Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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No final point or big problem here, just few notes that hope could help
1)The big group of girls 3+
When approaching group of girls dont expect great reaction if the group is 3 or more, the reason is that its most likely a "girls night out" where the purpose is just to get attention and follow the dinamics of that kind of meeting.
Also it only needs one girl who doesnt like you to influence the rest of the group (dont forget feminine sheep mentality), it could be a girl who thinks she is above you or a girl who think you're gonna ignore her to concentrate on her friends thus want to save her ego.
If you decide to do anyway just remember to be equally generous with your attention to all the member of the groups at least in the beginning, once you are accepted (being invited to sit with them or danced with them for a reasonable amount of time) you can concentrate on the girl you like and if good signs are shown proceed to isolate.
A good plan as well is getting familiar through eye contact with at least one of the girls before the approach like a small chat at the bar queue 20/30 minutes before approaching, this way you will look familiar to her and the other girls will see that.
However I suggest to avoid the bigger groups given a cost/benefit ration.
2)The couple
This should be your target, two girls who go out in couple rarely are in a "girls night out" state of mind they are actually more open to meet new people given their criteria matched.
An other positive factor is that when you approach it will be easier for you to get the attention of both and give attention back to both, also the presence of a friend reassure each of them so their "anti-creep" shield is lower.
Guys who are not very social would better do that apprach with a friend (only 1 for fvck sake, save yourself the battallion approach) but I found myself doing it alone and working.
It doesnt need to be hot or a model but its necessary to have at least an average to good look and discreet social abilities, the self confidence in this kind of approach comes also with experience so dont be afraid of screw up.
3)You're not glued to them
Once in a while move around, talk to other people or pretend you have friends there (its not hard to have small talks with guys, those with no girls are usually friendly to those in the same situation), let them miss you an allow them to reassure each other about you, it only needs one to give approval to you and the others will do as well thus creating a snowball effect.
Just like when a girl definte a guy "creep" and then he is done to the whole group, when a girl define you "cool" you get bullet proof coverage cause the others will most likely confirm that, remember the feminine sheep mentality.
Finally gets the phone number from the most interested one first, you can easily understand which one is the most due to the open answer question she does or the physical contact involved, girls who touch your hair are on, those who dont touch you at all are not.
Girls show interest when they are interested make no mistake about it, if you are in doubt touch them yourself and see their reaction, thats a sure test to gauge interest.
I'll come later with other notes, feel free to comment.
1)The big group of girls 3+
When approaching group of girls dont expect great reaction if the group is 3 or more, the reason is that its most likely a "girls night out" where the purpose is just to get attention and follow the dinamics of that kind of meeting.
Also it only needs one girl who doesnt like you to influence the rest of the group (dont forget feminine sheep mentality), it could be a girl who thinks she is above you or a girl who think you're gonna ignore her to concentrate on her friends thus want to save her ego.
If you decide to do anyway just remember to be equally generous with your attention to all the member of the groups at least in the beginning, once you are accepted (being invited to sit with them or danced with them for a reasonable amount of time) you can concentrate on the girl you like and if good signs are shown proceed to isolate.
A good plan as well is getting familiar through eye contact with at least one of the girls before the approach like a small chat at the bar queue 20/30 minutes before approaching, this way you will look familiar to her and the other girls will see that.
However I suggest to avoid the bigger groups given a cost/benefit ration.
2)The couple
This should be your target, two girls who go out in couple rarely are in a "girls night out" state of mind they are actually more open to meet new people given their criteria matched.
An other positive factor is that when you approach it will be easier for you to get the attention of both and give attention back to both, also the presence of a friend reassure each of them so their "anti-creep" shield is lower.
Guys who are not very social would better do that apprach with a friend (only 1 for fvck sake, save yourself the battallion approach) but I found myself doing it alone and working.
It doesnt need to be hot or a model but its necessary to have at least an average to good look and discreet social abilities, the self confidence in this kind of approach comes also with experience so dont be afraid of screw up.
3)You're not glued to them
Once in a while move around, talk to other people or pretend you have friends there (its not hard to have small talks with guys, those with no girls are usually friendly to those in the same situation), let them miss you an allow them to reassure each other about you, it only needs one to give approval to you and the others will do as well thus creating a snowball effect.
Just like when a girl definte a guy "creep" and then he is done to the whole group, when a girl define you "cool" you get bullet proof coverage cause the others will most likely confirm that, remember the feminine sheep mentality.
Finally gets the phone number from the most interested one first, you can easily understand which one is the most due to the open answer question she does or the physical contact involved, girls who touch your hair are on, those who dont touch you at all are not.
Girls show interest when they are interested make no mistake about it, if you are in doubt touch them yourself and see their reaction, thats a sure test to gauge interest.
I'll come later with other notes, feel free to comment.