Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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It's already some months that I manage to pic up girls and spinning plates, most of them are from clubs while some from day time but all are a constant mind fvcking.
After seeing some making out with other guys or simply disappear for days or taking hours to reply to texts, I realized that the only way to deal with that was simply not investing in them, not investing emotionally even before than financially.
I considered any possible way as no contact, mind fvcking them back but in the end I found out that if Im aiming at the sex no contact is not a great option because while it saves me time and frustration, due to the high number of competitors doesnt lead me to sex with such girls.
Mind fvcking them back well, I explained my point in the "just dont play mind games" thread started 2 days ago.
Actually what it seems the best plan is to keep looking around and picking up new girls while at the same time throwing some bait to the old ones to see if they bite....all of this of course without putting any investment on it.
Those who say that no contact is the safest way to save our pride and mind health are right no doubt about it but most of the time doesnt get you sex.
My suggestion instead of keep trying but more like an attempt when you have nothing else to do not only doesnt screw you since you're not investing anything but at the same time leave you some chances.
This mindset got me a date last week and three potential ones next one, the flake risk is very high probably around 80% but the good thing is that Im not risking anything since those girls are nothing else than meat to fill untill proven otherwise (ego and emotion out of the equation) while the meet is supposed to happen in places close to me and in which I would go anyway (money and time not wasted).
And trust me Im much more at ease now, I dont even hide to them the fact that Im dating other girls since my investment as said is almost zero.
The less you invest and the less you give a fvck the better, they have no rights to our emotions or time untill they deserve for it.
And I repeat again, when you do not invest emotionally you are not that disturbed if they flake, think like a fisher who throw his bait and see if something comes.
After seeing some making out with other guys or simply disappear for days or taking hours to reply to texts, I realized that the only way to deal with that was simply not investing in them, not investing emotionally even before than financially.
I considered any possible way as no contact, mind fvcking them back but in the end I found out that if Im aiming at the sex no contact is not a great option because while it saves me time and frustration, due to the high number of competitors doesnt lead me to sex with such girls.
Mind fvcking them back well, I explained my point in the "just dont play mind games" thread started 2 days ago.
Actually what it seems the best plan is to keep looking around and picking up new girls while at the same time throwing some bait to the old ones to see if they bite....all of this of course without putting any investment on it.
Those who say that no contact is the safest way to save our pride and mind health are right no doubt about it but most of the time doesnt get you sex.
My suggestion instead of keep trying but more like an attempt when you have nothing else to do not only doesnt screw you since you're not investing anything but at the same time leave you some chances.
This mindset got me a date last week and three potential ones next one, the flake risk is very high probably around 80% but the good thing is that Im not risking anything since those girls are nothing else than meat to fill untill proven otherwise (ego and emotion out of the equation) while the meet is supposed to happen in places close to me and in which I would go anyway (money and time not wasted).
And trust me Im much more at ease now, I dont even hide to them the fact that Im dating other girls since my investment as said is almost zero.
The less you invest and the less you give a fvck the better, they have no rights to our emotions or time untill they deserve for it.
And I repeat again, when you do not invest emotionally you are not that disturbed if they flake, think like a fisher who throw his bait and see if something comes.
