In a beautiful way !

Brazilian_Blues_Boy

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** A word of advice: if you think that encouraging is afc bullsh!t, and that only gay people need to read life changing kind of advice, stop right now!
If you're not ready to at least challenge the way you see life, and try to see it in a different way, taking your conclusions and then choosing if it works for you, don't waste your precious time reading this.
And if you do, I've warned you! Don't post me bullsh!t. **



Stop.
You're only going to be reading this once, so stop and give it 5 minutes of your time.

Smile.
Yes, smile.
Like this :)

Okay, now remember a time when you felt really good about yourself.
Not just a time, but lots of times ! With your friends, with your family, with girls, with sports, with games and anything else that comes to your mind !!

Allow yourself to take time and experience those good times.
Remember how you felt, how it was like inside of you when you were laughing/crying because of laughing too much.

Remember that pain in your stomach, your abs hard of laughing too much, and your weakness after a good session of laughter.
How you couldn't even stand up, breathe or even finish a sentence...
:D
Yeah feels good right ??
Pay attention to the details, remember the story behind your laughter... what you saw and/or what you heard that make you laugh so wildy !

While doing it, don't "just remember". Feel it in your bones, see that friend of yours falling like sh!t in the bucket in full colors, and as wide as a movie theater screen. Pay attention to all the nuances, the sun/moon, the indoors/outside , other people's reaction, and what you focused on the moment.

Remember the sounds of your friends/you farting in the middle of an exam, and the whole class laughing out loud, or any other funny sounds/voices or even jokes someone told you and you laughed miserably !!

Listen them in Dolby Surround !!
Like in the movies !!

Now remember how good it felt... and allow yourself to be silly.
When you feel that you're living the moment, happy like if you were there, give yourself 3 taps in the stomach !!
Just for the sake of it !!

Okay, and do this often !!

Do this "flashback session" every once in a while, and don't forget to tap your stomach 3 times !!
For the sake of it !!

Now, let's get back to business.
We're so worried about girls/sports/family/insert your favorite concern here that we forget to take some time to remember all the crazy things we've lived.

And man, they sure get you pumped !!
Laughter is our dope man !!
Only women (certain things they do for us) get us this high !!

We live in a very stressful world, and we forget to laugh, and be happy !!
And sometimes when funny things aren't happening all day we starting feeling bad and unpumped.

So let's solve this by doing what I said !!
Remembering !!
Feeling it again !!

We're teenagers, the funniest years of our lives are now, and if we don't set ourselves in the mood, we might miss the party !!

Happiness comes from the inside !!
Then makes you glow, and this glow attracts people, and allow other happy situations to arise !!

It's a snowball, if you don't throw the first piece it will never grow into a huge, devastating ball of Happiness.

Now that we are in the mood, let me tell you something very particular from my group of friends, and from my language.

When greeting other people, in english is common saying:

What's up?
How you doin'
Are you okay/all right/good ?

Nothing wrong with that, but when we're happy, we want to make pretty things common to us.
A great friend of mine, a natural DJ, that I always mention in my posts, did not say how are you or what's up... He says:

Everything's in a beatiful way ?
Everything's gorgeous ?
In a beautiful way ?

I know it sounds silly, but he's a natural DJ. He's the man, and by saying Beautiful, gorgeous and other "pretty" words, he wants us to feel that beauty should be seen in all moments of our life, not just in women.

When we played we soccer, we'd play in a 'beautiful way'
When we went out just to eat something and talk, we went in a 'gorgeous way'.
When we were just talking, he'd come and ask:
Everything's 'going beautiful' with you guys ?

Let's put more beauty in your lives !
Just by saying B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L , already makes our day better.
Think about, you have associated it your whole life to beautiful girls, and beautiful girls make you feel good.
So Beautiful, just by saying it, makes you feel good.

It's something very personal, but once you get into the concept of the 'beautiful' , you see how things change at the way you see the world.

Not just with girls, but with everything.
'Beautiful' is a way of living :D (Okay I got a little carried away.)

All the things you love, they're all beautiful.
What's beautiful for you, may not be beautiful for me.
But if you enjoy it and leave in a beautiful way, man, I'll feel that, and man, beatiful !

Find the little beauties in your daily live.
Go have that watermelon juice you like so much, in a beautiful way ! It'll taste better !!

WARNING!WARNING!WARNING!WARNING!

Some people are just not ready for the whole beautiful concept, they're still bitter/lost/undecided/unaware of the beauty of the small things.

Watch the sun rising in this new year, in a beautiful way !
Go out p*ssy hunting with your friends, in a beatiful way !
Hear a no and get rejected in a beautiful way !!
Go out with the babes in a beautiful way !
Play your favorite sport in a beautiful way !
Stay home drinking coke and playing some game, in a beautiful way !

Love who you are, and love what you do, because it is beautiful.
Even your mistakes are beatiful. Because you'll learn from them and then act EVEN MORE beautiful next time !

We take to much time focusing on what's wrong and what's ugly and what's bad, instead of focusing on what's sweet !

Add these words to your vocabulary:

Sweet
Smooth
Suave
Beautiful
Gorgeous
Pretty
Sooo Good (thank you dear Mr. James Brown)


Instead of just going to the caffeteria and swallowing something, take time to enjoy yourself and enjoy your meal.
Eat slowly, drink some good juice and enjoy this time for yourself.

Five minutes of nice treating to yourself, it costs the same but if you see it with different eyes it is so much better !

I hope you all get the "beautiful" thingy inside yourselves, because from all the advice of how to get p*ssy from my DJ friend, this is the best one !!
And it isn't related to girls, but to everything !

Next time you see a baby smile, an old couple walking hand in hand, people laughing, a couple kissing, kids with their parents, flowers, people playing sports, yourself having a good meal, yourself having a good time, yourself chillin' out, remember, how beautiful things are !

There are many bitter people around!
And most of them are forgotten !

Don't treat others in an ugly way !
Treat all those who deserve in a beautiful way !
And those who do not deserve too ! (of course, with exceptions!)

If you move through the world in a gorgeous way, with this concept of 'beautiful' in your head, you're headed for success, fortune, luck, love and all the good things that are out there !

You can't be great if you don't see the beauties of the things !

My friend said, you're young, you have time to change the way you see the world, and the sooner you change, the better you'll be prepared when the grown-up opportunities appear to you !

So let's change !
Let's live 2003 in a beautiful way !!

Happy new year, in the most beautiful way :)


P.S.: The 3 tap thing is an anchor, an NLP technique to associate a mental state (in this case your happiness) to a very specific gesture.
Try it, if it works, everytime you tap your stomach 3 times you'll feel happy !
And if it doesn't work, keep trying until it does !!
If it still doesn't, look for specific NLP advice on 'Anchoring' , and make it work for you !!

BBB
 
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Mack Of All Trades

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Good touch on the nlp. The weird thing is that when you said NLP, I JUST remembered how I learned a little about NLP and how it was succesfully used. Another example of NLP in itself!
 

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Wow, you did that in a beautiful way. You've inspired me!! Suave and smooth...I LOVE IT!!!
 

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That post inspired me in a beautiful way. starting tomorrow i am going to use this. Thank you for all your beautiful insight BBB. i really find it very inspiring, keep it up.
 

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Everytime i read the word "beauty" I keep thinking of Bob and Doug Mackenzie. "Beauty, eh". :p

Nice nice post though. I'll read it in full soon.
 

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Why is this all the way down here? Back to the top you go!
 

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Originally posted by crazykid
Why is this all the way down here? Back to the top you go!
Thank you for bumping it. This is the first time I've read it.
 
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