What Male Character in a 2012 Book is bigneil?

My favorite girl texted that she's been reading a book about a 20 year old female living in 2012 and she said the male character is so like me it's uncanny. And she doesn't tend to believe in coincidences. She's going to tell me what book it is when she visits tonight.

I'm thinking it's not a Harlequin Romance novel, but members might have fun guessing this one.

My guesses were "Terminator" and "Diary of a Wimpy Kid" but she said no.

Forest Gump

The Hobbit?

guys, he's from Texas and works the oil industry.

J.R. Ewing, Obviously.

50 shades of gay

Lenny from Of Mice and Men.

The biography of coach sandusky

Purefilth said:

50 shades of gay

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Close. She said the main male character in "50 shades of Gray" is someone who "refused to have relationships or commitments with women" and "he wants this young girl (the star of the book) to be his sex slave" and "little does he know that she is in LOVE with him!".... But I haven't read it and she said it's mean to say in a way.

From Wikipedia "The deepening relationship between a college graduate, Anastasia Steele, and a young business magnate, Christian Grey".

From a psychology standpoint, it's a very good sign when a woman projects you into other events/stories.

bigneil said:

Close. She said the main male character in "50 shades of Gray" is someone who "refused to have relationships or commitments with women" and "he wants this young girl (the star of the book) to be his sex slave" and "little does he know that she is in LOVE with him!".... But I haven't read it and she said it's mean to say in a way.

From Wikipedia "The deepening relationship between a college graduate, Anastasia Steele, and a young business magnate, Christian Grey".

From a psychology standpoint, it's a very good sign when a woman projects you into other events/stories.

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It IS uncanny. The guy's a narcissistic sociopath, neil. That's why she says you're just like him. And no, it is not a good sign. It just means you're delusional and devoid of humanity. Please die, there is no use in this world for people like you.

I don't know about a character from a book, but from a 2012 film, you remind me of Detective Chief Inspector Ivan Lewis from The Sweeney.

AlexDP said:

You're delusional and devoid of humanity. Please die, there is no use in this world for people like you.

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Hypocrisy defined.

AlexDP said:

And no, it is not a good sign.

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I remind (a 20 year old beauty who I love) of a young magnate who the female character of the book is in love with, and she then provided physical evidence as proof, but it's not a good sign?

PS - I told you guys AlexDP was a girl. She read the whole series!

I bet $100 she says Edward from Twilight.

-Scars

Thanks Scars - I wasn't Edward but I was the 41 year old man Kristin Stewart (who she bears a striking resemblance to) got caught kissing at work (and then dumped).

Well, AlexDP could have provided this quote from the back of the book Fifty Shades of Gray (yes I bought it - and paid cash, with 50 pairs of shades, no homo) but it wouldn't have exactly helped his cause of making me look bad:

"...She encounters a man who is beautiful, brilliant, and intimidating. The unworldly, innocent Ana is startled to realize she wants this man and, despite his enigmatic reserve, finds she is desperate to get close to him. Unable to resist Ana's quiet beauty, wit, and independent spirit, Grey admits he wants her, too - but on his own terms.

Shocked yet thrilled by Grey's singular erotic tastes, Ana hesitates. For all the trappings of success - his multinational business, his vast wealth, his loving family - Grey is a man tormented by demons and consumed by the need to control. When the couple embarks on a daring, passionately physical affair, Ana discovers Christian Grey's secrets and explores her own dark desires."

No way am I that good, but I'm sure glad I broke NC.

bigneil said:

Thanks Scars - I wasn't Edward but I was the 41 year old man Kristin Stewart (who she bears a striking resemblance to) got caught kissing at work (and then dumped).

Well, AlexDP could have provided this quote from the back of the book Fifty Shades of Gray (yes I bought it - and paid cash, with 50 pairs of shades, no homo) but it wouldn't have exactly helped his cause of making me look bad:

"...She encounters a man who is beautiful, brilliant, and intimidating. The unworldly, innocent Ana is startled to realize she wants this man and, despite his enigmatic reserve, finds she is desperate to get close to him. Unable to resist Ana's quiet beauty, wit, and independent spirit, Grey admits he wants her, too - but on his own terms.

Shocked yet thrilled by Grey's singular erotic tastes, Ana hesitates. For all the trappings of success - his multinational business, his vast wealth, his loving family - Grey is a man tormented by demons and consumed by the need to control. When the couple embarks on a daring, passionately physical affair, Ana discovers Christian Grey's secrets and explores her own dark desires."

No way am I that good, but I'm sure glad I broke NC.

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You broke NC?

I broke NC in July after 63 days, texting: "The club isn't the same without you." and she replied that minute "Then I guess you shouldn't go there!" but she quickly reconsidered.

She admitted she dumped me because she wanted to get rid of me, and she didn't really want to see me again but did anyway.

Then on the second date, when I had no shirt on she noticed I lost 40 lb. She said "You look like you lost a LOT of weight. I'm serious, I mean you look like you are in MUCH better shape." She insisted on knowing how I did it. I said "Was I fat before?" "No.......". "Did I have a belly?" "Yes."

She has initiated 13 times in the last 2 months.

It's simple really:

1) Man gets hot girl
2) Man gets happy
3) Man gets fat
4) Man gets dumped
5) Man gets depressed
6) Man gets thin
7) Man gets scolded on SS for breaking NC
8) Man gets laid anyway

I'm fairly certain the fatter me would not have made his way into the Grey fantasy.

Though I bought the book, I couldn't bring myself to read it. I seem to be naturally emulating part of it, and don't want to let it influence me. I did randomly open to and read page 105 which defined the Rules and read "The Submissive will only eat from a prescribed list of foods". That part sounds like me. Ironically I sent her home with a bag of raw milk dairy products and spinach the night before I bought the book.

bigneil said:

I broke NC in July after 63 days, texting: "The club isn't the same without you." and she replied that minute "Then I guess you shouldn't go there!" but she quickly reconsidered.

She admitted she dumped me because she wanted to get rid of me, and she didn't really want to see me again but did anyway.

Then on the second date, when I had no shirt on she noticed I lost 40 lb. She said "You look like you lost a LOT of weight. I'm serious, I mean you look like you are in MUCH better shape." She insisted on knowing how I did it. I said "Was I fat before?" "No.......". "Did I have a belly?" "Yes."

She has initiated 13 times in the last 2 months.

It's simple really:

1) Man gets hot girl
2) Man gets happy
3) Man gets fat
4) Man gets dumped
5) Man gets depressed
6) Man gets thin
7) Man gets scolded on SS for breaking NC
8) Man gets laid anyway

I'm fairly certain the fatter me would not have made his way into the Grey fantasy.

Though I bought the book, I couldn't bring myself to read it. I seem to be naturally emulating part of it, and don't want to let it influence me. I did randomly open to and read page 105 which defined the Rules and read "The Submissive will only eat from a prescribed list of foods". That part sounds like me. Ironically I sent her home with a bag of raw milk dairy products and spinach the night before I bought the book.

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BN I mean this with all due respect.

You are an obsessive compulsive nut job. You have gone from obsessing over a stripper, (well you still do that) to obsessing over the fact that this stripper has compared you to some character in a book. I think I have seen 20 posts about it now. You even started a thread about it. I know with every fiber of your being that you believe this now, and think about you and this character 100 times a day. You have so many of the same characteristics of the obsessive compulsive people that end up being forever aloner stalker or serial killers. The things you say are just so obsessive, so compulsive, so narcissistic, I wish for just 5 seconds I could be you, to see inside your brain, so I could know what it truly is to be mentally ill. I bet it would be a trip. haha

But, it seems to make you happy. So carry on.

cordoncordon said:

BN I mean this with all due respect.

You are a obsessive compulsive nut job. You have gone from obsessing over a stripper, (well you still do that) to obsessing over the fact that this stripper has compared you to some character in a book. I think I have seen 20 posts about it now. You even started a thread about it. I know with every fiber of your being that you believe this now, and think about you and this character 100 times a day. You have so many of the same characteristics of the obsessive compulsive people that end up being forever aloner stalker or serial killers. The things you say are just so obsessive, so compulsive, so narcissistic, I wish for just 5 seconds I could be you, to see inside your brain, so I could know what it truly is to be mentally ill. I bet it would be a trip. haha

But, it seems to make you happy. So carry on.

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i'd second that. there is a big leak in your game that will make you get butthurt pretty soon i am afraid. you let others (and especially a woman that has been professionally do so) define yourself. you even post about it as a show off, very obviously seeking validation.

cordoncordon said:

BN I mean this with all due respect.

You are an obsessive compulsive nut job. You have gone from obsessing over a stripper, (well you still do that) to obsessing over the fact that this stripper has compared you to some character in a book. I think I have seen 20 posts about it now. You even started a thread about it. I know with every fiber of your being that you believe this now, and think about you and this character 100 times a day. You have so many of the same characteristics of the obsessive compulsive people that end up being forever aloner stalker or serial killers. The things you say are just so obsessive, so compulsive, so narcissistic, I wish for just 5 seconds I could be you, to see inside your brain, so I could know what it truly is to be mentally ill. I bet it would be a trip. haha

But, it seems to make you happy. So carry on.

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Narcissists live by the grace of others. They have to manipulate and control. The stripper is clearly a sick individual herself. He can't always control her. That's why he's obsessing over her. It's also why he keeps track of their every interaction. He wants to 'get' her, so that he can control her.

A look inside his brain? It is empty. He is a non person who lives for the attention of others. How that attention is achieved is of no importance. If you ask me, he's the worst of the worst and a danger to society. Fortunately he is too stupid to become a true risk.

AlexDP said:

A look inside his brain? It is empty.

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Actually, I scored a perfect score on the Queendom.com Spatial IQ test - a 160 IQ (99.99 Percentile).

AlexDP said:

Fortunately he is too stupid to become a true risk.

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True - I only have one US Patent, and have only started two computer graphics businesses (both still operational).

flashpoint said:

You even post about it as a show off, very obviously seeking validation.

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Bullsh*t. I went out on a limb and took a chance by posting this before I knew what book it was. I thought it was "Diary of a Wimpy Kid". But I'll take it as a compliment and it shows how wrong most of you have been about me. If anyone can name a character they'd rather be associated with by their woman, let me know.

cordoncordon said:

BN I mean this with all due respect.

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Coming in at #5 on "Most Annoying Phrases in the English Language"

cordoncordon said:

I wish for just 5 seconds I could be you.

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Give him enough rope...

50 Shades of Bigneil

The other night when she was on my couch, after serving an appetizer and wine, I pulled out a photo of her that I had found online and printed on paper. It was my favorite photo of her: she is sitting in bed, in a schoolgirl outfit, pouting, with big blue eyes, wearing white panties with black polka-dots. Normally very tasteful, it is the only photo of her in her underwear that I know of. She turned all red and said "This was taken by my ex-boyfriend, my first true love... I had just turned 18... we had just started dating..."

Then I pulled out a plastic bag that contained those very white panties with black polka-dots, and handed them to her. I had confiscated them in February, the first night she slept in my bed. I said "I'm obviously not the only man to take these off of you, but I'm going to be the first one to put them back on you."

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For all the sh*t I've taken, it's been 12 months of dating this woman and I'm still happy. I don't need to own her. I'd like for her to fall for me 100% though, and I'm still working on it.

bigneil said:

50 Shades of Bigneil

The other night when she was on my couch, after serving an appetizer and wine, I pulled out a photo of her that I had found online and printed on paper. It was my favorite photo of her: she is sitting in bed, in a schoolgirl outfit, pouting, with big blue eyes and white panties with black polka-dots. Normally very tasteful, it is the only photo of her in her underwear that I know of. She turned all red and said "This was taken by my ex-boyfriend, my first true love... I had just turned 18... we had just started dating..."

Then I pulled out a plastic bag that contained those very white panties with black polka-dots, and handed them to her. I had confiscated them in February. I said "I'm obviously not the only man to take these off of you, but I'm going to be the first one to put them back on you."

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Creeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeepy.


I think we are witnessing the first ever online diary observations of an obsessive stalker turned potential serial killer (into serial killer?).