Why are so many hot chicks so emotionally unstable?

Just an observation in a discussion with a friend over lunch. The chill, stable girls seem to be 6-7 most of the time. Anything over that is, more often than not, mentally unstable, laden with daddy issues or an AW. A very attractive girl who is also down to earth is something you come across very rarely as a man. I'm not saying this as a way of rationalising that the hotter girls are out of my league- they're not. Both groups of girls have advantages: the hotter girls look better and are undoubtedly more fun, whereas the cute girls are more stable if you're looking for something longer-term that is more than just sex.

Why is this?

Hot chicks are spoiled. All the attention and the advantages in life that go with it all goes to their heads. Her entire world becomes centered on being hot and getting attention.

You gonna see more and more chicks unstable in future, it depends on them what they put in their minds.
They are not acting by them self they are influenced by media and feminism.

It's how their lifestyles shape them. Mostly they're spoiled and stuck up, which causes a lot of crazy behavior. They also attract what they are, and everyone in their circle ends up crazy by association. They are also painfully shallow. It could also be God punishing us for lusting, and giving into temptation. Heh.

It's no big deal. Just the way it is. Just gotta recognize who they are, what they're good for, and plan accordingly. Don't fall in love with a ***** or crazy *****. They won't change, and aren't acting. Their problems are their own.

There's nothing wrong with a cute, classy nice girl though. The hot girls have nothing to offer beyond their looks, and cause more problems than they're worth. They only think they're the greatest thing around - when they aren't ****, and no one likes them beyond their looks. Bitterness and low self-esteem ensues. But the ego never leaves, and only gets larger. It's all they run their lives off of.

Mike32ct said:

Hot chicks are spoiled. All the attention and the advantages in life that go with it all goes to their heads. Her entire world becomes centered on being hot and getting attention.

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Plus deep down they know that their looks are the main reason they get such privilege and that it's going to all come crashing down as they get older. Generally the hotter the girl, the greater her insecurity.

Hot girls are heavily reliant on their looks. They know how prized they are.

They're stressed because they know that managing their pu$$y is a full time job.

While i see what you mean, and certainly agree...

Maybe it's also your own sampling. For example, 1-3s might be just as messed up, but fugly as hell and you'd never know because you don't spend time with them. The hotties who are messed up might just stick out in your memory sharper because they've captured your attention the most, and you spent more time trying to "figure them out" in detail than 5-7s or whatever.

While i see what you mean, and certainly agree...

Maybe it's also your own sampling. For example, 1-3s might be just as messed up, but fugly as hell and you'd never know because you don't spend time with them. The hotties who are messed up might just stick out in your memory sharper because they've captured your attention the most, and you spent more time trying to "figure them out" in detail than 5-7s or whatever.

As long as they can get what they want by trading on their looks they have no incentive towards personal development, no good reason to try and fix whatever it is that might be broken inside them.

Lots of good replies. So are we saying that hot girls are crazy... because most men allow them to be? Most men will not care if a girl is immature, lame, excessively giggly, into drugs, a stripper, a single mum, an AW who flirts with everyone etc etc, as long as she is hot and getting with them. We don't punish hotties for their bad behaviour by withdrawing our attention, so they have no reason to change until their looks fade.

If that's true, that's staggering. I had never considered the possibility that men might be to blame for the hot-crazy syndrome before. It also means that in order to stand out, you have to live by the following rule: the hotter the girl, the stricter you have to be with her, the higher the expectations you have to have for her behaviour, and the more ready you have to be to walk out. Makes a lot of sense.

OnTheWayUp said:

If that's true, that's staggering. I had never considered the possibility that men might be to blame for the hot-crazy syndrome before. It also means that in order to stand out, you have to live by the following rule: the hotter the girl, the stricter you have to be with her, the higher the expectations you have to have for her behaviour, and the more ready you have to be to walk out. Makes a lot of sense.

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Agreed, one of the best ways to stand out is to be the guy who doesn't put up with her BS.

"Why are so many hot chicks so emotionally unstable?"

http://grerp.blogspot.com/2010/04/piece-of-advice-27-cut-tears.html

That blog nails it wrt all sorts of stuff many of us have been seeing lately. As for women and why the hottest ones (and even average girls in the US) seem nuts, IMO it's mainly because they're raised with almost no semblance of personal responsibility or accountability for their actions, the world is handed to them on a silver platter, and to top it off, many are raised by single mothers that know little more than narcissism and using their sexuality to get their way. It's only when they hit the wall in their 30s or 40s does reality come crashing down on them.



Relevant:

http://grerp.blogspot.com/2010/04/piece-of-advice-16-dont-be-tease.html

http://grerp.blogspot.com/2010/06/piece-of-advice-48-differentiate.html

http://grerp.blogspot.com/2010/04/thoughts-on-marry-him-by-lori-gottlieb.html

http://grerp.blogspot.com/2010/03/piece-of-advice-7-do-not-be-this-girl.html

It is not just the hot ones lol

Hotter women have to work less for their earnings. Not speaking financially (although, financially it also applies in a few cases as well) but for relationships, personal attention, and any other sort of benefits. Like Mike32ct said, a lot of them are spoiled (I wouldn't say all of them).

For example, kind of an uncomfortable example here.. But a female family member of mine is a stripper. She's also incredibly stupid, selfish, narcissistic, and so on. Has two kids, always dates bad boys (drug addicts, gangsters) and has kids with two different baby daddies. She's a master at milking the system (disability, welfare etc..) and most of her money made goes toward buying nice clothes and other luxuries (ipods, jewelry, whatever).

I remember a while ago she was actually seeing a decent guy. Had his MBA, pretty damn stable, and had a great job. This guy took her on nice vacations, helped pay a few bills, and she just dumped him a few months later. This guy was an AFC simp x a million.

After he got dumped.. He continued paying my relative's cell phone bill for a year. She wouldn't even see him (other than when she needed money).

Now what did she do to earn this? NOTHING! Nothing except being present for him during their time dating. The whole time she was probably cheating on him too with her exes.

What I'm trying to say here is there are so many AFC simps in the world that would HAPPILY throw their money at a woman JUST for being physically attractive and in hopes that they will be in a relationship with the woman. BUT THEY NEVER DO AND MOST NEVER LEARN! Until they find a place like this which does not subscribe to the female serving society we live in today.

Personally, I'd rather just go for a cute girl myself. It's not that I don't think I don't deserve the "hot girl" but if I meet a girl who's sexually attractive (doesn't have to look like a p0rn star) who's intelligent, funny, witty, caring, and so on. I'm sold baby. Fvck wading through the swamp of emotionally unstable b1tches who are just out to manipulate men.

Like it was said by NUTS, their hotness will fade some day. So this might give us some relief. Remember, all power is temporary.

After 30s, the wind flows/blows to our side! After all, men are like wine! :woo:

Dealing with some hot girls is like driving a Ferrari without ABS, in a raining foggy night!! Is it worth having to develop many skills to handle it? It´s up to the driver!

They also know the game very well, since its all their lives revolve around. They manipulate people, play games, are players, and so forth. A lot of crazy stuff they do isn't crazy at all. They just don't want you to know what they're doing, so they can keep doing it. It may seem crazy, but who does it always benefit? Them.

They also tend to get involved in the wrong crowds, and have low self-esteem. As well, they don't care about how their actions affect others. They can act as crazy as they want... They don't care what anyone thinks. Nor do they place any value upon anyone.

I laugh when all these guys try to be hot and popular to attract these crazy, stuck up *****es. They're no prize; not worth attaining. The popular crowd is all about status, drama, and douche baggery. They're all morons with no substance or anything to offer.

Perhaps the stress of having to deal with guys hitting on them all day every day?

I think it's just a phase they go through, the AW stage, just like many of us go through the player phase.

floydb25 said:

They also know the game very well, since its all their lives revolve around. They manipulate people, play games, are players, and so forth. A lot of crazy stuff they do isn't crazy at all. They just don't want you to know what they're doing, so they can keep doing it. It may seem crazy, but who does it always benefit? Them.

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This point that a lot of what they do is not in fact crazy is a very good one. If you call giving mixed messages/ playing games crazy, then it seems fair to assume that hotter girls will be crazier than others. They have more options, more experience of the game, and know that their high sexual value allows them to wait for an equally high value man.

Blue Phoenix said:

Like it was said by NUTS, their hotness will fade some day. So this might give us some relief. Remember, all power is temporary.

After 30s, the wind flows/blows to our side! After all, men are like wine! :woo:

Dealing with some hot girls is like driving a Ferrari without ABS, in a raining foggy night!! Is it worth having to develop many skills to handle it? It´s up to the driver!

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"Men age like fine wine. Women age like milk."