Jack Wealthy
Master Don Juan
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Introduction
This is the way to have sex with women which requires least time, effort and experience. This is not a way to carry yourself which will result in minimal rejection. You are not going to pull every girl. This is the way to pull as many girls you have chemistry with as quickly as possible.
It’s a human trait that we spend least time thinking about tasks which require least conscious effort. Think about it, you think about study more than brushing your teeth.
The reason being ultra-direct works is because you’re triggering that you have values she searches for such as confidence, honesty and autonomy and you're doing it quickly. You go to her and communicate that you’re a person who goes for what they want with absolute authority, someone who is a leader. She will see potential in you even if you’re not what she wants right then, so she will sleep with you. Because of that you will get a lot of success whether for relationships or one night things. In a broader social context, to not be perceived as try hard, insecure or deceitful you must pursue in the most efficient path possible. It functions in other areas of life, such as working life, as leadership.
Besides sincerity; leadership is quite possibly the most important attribute to display. You display this by being confident attempting to get what you want and persisting as well. If someone is or is going to be successful they have to be willing to suffer through some discomfort. The only two things which show this are living you’re life entirely for yourself, independence, or being ultra-direct. The straightforwardness works because it tends to communicate the independence. Being willing to put up with resistance is a barometer from which she tests your capacity to succeed in life. It shows your ability to provide for her specific needs long-term. Not just the obvious financial or material but emotional and intellectual as well, because you are interacting with her in a way which is entirely genuine.
It’s commonly assumed that this style of behaviour will not appeal to the girls you really like, that it won’t work for a relationship. This isn’t true. Why would what appeals to a girl change because you like her? Why would what you do change because you like her? For a relationship, what indicates longevity better than instant chemistry and strong connection? While this approach may look most appealing to men desiring a high volume of women in their life it will work just as well for those wanting a relationship.
Method
Now that I’ve told you why I shall tell you how. But first remember, this is a mind-set which will take experience to cement, not a routine. To show you how to project the values you want; in general the term value, to the utmost I am going to outline my own interpretation of the optimal template. This is what I have found works best for me and it will be close to what works best for you, but think of this like any skill acquisition. By that I mean what the optimal way of behaving is for me may not be the same for you. My best attempt and your best attempt are going to look different to each other, regardless of if they are both successful.
1) Approach the girl and immediately tell her you wish to have sex with her. Hold yourself in a calm and relaxed straightforward manner.
2) You will likely be **** tested, to which you shall respond by either
i) Reiterate your desires
ii) State a reason for them by complimenting her
iii) Changing the subject completely to build comfort
You may do any or all of the above.
3a) To fill time until she is comfortable enough in your presence to reflect your desires communicate openly about any and all topics, small talk or deep rapport. Genuinely vent your opinions without fear of being judged.
3b) You should also only attempt to amuse yourself, so as to avoid coming across disingenuous or as though you’re trying too hard.
4) You will notice a sign she feels like sleeping with you, or you will instinctively know. Either way at this stage you state your intent and then ask her to come somewhere private with you.
5) If she refuses you begin again from step 2.
As an optional pathway you can invite her somewhere private within the same general area, such as a corner of the bar or a nearby coffee shop. Once there you either attempt to build far more comfort, which makes it useful for stubborn girls, or kiss her. For myself however I always found isolating for the second reason self-defeating because it dissipates the sexual tension. It might help if you also physically have good chemistry, but you can’t control chemistry so you’re just adding in extra chaos.
Conclusion
She will want you because you’re taking the attitude to women which the most successful in the realms of business, sport or science take to their fields. Being this straightforward is a mind frame, not a technique. You’re going to have to experience struggle to gain reference experience and cement this way of feeling to sustain this way of acting. But because of that it isn’t a Band-Aid solution, it’s the most femininely admired approach to women. You’re taking time and developing an obvious life skill, an accomplishment, which is evident to women and in what you do outside of them.
On the outline presented in this post, do not feel apologetic for communicating your intent. You have to believe you are offering her something and you are showing that in the clearest manner possible. To achieve true sincerity and the ability to do this consistently and effortlessly, you’re going to have to view this as a journey for development, not a destination of sleeping with her. You are also going to have to be humble. You aren’t the best candidate for approaching this way, you are just a person talking to another person. When this starts to feel normal for you it’s because it is, you are making it that way by practising.
This post isn’t about a way of acting just in relation to girls; it is an attitude to life. Because of this you won’t “drop the act” after sex and endanger a future with the girl. Because of this other elements of your existence will benefit. This isn’t simply showing value, this is developing the trait which generates it.
This is the way to have sex with women which requires least time, effort and experience. This is not a way to carry yourself which will result in minimal rejection. You are not going to pull every girl. This is the way to pull as many girls you have chemistry with as quickly as possible.
It’s a human trait that we spend least time thinking about tasks which require least conscious effort. Think about it, you think about study more than brushing your teeth.
The reason being ultra-direct works is because you’re triggering that you have values she searches for such as confidence, honesty and autonomy and you're doing it quickly. You go to her and communicate that you’re a person who goes for what they want with absolute authority, someone who is a leader. She will see potential in you even if you’re not what she wants right then, so she will sleep with you. Because of that you will get a lot of success whether for relationships or one night things. In a broader social context, to not be perceived as try hard, insecure or deceitful you must pursue in the most efficient path possible. It functions in other areas of life, such as working life, as leadership.
Besides sincerity; leadership is quite possibly the most important attribute to display. You display this by being confident attempting to get what you want and persisting as well. If someone is or is going to be successful they have to be willing to suffer through some discomfort. The only two things which show this are living you’re life entirely for yourself, independence, or being ultra-direct. The straightforwardness works because it tends to communicate the independence. Being willing to put up with resistance is a barometer from which she tests your capacity to succeed in life. It shows your ability to provide for her specific needs long-term. Not just the obvious financial or material but emotional and intellectual as well, because you are interacting with her in a way which is entirely genuine.
It’s commonly assumed that this style of behaviour will not appeal to the girls you really like, that it won’t work for a relationship. This isn’t true. Why would what appeals to a girl change because you like her? Why would what you do change because you like her? For a relationship, what indicates longevity better than instant chemistry and strong connection? While this approach may look most appealing to men desiring a high volume of women in their life it will work just as well for those wanting a relationship.
Method
Now that I’ve told you why I shall tell you how. But first remember, this is a mind-set which will take experience to cement, not a routine. To show you how to project the values you want; in general the term value, to the utmost I am going to outline my own interpretation of the optimal template. This is what I have found works best for me and it will be close to what works best for you, but think of this like any skill acquisition. By that I mean what the optimal way of behaving is for me may not be the same for you. My best attempt and your best attempt are going to look different to each other, regardless of if they are both successful.
1) Approach the girl and immediately tell her you wish to have sex with her. Hold yourself in a calm and relaxed straightforward manner.
2) You will likely be **** tested, to which you shall respond by either
i) Reiterate your desires
ii) State a reason for them by complimenting her
iii) Changing the subject completely to build comfort
You may do any or all of the above.
3a) To fill time until she is comfortable enough in your presence to reflect your desires communicate openly about any and all topics, small talk or deep rapport. Genuinely vent your opinions without fear of being judged.
3b) You should also only attempt to amuse yourself, so as to avoid coming across disingenuous or as though you’re trying too hard.
4) You will notice a sign she feels like sleeping with you, or you will instinctively know. Either way at this stage you state your intent and then ask her to come somewhere private with you.
5) If she refuses you begin again from step 2.
As an optional pathway you can invite her somewhere private within the same general area, such as a corner of the bar or a nearby coffee shop. Once there you either attempt to build far more comfort, which makes it useful for stubborn girls, or kiss her. For myself however I always found isolating for the second reason self-defeating because it dissipates the sexual tension. It might help if you also physically have good chemistry, but you can’t control chemistry so you’re just adding in extra chaos.
Conclusion
She will want you because you’re taking the attitude to women which the most successful in the realms of business, sport or science take to their fields. Being this straightforward is a mind frame, not a technique. You’re going to have to experience struggle to gain reference experience and cement this way of feeling to sustain this way of acting. But because of that it isn’t a Band-Aid solution, it’s the most femininely admired approach to women. You’re taking time and developing an obvious life skill, an accomplishment, which is evident to women and in what you do outside of them.
On the outline presented in this post, do not feel apologetic for communicating your intent. You have to believe you are offering her something and you are showing that in the clearest manner possible. To achieve true sincerity and the ability to do this consistently and effortlessly, you’re going to have to view this as a journey for development, not a destination of sleeping with her. You are also going to have to be humble. You aren’t the best candidate for approaching this way, you are just a person talking to another person. When this starts to feel normal for you it’s because it is, you are making it that way by practising.
This post isn’t about a way of acting just in relation to girls; it is an attitude to life. Because of this you won’t “drop the act” after sex and endanger a future with the girl. Because of this other elements of your existence will benefit. This isn’t simply showing value, this is developing the trait which generates it.
