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Master Don Juan
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- Jan 22, 2005
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This has been bugging me for a long time.
I've come to the preliminary conclusion that I will never be permanently satisfied with a woman's looks, simply because the grass is always greener and the lure of variety is so compelling.
Take my gf. She is cute, a 7 who is in good shape. Not much for boobs, though, and there are moments when I look at her and see signs of aging and ---gasp---her mother. She is 32.
I know the simple DJ solution is to just find a hotter girl, but in my experience that is just a temporary fix. I find that no matter who I am with, there is something about her I wish was a bit different. Bigger boobs, prettier hair, lose a few lbs, more make-up, less make-up, bush, no bush, more tan, etc. I think the problem is me, not so much the girls. I tend to focus on her shortcomings.
To be fair I've never had an LTR with anything above an 8. Even with the 8 though I wished she had more boobs and a firmer butt, lol.
Do I just accept them as they are? I'm certainly not a 10, so I dont have huge bargaining power there; but then again looks are not everything and a 7 with loyalty and good womanly qualities outweighs a ****y 9 any day.
I guess what I'm asking is do you guys feel moments of dissatisfaction justify a break-up?
I've come to the preliminary conclusion that I will never be permanently satisfied with a woman's looks, simply because the grass is always greener and the lure of variety is so compelling.
Take my gf. She is cute, a 7 who is in good shape. Not much for boobs, though, and there are moments when I look at her and see signs of aging and ---gasp---her mother. She is 32.
I know the simple DJ solution is to just find a hotter girl, but in my experience that is just a temporary fix. I find that no matter who I am with, there is something about her I wish was a bit different. Bigger boobs, prettier hair, lose a few lbs, more make-up, less make-up, bush, no bush, more tan, etc. I think the problem is me, not so much the girls. I tend to focus on her shortcomings.
To be fair I've never had an LTR with anything above an 8. Even with the 8 though I wished she had more boobs and a firmer butt, lol.
Do I just accept them as they are? I'm certainly not a 10, so I dont have huge bargaining power there; but then again looks are not everything and a 7 with loyalty and good womanly qualities outweighs a ****y 9 any day.
I guess what I'm asking is do you guys feel moments of dissatisfaction justify a break-up?