you still think the same thing:

She asked me many times to go to the prom dance with her, but I didn't want to go so I refused, I told her to take her boyfriend the second time she tried to make me go with her, and she responded that she wanted to take someone from school, I told her to take one of the guys from our class, but she told me that she didn't want to take any of them because they are a**holes, she insisted on me going with her for three weeks (counting this week) even in the day before the prom, the prom dance was yesterday but she didn't go, we where talking by sms, and she told me that she didn't feel like going and her mother got home and she had to make dinner.

I'm going to put here some of the text from yesterday: (Sorry for the long text and to the ones that lose time reading it a big thanks )

Some times she texted me while I was writing an response to a previous sms, and I took some time to respond some times, so that the reason why some times there is a message from her that has two questions, or that kind of things.

03:21pm to 03:28pm

Me - What are you wearing?

Her - Black and short, with some details of renda (I don't know how to translate this renda, its some dress texture) why?

Me - Just wanted to know, you must look even more beautiful in it.

Her - Thank you

07:27pm to 08:11pm

Me - I hope you have fun. kiss xP S2

Her - Thank you

Me - What?

Her - I don't feel like going, and muscuta (a girl that is her friend) is insisting that I go to the prom just to please her.

Me - But you don't feel like going why? Yesterday you wanted to go.

Her - I didn't, I just wanted to please her

Me - Just go to it for a while, them if you still don't feel like staying there, just leave.

Her - Yes.

Me - There is only one thing that makes me sad.


09:44pm to 01:04am

Her - What makes you sad?
I didn't go, because my mother got home and I had to make dinner for her.

Me - What was making me sad, was the fact of I wasn't goign to be the one taking you.

Her - I asked you, but you didn't want.
Muscuta must be mad with me, because I sed at the last minute that I wasn't going because my mom got home, I think she didn't believed me

Me - Because I didn't want to go, I'm not fit for these kind of things, and them probably i was going to end up ruining things by doing something wrong.

Her - Something wrong like what? You would stay with me playing with me nose (just go to the first post and read the texting part, to understand this)

Me - She's mad, after she calm's down you talk with her and she will get over it, probably she's going to be alone x/

Me - You don't like when I play with it. Its better if you don't know.

Her - Ahaha actually i like it when you play with it. She said that if I didn't go with her that she wouldn't talk with me ever again.

Me . Yeah right. She will get over it, just don't text her asking her things about the prom today, just talk with her tomorrow.

Her - I'm not going to text her.

Me - It's better that you don't.

Her - Yeah it's better! I didn't want to go but she said that she wouldn't go if It didn't go, that's the reason I paid! (The ones that have gonne to the prom, had to pay 5€, another of the reasons I didn't want to go, 5€ REALLY!!?? OMG WT*) When my mom got home she scared me, but muscuta didn't believe me.

Me - Because you didn't want to go, and then that happened, and she thinks that it is an excuse, it's normal, maybe she didn't go.

Her - Even if it was and excuse, she had to understand my side! She said that she only wanted to go for an hour, just to see how it is.

Me - Even if she gone to that, she must have left by now, maybe she's still there shaking her ass xD
She's dacing creu (just see this to undestand whats creu https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4f78FSSgHk) with Ashiv

Her - Ahaha that would be fun

Me - Yeah xD , them on the middle of the dancefloor, everybody looking at them. Romy (a teacher from hell, I hate her) doing creu in Gonçalo revealing that her hate for him was really love.

Her - UIIII
And you dancing pimba music

Me - If were going to dance, it would be one of those slow musics to dance with another person and I was only going to do it with one person.

Her - Why did you leave LP classe yesterday?

Yeah right

Me - For the same reason that made me not wanting to go to the prom, and like I said, its better that you don't know it.
I would dance that and it would be with you.

Her - I want to know it!
It would be cool to dance with you =3 (this smiley it's a good smiley, to the ones that don't know it)

Me - I don't think its a goo idea for you to know

Her - I want to know, trust me.

Me - Its a stupid thing.
I don't like it when someone touch's you in a different way, that makes me feel rage, and yesterday it gave me rage when misha touched you, rage in a way that it gave me an headache, so I decided to leave class to get some air and distract my mind with other things.

Her - He was only touching my arm, I tough that you weren't feeling well. Are you very jealous?

Me - No, but I used to be.

Her - It seems like that you still are.

Me - Why?

Her - Because you felt rage just because misha touched me.

Me - Its not the touching, its the way he did it, I told you that it was a stupid reason.

Her - It was a normal touch, he always touched me like that! And yesterday he told me that I was like a sister to him!

Me - Enough, I told you that it was stupid reason, what do you want me to do, I'm an idiot.

Her - --....-- you're not an idiot

Me - Yeah right.
Muskuta must be there by now, she went some time ago.

Her - I'm sure that she didn't go, the party must be ending by now. The ones that I usually go, start at 1am, this one must be lame.

Me - It's not a party, its a dance.

Her - It's not a dance, if it was one the girls wouldn't go in short dresses with everything showing, its one of the reasons I didn't go, I didn't find a decent long dress to wear, and I didn't want to go in a short one, its ordinary , and I'm not ordinary.

Me - You in a long dress all arranged x3 its nice.
It's a school party

Her - Yeah the boys should wear suit and Tie.

Me - Blac tie and suit x[ Me with a tie f**k that.

Her - with the hair like superman, I would die if I saw that

Me - You like my super hair

Her - I love it, its so super

Me - UIII xD You are still going to see it next week

Her - And my nose is going to have your hand on it.

Me - You like it

Her - :3

What are you doing?

Me - Going to get some cakes.

Her - at this hour?

Me - Yes I have a cake factory near my home.

Her - Bring some for me I want it =33

Me - Muscuta said that it was cool

Her - Did she go?

Me - UIII Do you want croissant with chocolate, or berlin ball

She told me that she did.

Her - Everything :3

hum nice.

Me - It would be good if I could go give you some.

Her - send them with a pigeon! =>

Me - Mail pigeon xD kkkkkk

Her - kkkkk

Me - I'm going to sleep S2

Her - Me too, kiss, good night

FantasPT said:

Ok so I'm really interested in a girl from my class, she's my age, very beautiful, and has a boyfriend.

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You text her too much. My overall thought from all the texting was that you were one of her girlfriends. Which probably seems right since she has a boyfriend already.

The only way to get with her is once she drops her boyfriend. Until then, game other girls.

Blistex said:

You text her too much. My overall thought from all the texting was that you were one of her girlfriends. Which probably seems right since she has a boyfriend already.

The only way to get with her is once she drops her boyfriend. Until then, game other girls.

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Yeah I think you're right, and I'm getting advices telling me to just go get other girls because this one doesn't want anything, maybe I'll keep her as backup for when she doesn't have a boyfriend.

I'm really starting to think that moving forward and leaving this one is the best thing, but I'll keep what you said in mind.

Thanks