"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Divorce Court: He's too nice

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Chamber36

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This is great; funny and educational.
 

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Yeah because Divorce Court is totally real. Even the bailiff is real, he's not a paid actor with a plastic gun. Even the audience definitely doesn't get paid to be there in that real court as hired extras, it's totally not an arbitration court which pays both the defendant and the plaintiff for their appearances.

It's really real television.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alle_Gory said:
Yeah because Divorce Court is totally real. Even the bailiff is real, he's not a paid actor with a plastic gun. Even the audience definitely doesn't get paid to be there in that real court as hired extras, it's totally not an arbitration court which pays both the defendant and the plaintiff for their appearances.

It's really real television.
Unfortunately this crap is real. Everyone is paid, but this crap is reality. My uncle was on the dang show.
 

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Espi said:
True...or, JUST DON'T GET MARRIED!
There is no benefit to marriage for a man. A woman gets a whole lot but a man gets the ability to have to pay child support for a long time, alimony (Sometimes permanent depending on the time/state,) and loses half of his assets minimum (Circumstances do apply) if, like more than half of all marriages, it goes into divorce.

However if he never marries he only has to shell out child support for the amount of time until the kid is 18 and possibly more if the kid goes to college (A part of the kids FAFSA would get sought out from the biological parent.) Why would a man want that possibility?
 

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Divorce Court is as real as "Entourage". That s--- has more producers than "The Brady Bunch" ever did! Another show that takes advantage of poverty stricken Americans.

You have serious issues if you think that is how things go down. They even sell the rights to such trash to places like Russia. How do I know? Because I watch such Russian language trash! Russian trash is my specialty!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zI2-UUZQ5eQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player
Eh, the Russian version. Gotta love how the guy talks about how he married a virgin (still a big deal to non-Anglos), but she wasn't. Outside of that it is the same s--- as the American version.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The cases are real and the judge are real. But its like a reality tv show they only going show the most outlandish of cases and rarely show the normal ones. Also court is not a lively place to be in its generally very dull and stagnant.

But to op above yeah that woman was worthless.
 
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