bang foreign girl before she leaves!

hello all.

I met this croatian girl which is 23 some days ago in a club. She was there with two girl friends.
She is here on holidays and will leave the country in a week.
We made out in the club.

Yesterday I called her and we set up a date but she said that she was going to bring her two girl friends also. I agreeded because she actually does not know me, she just met me last night, so I guessed it was ok to bring her girl friends.


We went to a club at the beach. We laughed, we danced, we made out, I was friendly with her girl friends, we two went for a walk along the seashore later at night etc
We danced again, I bumped into some girl friend of mine, and after a while this croatian girl asked me if I was a player, hah! lol.


Well, question is:


How do I do in order to bang her before she leaves?
when we were at the seashore she was a taling about sex on the beach etc etc but also said: we're not gonna have sex here today. I just joked about it, teased her, and kissed her several times.

So,
How do I do in order to bang her before she leaves? she's somehow attached to her girl friends, so I guess she should not bring them if when we meet again, or what?
do I take her to the beach to swim?
do I take her to a club?
how do I proceed?



Thank you a lot.:rockon:

On the little info available I sense that you are at some risk of not getting any pu$$ay from her. First thing to do you should stop asking questions like: "what are the steps?" "Should I take her here there". Change this attitude first and starting saying stuff like: "Is she being worthy of my time?"
Now, it's normal that she will be attached to her friends, it's already an intrinsec female thing, which enhances 100x if they are on holiday in another country. The fact that you notice her over attachment to them, and the fact that she's cautious on being alone with you, are consequences of her not being sure about having sex with you. A woman that wants to f you will find a way to f you. You need to increase your value to her eyes.
You could do this:
1. When you are with her, be a little colder towards her and warmer to the rest of the environment
2. Show being a little less enthusiastic when she calls you to meet or when you two talk on the phone.
3. IF you have time available before she leaves, you could flake her once.

In this way you will calibrate her unsureness about you, and you'll be able to drive her from there to have sex with you.

When you are with her at a situation:
1. You might want to show an increased interest to her girlfriends. Kino them a bit, withdraw attention from her and send it to her girlfriends. I ensure you her girlfriends are probably more willing to f you than her. If you'll argue that they show a little disrespect towards you or coldness THAT IS A GOOD SIGN, it means they are attracted to you. By increasing rapport with a solid attraction with them, you will make your little croatian friend's natural eastern porn acting genes turn on.
2. Do something like disappearing from the party for one hour and coming back.
3. Flirt with 3-4 unknown girls but make it seem like they approached/knew you.
4. Bring some girlfriends to the party, hopefully as hot than her.

Eventually, after you have created some drama in her head, and you will see a little worry in her eyes, you might close by taking her to a dark spot, making out again, fingering her pu$$ay in a hidden spot in public, and then taking her away (BROTIP: Get your Hard-on OUT with your own hands, don't wait for her to take it, put it in her hands and make it play with it; if you are a hero you could slap her face with your C4ck; if she pulls out LMR on this, BE SURE TO NOT GIVE A F about it, don't even DARE to laugh, just keep a steady horny frame and keep making out, and repeat after 15-20 seconds, YOU MUST SHOW HER YOUR HORNINESS PLUS YOUR ABILITY TO WALK AWAY CUZ SHE MUST THINK THAT YOU HAVE JENNIFER ANISTON IN YOUR FLAT WAITING FOR YOU WITH HER LEGS OPEN).
Be sure that she will feel comfortable in leaving her gfs, that meaning that you can't take her too far away, you can't hope that she will sleep with you in the night. If it's possible, you could go over her place if she has a single room.

If you are good and confident, you might want to use some escalating RAPE game. But it's difficult to pull out, since you might freak out and she's gonna feel that and close her legs more and more, instead of spreading them more and more from your initial sexual aggressivness.

Also: You don't care about WHERE taking her. Ideally you might want to accidentally bump into her. But dating locations are irrelevant, just be sure it's a fun place. And DON'T WORRY about taking the lead on where to take her. That could send dangerous beta providing signals to her that will keep her legs closed.

Hi.


I did already what you suggested:
I bumped into some girls I know and they asked me to dance. So I danced with all of them while this chick and her girl friends just looked at me.

Also, this chick wanted me to dance with her girl friends because they were just sitting, so I did.

I guess she wants to take it a a bit slow because it was actually the first date and her girl friend were present.
I noticed that I was the one to start the kissing everytime, but she hugged me and was all the time close to me.

At one point were were dancing and I grabbed her really close and put my croth just touching her ***** to what she replied: 'hey...whoah...' and stepped back a bit.


At the end of the night I said that I had to leave because I must go to work so she said that she'd like me to text her, to what I replied that she could text me too.

We agreeded that I'll send her some places they can visit so I was about to text her. Do I? or do I wait for her to text ME?

Also I think I'll take her to the funfair, get some drinks and she how it goes, but I dont know if she will bring her girl friends too...
they''re staying in a hotel so I expect to kino scalate and at some point I want her to suggest that she wants me to come in her room or something like that.



Suggestions?

Thanks.

Well done until now, but it seems that she still is feeling "special" about you and so it's going to be unsure if she'll put out.
1. How much time until she leaves?
2. Is there any concrete chances you'll meet again in the future?
3. How many hours have you spent together till now?

She is probably thinking to bring her gfs anywhere you go. I can sense that also from the fact that she asked you to dance with them, ergo, they (the gfs) are not getting any male attention in these days and she is feeling guilty to obtain it from you. That means she isn't attracted enough to get over this guilt and sleep with you despite her friends being alone. In this case what you need is MORE TIME, if you can't increase attraction (that would now mean running some dark a$$hole game, if you want to). I have no idea how much HOURS you already spent together with this girl and friends. If they are not so much, you can then relax and wait for a few more dates to bang her. If it turns out she's still not putting out, then you need more alpha scarcity game or a$$hole game.
Right now however it can be solved by fixing group rapport (getting her gfs more comfortable, perhaps by bringing them some of your buddies for their attention). It's ok to go to the funfair. Remember to keep things fun and smooth, and always be the first one to show disinterest (the first one to want to leave etc.). Never show any kind of beta hurry or frustation in getting in her panties.
Also it's a must to take her to the beach, bonus points if you've got a good body. Get her in the sea with you in a hidden spot and make out there with almost naked bodies. That should get her wet and willing.

And then WAIT some few dates (hopefully organized by HER). If in the time she loses interest, I'm sorry but you'll have to f4ck someone of her friends to also get in her gina.

Hi.
Thanks for the good advice.


We've spent 30mins or less the first time we met and made out. Then we spent 3.5 hours last time we met.

They're leaving next saturday. Today they are out for a tour around the city, i texted her telling her some good places to visit. she thanked me and wished me a good day at work.

We'll meet if we decide to meet. She said she'd like me to text her to meet again so I can either text, or wait for her to text me.
Last night when we two went for a walk along the seashore, when we returned with her girl friends, these girls joked about us having sex on the beach or doing dirty things on the beach.
I dont remember very well but while we did the walk, she said some things about sex on the beach, that sex is good and that we could have it now and i'd be good BUT blah blah ...I did not understand her very good.
so I teased her and did some small jokes.


We were planning on going for a small ship tour around a lake, but I also thought about the funfair but I did not say yet.

I'd like to take her to the beach, actually it was suposed to be our first date instead of the club, but in the end I prefered to go to the club (because i dance good).
The thing is I work till 18:00 so it is not so nice to go to the beach at 19 but it is still hot and warm, so i guess we could arrange that, play some volley, swim...


right?

To be honest, since she is a foreigner on holiday you could have avoided telling her that you work, and your personal timeline on the day in general. You could have had bonus points if you kept her oblivious of what you did from morning to 18:00, creating some mystery and attraction.
Anyway, I personally believe that when a girl mentions about sex or speaks about it in general, it's usually a red flag in bedding the girl, since she talks about it as a mean to gain attention. You did not understand very good because she didn't use a logic sentence. She only wanted to mention "sex" argument to see your reaction and she thought that you would get more interested in her since you would have started seeing a chance.

I think what you must do now is:
1. Be positive, since it's been effectively little time that you spent together, and she has more days to spend there, so the odds for sex in the next days are good;
2. Stop doing too many plans. That's stupid. You should call her one hour before meeting and decide for her what to do. But you must say it in this way: "Hey, I'm going there, do you want to come?" DO NOT SAY IT IN THIS WAY INSTEAD: "Hey, let's go there together ok? What do you think? Do you agree? Otherwise we do something else". Expect at least ONE flaking in the next days. It would be better if you flaked on her first, like you manage to set up a date and you flake her. And perhaps show there late without telling her anything.
3. Remember that she will probably have more male plates spinning that give her attention. You must destroy the opposition. Beware of acting beta.

Play volley yes, just be sure that YOU will have fun on playing volley, and that it won't become some gaya$$ touchy feely volley game with girls where they all laugh and don't play seriously.

alright. But do I wait for ther to text me? or do I just leave one day pass, and text her tomorrow to go to the beach?

I have to tell you that last night they arrived 20 mins late and she texted me at the exact time we arranged to let me know they were still in the bus.
So I just went to another place. They arrived and they texted me saying: where are you? we have just arrived.
and I replied: -im in X shop, come here.- And they did.

You know I think I cant say to her: hey Im going to the beach at 18:00, you come? (how am I suposed to go just on my own? you understand what I mean? same thing applies to the funfair.)



Thank you.

You could arrange to the beach with some of your friends if you can. If you can't then just don't give a **** about that kind of texting, just don't keep the dating on a dependent-on-her focus.
The fact that you are wondering if it should be you or her to text first is irrelevant. The same action of worrying about this possibility is already self-defeating. You must get on the mindset where you trully don't give a **** because you have OPTIONS and you have more important **** to do, EVEN IF YOU DON'T. In that case that would come off as NATURAL for her to text her more and you text her less. Otherwise you have to force it with short brief rare and laconic texts. Try to always keep a right ratio where she texts you more than her. So if you now think you CAN text her first, then do it. Just don't lose more than 2mins and half on gayas$ texting. Keep it brief, witty if you can, throw a little humour here and there, and to the point.

Now you don't really need anything else on this forums. What you need to do is EXPERIENCE this situation keeping in mind a few golden rules, and eventually learn from it. Looking at this, I think you have right now a good 75% to bang this girl. The percentage is dynamic, just don't **** things up.

Hi.


I texted her today at midday saying:
hi XXX! how are you girls doing? today we can go to the beach in the afternoon and she if you play beach tennis like a pro or like my grandma. Bring your bikini, or do not brint it. lol


She has not replied.

Silly girl, really. Her loss.
First text she replied one hour later. Second text one hour and a half later. Third one, last one, 5 hours have passed. I do not mind if I never bang her, but it is a bit annoying. lol.



Next steps, ideas? was I too direct with the bikini comment?
Thanks.

You see, that's the Nth **** test and famous one by women. They act like freaked out if you do something out of the line which marks how they DEFINED you in the first place. So if you pull out some C/F but she thought you weren't that type of guy, their natural answer is wait to see on how you react. So if she now isn't answering and you react like feeling sorry or like justifying your text, you automatically reframe it as beta tryhard behavior.

Also NEVEREVER put "LOL" like you did in your text. That's the same principle, you DON'T NEED to evidence that you are playful to her otherwise again beta tryhard. Too long the text btw, I would have played it like: "beach afternoon? Bring your boobs. Oh, also your friends" Then nothing. If she doesn't reply YOU DISAPPEAR.

Also there isn't any "being too direct" with women. You are only being too direct IF YOU BELIEVE SO. Women always act like little kids, they react basing on your emotions: when kids fall down and hurt their knees, they wait to see for their parents facial expressions and behavior AND THEN THEY DECIDE TO LAUGH OR TO CRY

Hi.

But what I dont understand is, if you just want to bang a girl beacuse as in this case she's only for one week here on holidays, should you treat her like if you just wanted to date her and see how things go? or more direct?
for what you're suggesting I understand that the answer is to do it direct in this scenario.

1-But I also think that if she thinks you just want to bang her as if she was a *****, she may react closing her legs, feeling disrespected, dont you think?

For example, when I took them to this club, there were a lot of girls that I knew and they said hello to me etc etc, and I danced with two of them because they asked me etc.
so this croatian girl said comments like:' are you a player? ' me: I dont know what a player means. (im not english speaker)
'do you use dance to hook up with girls?' me: er...me? never!'
'do you bring all girls to do a walk along the seashore?' me: ...
why do you know so many girls...? me: some of them are my friends, some others come to my dancing lessons...

2-Maybe she saw me with too many girls?


3-And what I asked you before...now what do I do? I just disapear right? nothing else?



Thanks mate.

Yes mate, you disappear. You do treat her like a slut (since she is no more special than any other woman on holiday, correction, any other woman) , but not OVERTLY. You must mindf4ck her. You must find a way to make her WONDER about you, to make her THINK about you. THat's attraction. Of course yes, you need to build rapport to get her legs spread, but you can't do that in spite of attraction, you can't send her 100 sms and beg her to see you. You already kissed her and that's however a good scoring already. Now the beyotch is testing you pal, you must not fall into her trap. If you can (I'm telling this for you, to ease your mind and think lighter), have sex with another girl just for the sake of it, without she knowing. That'll give you an alpha rush that will make you FEEL for yourself what is right to do. If you do not want to have sex with another girl in the meantime or you can't (also because you have little time), do something crazy that challenges yourself in your daily life. If you have a mountain, climb it alone tomorrow, take a day from work just to do that, and don't tell it to anybody. If you have phobia of bees get stung by one on purpose. You get my point. I ensure you, I do these things myself, and it feels f4cking great. I do them myself and NEVER bragged about it.

Also I guarantee you, if for some reason you stopped totally looking for her, 100% she will look for you before leaving. No girl will ever accept the fact of being abandoned like that, even after a kiss. Exception is if she already found someone else that she were more attracted to in the meantime, but you know, that happens, and you know something else: YOU DON'T GIVE A SH*T

Why should I let a bee bite me? or climb a mountain?
you say these examples so I do not focus my attention on this girl, dont you?

and one more question. Ok, I go ghost now. But what if she contacts me in order to meet?

do I agree?
do I postpone it?

Oh news coming!


This silly girl just texted me (after more than 12 hours):

'hey, we changed our plans and we went to visit my friends from X city (she mentioned that she dated a guy from my country and that it was a LDR, so when now she says 'visiting my friends' I guess it means: visiting my ex bf/FB/whatever), its been very nice. We are doing a lot of stuff! keep in touch! '


So, I guess she's been visiting her 'ex whatever'. Do I ask her anything about this? do I just ignore it?
And she said this stupid thing: 'keep in touch! ' that for me means: 'hey if Im bored I may call you'


Suggestions? opinions?



Thank you.

1.hey, that stuff I said before was to instill yourself some value. You could have just also simply played a soccer game with friends and win. And yes, it's better if you are not focused on the girl. Focusing on girls is always bringing bad results.

2.From what I understand, she went to another town, it's fine. Maybe she's banging someone else, but wtf you care about? I hope you answered something no more than: "k, have fun, make a call if you come in the surroundings." and hope that you didn't show any butthurt

Hi.

I had some trouble with my sms service so I could not send any sms. Now that I can send texts again I replied to her (she texted me last night at 23:50, I texted her today at 18:00):

'hi X. Im having problems with my sms service. I hope u had fun there. Make me a call if u wanna get together.'

Foreign girls are easy, they go to a foreign country to have some fun. And they can let all their sluttiness out without fear. And then there's the instinctual part, they need to find a mate in a new country. Just isolate her somewhere and fuck her. Simple as that.



This applies alot, doesn't matter that she's in your country and not vice-versa -- http://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-foreign-girls

Hi.


Any more tips? suggestions? comments?

Hi.


So the story with this girl in short went this way:


She came for a week to my city.
Met her on saturday night. Made out.
Texted her sunday and met her and her girl friends on that evening. Danced, made out, laughed etc

I sent her a text on Monday with some places to visit. She thanked me.

Sent her a text on Tuesday suggesting to meet.

She replied 12 hours later saying that they went to visit some friends in a different city. (she commented that she had a LDR with a guy from my country, so she may probably went to see this guy).

Texted her on wednesday telling how is she doing, and that if she wanted to meet she should call me.

Thursday at 01:30 she texted me with some random stuff with no much logic, she said: 'were are at the harbour'

Today friday I text her suggesting to go to the beach.

She replied in an hour:
I'm going home. Thanks for everything, we'll talk in Skype, take care!





So my conclusion is that, she had this other dude that was her bf so eventough she made out with me, she visited him next day so she forgot about me. It may have not gone as good as she was expecting so this is why she suggests she could keep in contact.




Damn, she was hot.