FR: "Put your number in my phone"

Before I being, I just want to say that I post sparsely on this forum, but I've been reading this forum for about a year now. Anyway, I've been lately inspired by two threads:

1. BeginningDJ's journal: It's very well written man. You need to update that thing. I'm contemplating starting one with the same format.

2. This youtube link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA

The second one being what this FR is for. When I watched that video, I was impressed by Vitaly's confidence. I was equally impressed by how often it seemed to work.

A few of my coworkers decided we were going to try this new bar in town after work. I told my coworkers about the video, and said I was going to try it when we went out. I did this to create accountability for myself. 6PM isn't the greatest time in the world to pick up girls, but since this was more of a test anyway, I figured wth.

So we walk in the hostess sits us, cute redhead. I look around, and there aren't many girls there at the time (it was just after 6). After about 30 minutes i decide, I'm going to try it on the hostess. One of my coworkers bet $5 that she blows me off.

I accept, and head out to the restroom. I wasn't sure how it would turn out, but on the way back, this manager, who was hot, said "hey!" and gave me a hard look up and down. If she didn't have a ring on, I would have done it with her right then and there. However, the exchange supercharged my confidence. I was ready.

After a few more minutes, she walks past us, and this dialogue happens...
Me: Hey.
Hostess: Hi. Do you need something?
Me: Yeah. Put your number in my phone.
Hostess: You really expect me to just give you my number like that?
Me: Yes.
Hostess: It takes a lot more than that to get my number.
Me: Is that right?
Hostess: Yeah. I've got stuff to do.

She then walks away. My coworkers are letting me have it. I told them that it's cool, even MJ missed his shots sometimes. Fear of rejection is something that I've struggled with in the past, but I think that this method of number closing is so bold that actually having the balls to attempt is satisfying enough.

But then 10 minutes later...

Hostess: (touches my shoulder) I'll be right back.
She then goes to a few groups to get their names for seating.

5 minutes later...

Hostess: Alright. Are you ready?

I thought about being a hardass and insisting that she type the number in a la the video, but I typed it in, which was a good decision, because another girl texted me as I was typing the number.

The look on my coworkers' face was priceless. When she smile and walked away, the guy who bet me slides the $5 to me.

Pure win. If you're reading this, thanks Vitaly!

IronDJ said:

Before I being, I just want to say that I post sparsely on this forum, but I've been reading this forum for about a year now. Anyway, I've been lately inspired by two threads:

1. BeginningDJ's journal: It's very well written man. You need to update that thing. I'm contemplating starting one with the same format.

2. This youtube link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1mRM1VwUiYA

The second one being what this FR is for. When I watched that video, I was impressed by Vitaly's confidence. I was equally impressed by how often it seemed to work.

A few of my coworkers decided we were going to try this new bar in town after work. I told my coworkers about the video, and said I was going to try it when we went out. I did this to create accountability for myself. 6PM isn't the greatest time in the world to pick up girls, but since this was more of a test anyway, I figured wth.

So we walk in the hostess sits us, cute redhead. I look around, and there aren't many girls there at the time (it was just after 6). After about 30 minutes i decide, I'm going to try it on the hostess. One of my coworkers bet $5 that she blows me off.

I accept, and head out to the restroom. I wasn't sure how it would turn out, but on the way back, this manager, who was hot, said "hey!" and gave me a hard look up and down. If she didn't have a ring on, I would have done it with her right then and there. However, the exchange supercharged my confidence. I was ready.

After a few more minutes, she walks past us, and this dialogue happens...
Me: Hey.
Hostess: Hi. Do you need something?
Me: Yeah. Put your number in my phone.
Hostess: You really expect me to just give you my number like that?
Me: Yes.
Hostess: It takes a lot more than that to get my number.
Me: Is that right?
Hostess: Yeah. I've got stuff to do.

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Direct and straight to the point.

No negging.
No teasing.
No "Dhvs" (Well actually,you being confident was a DHV.)
No kino
No tapdancing and pretending to be her friend for weeks and weeks and weeks while secretly hoping she'll go out with you.....just 100% straight fearlessness and boldness. Your confidence won her over.


Heh,funny how she said that it'd take more than just you telling her to put her number in your phone when in reality,THAT'S ALL it took. :crackup:


Plus 1 rep.

I've seen this work. I bet someone at a bar to do it, same way. Two girls sitting at a bar. Conversation something like:

Friend: (walking up to bar) Hi Ladies
Girls: Hi
Friend: (extends phone) Put your numbers in my phone
Girls: What? Are you serious?
Friend: (nods)
Girls: OK
Friend: (takes back phone)
Girls: Is that your pickup line?
Friend: No I wanted your numbers (walks away)

He got both numbers and later on they both came up to him. Also I bought him a beer (to settle the bet).

This is awesome, I'm going to try this ASAP

Igetit! said:

Direct and straight to the point.

No negging.
No teasing.
No "Dhvs" (Well actually,you being confident was a DHV.)
No kino
No tapdancing and pretending to be her friend for weeks and weeks and weeks while secretly hoping she'll go out with you.....just 100% straight fearlessness and boldness. Your confidence won her over.


Heh,funny how she said that it'd take more than just you telling her to put her number in your phone when in reality,THAT'S ALL it took. :crackup:


Plus 1 rep.

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Appreciate it. Confidence is key to making this work.

@Uncharted - It seemed like such a straightforward move, that I was sure that it has worked countless time. Like Igetit! said, no BS, just straight confidence.

@Killacam757 - Do it, and post a FR when you do. This forum needs more of that.

Question: does that video seem set up at all? He hardly looks these women in the face ...they say why he says idk your cute? Seems like a lack of confidence to me.
This is how I will attempt it tonight at the mall
Me: Hey what's up?
Girl: hey
Me: I'm killacam757
Girl: I'm HB8
*shakes hand*
Me: Put your number in my phone
Girlk
If she says no , what is something I can say to counter?
Naturally I would say alright it was nice meeting you, have a nice day.
And keep it moving but that no could be a test to see if I'm good on my feet.

killacam757 said:

Question: does that video seem set up at all? He hardly looks these women in the face ...they say why he says idk your cute? Seems like a lack of confidence to me.
This is how I will attempt it tonight at the mall
Me: Hey what's up?
Girl: hey
Me: I'm killacam757
Girl: I'm HB8
*shakes hand*
Me: Put your number in my phone
Girlk
If she says no , what is something I can say to counter?
Naturally I would say alright it was nice meeting you, have a nice day.
And keep it moving but that no could be a test to see if I'm good on my feet.

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It really depends on how you look, both physically and composure-wise. Vitaly isn't a bad looking guy (no homo), so there's no reason why it wouldn't work. I didn't know the Hostess' name until after I keyed her number.

Your way is trying to do two methods at the same time. You're trying to go for the gusto, but at the same time work day game. If you wanna get her name and all that first, then just go with normal day game, while aiming for a number close.

To answer your question directly, if she says "no", then just say alright and move on to the next. Like I said in my first post, MJ average 49.7% from the field, and is considered the GOAT. Just take it in stride.