OC Speedball
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So last night will stand as one of the most important nights of my life, and a milestone on my journey from an AFC to a Don Juan. I kiss-closed two different girls and ended up full-closing the second one. :rockon: And mind you, before last night I had NEVER EVEN KISSED A GIRL!
Here is my thread from back in July some of you might remember:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186378&highlight=speedball
Before going on I want to say that I "sort of" lost my virginity because I went in the room with her and fingered her and felt titties, but I decided not to actually have sex with her. I will explain more at the end.
So my friend told me yesterday that there was going to be a kickback/party at his friend Jessica’s house. Partying on Sunday? Whatever, I’m down. I’m still on winter break and I’ve been going out A LOT in the past two weeks and running game on quite a few girls. My inner game is solid, my confidence is high, and girls can sense it.
So the party was small, only about 15 people, almost all of them art students. At the party I got talking with two girls. A 7 and an 8. I playfully negged them both, but I teased the 8 so much that she ended up calling me a jerk (yet she still stuck around to talk to me). When I would get up and talk to different people at the party I noticed that the 7 was following me around. So I sat down knowing that she would sit next to me, and she did. We got talking one-on-one and after a few minutes her knee was touching mine and she was stroking her hair a lot. We talked for a while and she would not leave my side the rest of the time she was there. Even when her friends left she stayed behind to talk to me.
When she finally did leave I went up to her and said, “Give me your number.” She said, “You want my number?” And then I said, “Yes. Give it to me.” So she gave it to me and I gave her a hug and said bye. After she went outside she came back and said, “Hey! Come out here!” So I went outside and two of my friends were there. I asked them what was going on and they said, “Walk her to her car.” And then they walked back inside laughing. I knew what was up.
So I walked her to her car and then stopped in front of her car and said, “Obviously you know why they wanted us out here alone. So give me a kiss.” I pointed to my cheek and she planted one on it. Then I went to kiss her on the cheek… and she turned and kissed me on the lips! My first kiss!
So she left and I walked back inside feeling pretty accomplished. When I got back in there was a girl sitting on the kitchen counter eye-****ing me. I had hardly said two words to her the entire time, except when she had complimented my sneakers. She had an 8 face that reminded me of Kat Von D, but a slightly chubby body (you guys know what I’m talking about). She was 18 though, so it wasn’t the gross type of chubby yet. I couldn’t tell if she genuinely wanted me, or if she just had a sexual look all the time, so I just stared back at her with my eyes wide and she started laughing. Then a few minutes later I was in the other room and she comes up to me and asks if I wanted to go get food with them. I said sure. So I went out to the car and it was full. I said, “There are five seats and five people. Why did you ask me if I wanted to come?” Then she stood up and said, “No, come in.” So I got in and then she sat on my lap and put her hand on my leg. As we were driving I looked at her and noticed that she was looking into my eyes with a sexual smile on her face. I did a double-take and then looked into her eyes. She said, “What?” And then I smiled and said, “nothing” without looking away. She giggled and then asked if I was spending the night. I told her no, but she said she was and that I should spend the night too. I said, “maybe I will then.”
When we got back to the house I said, “Alright, get off b*tch so I can get out.” I got out of the car and then when she got out she linked her arm around mine and we walked up to the front door. When we went inside she went up to a couch and I did the same and sat down. Then she sat on my lap and put her arms around my head. I looked at her and then stroked her hair out of her face and went in. We started making out. She was really into biting my lip and sucking on my tongue. Not sure if that’s normal lol. I kissed her neck and started feeling her up. She sucked my neck and gave me a hickey. Then she asked if I wanted to go in the room. I said yes.
We get in the room and I turn on the light to take my shoes off. She says, “No. No lights.” I was like, “Wtf? I can’t see anything.” “I know I like it that way,” she said. I told her it was funny cause she was being such a woman and I was being such a man because I needed visual stimulation. So I wasn’t really turned on at all to the thought of sex with the lights off, but I got on the bed and we kept kissing anyways. I kept telling myself that I didn't want to lose my virginity like this. It was too fast and I at least wanted it to be somewhat meaningful. So I finally turned over and laid on my back and said, “I don’t want to do this. I’m gonna go out and have a cigarette.” She said, “No, don’t go. I want you sooo bad.” She sat on me, but she sat right on my bladder and I already had to pee, so I had to push her off and go pee. After I pissed I got back and she kept asking me why I didn’t want to have sex. I told her straight up, “Virgin.” She was like, “What! Really??? Wow, I would have never guessed.” Then she said, “I have a lot of respect for that.” But nonetheless she kept feeling me up trying to turn me on. I felt bad I had led her on so I offered to finger her. She obliged. She started moaning and then wrapped her legs around me in a scissor hold and started squeezing the sh*t out of me and pulling my hair.
After that I gave her a back massage and then she sucked my fingers and tried to get me hard. But she just squeezed my balls and it felt like I had been kicked in the balls. I pulled her hand away and then told her to give me a BJ. She said no. I was kinda shocked but at the same time I didn’t care. I told her I had to go. It was around 2 am. So I washed my hands and put my shirt back on. I turned on the lights and she got dressed as well. We went out and I said bye to Jessica’s friends that were spending the night, and then the girl hugged me and I left.
It was a lot to take in in one night for a guy like myself. But now that I have got the kissing part out of the way it is a huge relief. I feel even more confident now, and ready to talk to any and every girl. I look back and realize how many times I could have k-closed but I didn’t. It’s a good feeling to now know when and how to escalate. I have finally arrived.
Here is my thread from back in July some of you might remember:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186378&highlight=speedball
Before going on I want to say that I "sort of" lost my virginity because I went in the room with her and fingered her and felt titties, but I decided not to actually have sex with her. I will explain more at the end.
So my friend told me yesterday that there was going to be a kickback/party at his friend Jessica’s house. Partying on Sunday? Whatever, I’m down. I’m still on winter break and I’ve been going out A LOT in the past two weeks and running game on quite a few girls. My inner game is solid, my confidence is high, and girls can sense it.
So the party was small, only about 15 people, almost all of them art students. At the party I got talking with two girls. A 7 and an 8. I playfully negged them both, but I teased the 8 so much that she ended up calling me a jerk (yet she still stuck around to talk to me). When I would get up and talk to different people at the party I noticed that the 7 was following me around. So I sat down knowing that she would sit next to me, and she did. We got talking one-on-one and after a few minutes her knee was touching mine and she was stroking her hair a lot. We talked for a while and she would not leave my side the rest of the time she was there. Even when her friends left she stayed behind to talk to me.
When she finally did leave I went up to her and said, “Give me your number.” She said, “You want my number?” And then I said, “Yes. Give it to me.” So she gave it to me and I gave her a hug and said bye. After she went outside she came back and said, “Hey! Come out here!” So I went outside and two of my friends were there. I asked them what was going on and they said, “Walk her to her car.” And then they walked back inside laughing. I knew what was up.
So I walked her to her car and then stopped in front of her car and said, “Obviously you know why they wanted us out here alone. So give me a kiss.” I pointed to my cheek and she planted one on it. Then I went to kiss her on the cheek… and she turned and kissed me on the lips! My first kiss!
So she left and I walked back inside feeling pretty accomplished. When I got back in there was a girl sitting on the kitchen counter eye-****ing me. I had hardly said two words to her the entire time, except when she had complimented my sneakers. She had an 8 face that reminded me of Kat Von D, but a slightly chubby body (you guys know what I’m talking about). She was 18 though, so it wasn’t the gross type of chubby yet. I couldn’t tell if she genuinely wanted me, or if she just had a sexual look all the time, so I just stared back at her with my eyes wide and she started laughing. Then a few minutes later I was in the other room and she comes up to me and asks if I wanted to go get food with them. I said sure. So I went out to the car and it was full. I said, “There are five seats and five people. Why did you ask me if I wanted to come?” Then she stood up and said, “No, come in.” So I got in and then she sat on my lap and put her hand on my leg. As we were driving I looked at her and noticed that she was looking into my eyes with a sexual smile on her face. I did a double-take and then looked into her eyes. She said, “What?” And then I smiled and said, “nothing” without looking away. She giggled and then asked if I was spending the night. I told her no, but she said she was and that I should spend the night too. I said, “maybe I will then.”
When we got back to the house I said, “Alright, get off b*tch so I can get out.” I got out of the car and then when she got out she linked her arm around mine and we walked up to the front door. When we went inside she went up to a couch and I did the same and sat down. Then she sat on my lap and put her arms around my head. I looked at her and then stroked her hair out of her face and went in. We started making out. She was really into biting my lip and sucking on my tongue. Not sure if that’s normal lol. I kissed her neck and started feeling her up. She sucked my neck and gave me a hickey. Then she asked if I wanted to go in the room. I said yes.
We get in the room and I turn on the light to take my shoes off. She says, “No. No lights.” I was like, “Wtf? I can’t see anything.” “I know I like it that way,” she said. I told her it was funny cause she was being such a woman and I was being such a man because I needed visual stimulation. So I wasn’t really turned on at all to the thought of sex with the lights off, but I got on the bed and we kept kissing anyways. I kept telling myself that I didn't want to lose my virginity like this. It was too fast and I at least wanted it to be somewhat meaningful. So I finally turned over and laid on my back and said, “I don’t want to do this. I’m gonna go out and have a cigarette.” She said, “No, don’t go. I want you sooo bad.” She sat on me, but she sat right on my bladder and I already had to pee, so I had to push her off and go pee. After I pissed I got back and she kept asking me why I didn’t want to have sex. I told her straight up, “Virgin.” She was like, “What! Really??? Wow, I would have never guessed.” Then she said, “I have a lot of respect for that.” But nonetheless she kept feeling me up trying to turn me on. I felt bad I had led her on so I offered to finger her. She obliged. She started moaning and then wrapped her legs around me in a scissor hold and started squeezing the sh*t out of me and pulling my hair.
After that I gave her a back massage and then she sucked my fingers and tried to get me hard. But she just squeezed my balls and it felt like I had been kicked in the balls. I pulled her hand away and then told her to give me a BJ. She said no. I was kinda shocked but at the same time I didn’t care. I told her I had to go. It was around 2 am. So I washed my hands and put my shirt back on. I turned on the lights and she got dressed as well. We went out and I said bye to Jessica’s friends that were spending the night, and then the girl hugged me and I left.
It was a lot to take in in one night for a guy like myself. But now that I have got the kissing part out of the way it is a huge relief. I feel even more confident now, and ready to talk to any and every girl. I look back and realize how many times I could have k-closed but I didn’t. It’s a good feeling to now know when and how to escalate. I have finally arrived.
