Dating a girl who's ex is a black guy

alpha_ash · Dec 12, 2012

Alright, so I just realized that one of the girls that I'm dating has an ex who's a black guy. Now I am not well-versed in size, but from the expression "once you go black you never go back," I can only assume that my pen1s isn't going to be good enough.

How should I proceed?

Or should I tell her straight up: You've dated a black guy, you'll never be happy with me, good bye.

I have never been in a situation like this before. In fact, I haven't dated a girl who had a boyfriend history so recent.

Who Dares Win · Dec 12, 2012

Not sure if under the radar troll or genuine, lets make its the second case.

I guess your doubts are somehow shareable not so much because of the physical sensations but much more for the psychological ones.

If a girl is used to a certain size in men, the risk is not that she will be unable to enjoy and intercourse with you, the problem which could exist more easily is that in her back of her head she would consider you a lesser choice....now if someone believes girls are "above" such things please read some more this forum till you get some sense in your head.

Following this, you can have a problem yourself regarding your self confidence while dealing with her (therefore the framing of the relation) and an even bigger one the constant concern that she could be still looking for such thing while staying with you.

Man its hard to give you an advice, you could have a serious problem while you could be completely fine...maybe that guy just left her open or that guy was backbreaker(or solomon dont remember which one) which said that black women were giving him sh1t cause he didnt fit the stats he was supposed.

If I were you I would give it a try but still keep everything under control, even before her, myself.

alpha_ash · Dec 12, 2012

Who Dares Win said:
Not sure if under the radar troll or genuine, lets make its the second case.

I guess your doubts are somehow shareable not so much because of the physical sensations but much more for the psychological ones.

If a girl is used to a certain size in men, the risk is not that she will be unable to enjoy and intercourse with you, the problem which could exist more easily is that in her back of her head she would consider you a lesser choice....now if someone believes girls are "above" such things please read some more this forum till you get some sense in your head.

Following this, you can have a problem yourself regarding your self confidence while dealing with her (therefore the framing of the relation) and an even bigger one the constant concern that she could be still looking for such thing while staying with you.

Man its hard to give you an advice, you could have a serious problem while you could be completely fine...maybe that guy just left her open or that guy was backbreaker(or solomon dont remember which one) which said that black women were giving him sh1t cause he didnt fit the stats he was supposed.

If I were you I would give it a try but still keep everything under control, even before her, myself.

No, I'm not a troll. See my other posts.

But damn, I'm scared to see her again. They just broke up approx. 2 weeks ago from what I have learned so far (she didn't tell me this, fb did). They weren't together for too long, maybe a month.

(No I didn't add her on fb, and I never add girls to fb anymore.)

GotED? · Dec 12, 2012

Sounds like it was purely a sexual relationship and she lost control of herself and he was more of a fook-buddy.

If I were in your situation - she ain't the kind or type of girl for me. She's got 'Capt-Save-A-Hole' (don't need that hole either!) written all over her forehead.

But if you are looking for a hook-up and short-term, all you can eat buffet then go for it. I tend to look for quality and long-term. Fooking around in a woman's history ain't something for me.

You will find out soon enough once you hook up with her about how you feel. Or you will never know.

Good luck,

With respect

Exodus

Hustlaz Ambition · Dec 12, 2012

The once you go black you never go back saying comes from the one drop rule. Cause if any race mixes with black, the offspring looks black. I myself am mixed with Native American and white, but looking at me you couldn't tell. Looking at Halle Berry or Barack Obama you couldn't tell their moms are white. So you don't have to worry about her dumping you for another one of the homies lol.

The d!ck size is another story. I myself thought the myth about black d!ck size was somewhat over exaggerated, until I turned 18 and started hitting up clubs. Whenever I grind on girls they usually say to their friend "holy **** he's ****** big!" The usual **** girls say. I guess the usual guys they dance on or **** don't be packing. Most guys are too chode to get a boner on the dancefloor though so maybe I'm looking too much into it.

alpha_ash · Dec 12, 2012

Thanks guys. I don't know what to do here. The girl is cute but I don't want any part of it if she has been ripped apart by some dude with a monster c0ck.

GotED? · Dec 12, 2012

Any woman ( or girl for your case ) in their life time would or should have a need to find a sexual partner for a wide variety of reasons. This is most significant with girls in their 20's - before they 'settle' down per say. One of the thing a girl wants to try out in her life before settling down is having sex with a man of different ethnicity because of her curiosity. This is true that women would have ONS with foreign men while they are overseas more likely than not for the reason of fulfilling their inner urge and experiences.

Not all women are loose or foolish like this - however, I would say a vast majority has these tendencies. Just don't get caught BEFORE they have completed their Baskin Robbins 51 flavor d!ck taste tests.

This is the same for us men from the U.S. looking at a French woman (obvious with their passionate reputation) or a Brazilian women (possibly hot in bed) and wouldn't mind trying it before we settle down in life.

With respect,

Exodus

backbreaker · Dec 12, 2012

it's a little bit early for some popcorn but **** it i got mine

AAAgent · Dec 12, 2012

Seriously.....

Almost every girl you meet will have been ripped apart by another dude and there will be dudes probably bigger than you, maybe even smaller than you....

Is that your problem? No.

Is that something you can change? No.

You can spend your whole life fussing about things that aren't relevant to you and can't change, but then you'll really be going nowhere real fast. Focus on you. The reason she's with you is because she likes you, otherwise she wouldn't see you. As long as your in the average range you're fine.

She should feel lucky to have anything related to you and that's what you need to understand. If she doesn't then, move on and find someone else. There's plenty of women out there.

I hooked an HB9 and i brought her to a lawschool party....right when i entered the party 3 guys came and hit on her at once. We weren't even exclusive or anything and i was talking to other girls. She didn't make an effort to fend them off so i didn't make an effort to stay with her. I walked away gave her some space and came back later when they were done. That night on, she's stuck to me like glue and made a point to fend off other guys. Insecurity shows lack of confidence which is not appealing.

VladPatton · Dec 12, 2012

Tell her your built for speed, not destruction. Hit that snatch, boyee!

seethehoop · Dec 12, 2012

It's not the size of the hammer, it's the nail you throw it at.

Forget size my friend, concentrate on technique. From the women I've spoken to they have said guys with big ones think they are good jus cos they are big. I believe these women were being genuine as most were just friends.

Make foreplay your forte!

Blow her mind. You'll be fine.

bukowski_merit · Dec 12, 2012

Is this real life?

I've dated tons of Spanish women, and most Spanish women date all races (at least the ones I know.) This includes black guys.

This should only be an issue if you're opposed to interracial relationships.

Worrying about another mans d!ck size is an issue with YOU. Assuming he must be hung because he's black - is also an issue with YOU.

I explore women's sexual histories often. It's part of my game to get her in the sexual mode and mood with me. IT works. In exploring women's sexual history - it's very rare to find a woman who hasn't had at least one HUGE c@ck in her. So, who the fvck cares? Most women you fvck have probably had much bigger than you. Black guys or not.

Believing that you won't be big enough to please her is a clear sign of inexperience. Fyi, a large portion of what pleasure a woman experiences through sex is in her brain. Now, if she has an obsession with huge c@cks - that probably means she won't be mentally into a person who's not huge.

But most women only care about a penises size if it's really small, or really huge. A few inch difference won't matter to most.

Don't worry about it.

alpha_ash · Dec 12, 2012

No my problem isn't with interracial relationships. In fact, if we were to be together, our relationship would be considered interracial. It's just that I don't want to waste our time if it wouldn't work out haha.

But I got what some of you are saying, she wouldn't be with me if she didn't like me.

Sofomore · Dec 12, 2012

This is sosuave's retarded thread # 540,003,201. Who gives a fvck if she's been with a black dude. Stop being such an insecure pvssy.

Bokanovsky · Dec 12, 2012

alpha_ash said:
Alright, so I just realized that one of the girls that I'm dating has an ex who's a black guy. Now I am not well-versed in size, but from the expression "once you go black you never go back," I can only assume that my pen1s isn't going to be good enough.

I thought it was "once you go black, we don't want you back"

I'd stay away (though not for the same reason as you..)

yyyy1313 · Dec 12, 2012

Doesn't matter dude. I been with a chick that was with a black dude prior to being with me. And I could of cared two ****s about it. I bagged her and never looked back. We were together for a while too.

pdx1138 · Dec 12, 2012

Be glad she's even considering you.

A lot of women prefer black only, once they've tried it.

Hustlaz Ambition · Dec 12, 2012

Bokanovsky said:
I thought it was "once you go black, we don't want you back" I'd stay away (though not for the same reason as you..)

Hater in the building

Flounder · Dec 12, 2012

OP you're an idiot. I don't care if it gets me an infraction, it needs to be said.

AgentSmith · Dec 12, 2012

Not every black dudes packing it. Large and small, hit and miss like every race. Go for it or think about it months later how you wish you did.

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