What you need to understand is that "physical attraction" and "horny" are two different states. Girls generally don't just get "horny" just because they're with someone they find physically attractive. Kind of like you can see an attractive woman walk by, but you don't instantly pop a b0ner and start humping air. You're ATTRACTED, but not HORNY.
When the girl shows signs of ATTRACTION, things like eye-contact, giggles, twirling the hair, turning to face you...that kind of stuff, then you have to escalate to make the jump from "attracted" to "horny". The best resource for escalating a girl from attraction to horniness is here:
How do I know when she's HORNY??
- When she starts reciprocating suggestive kino
- When her voice falls into that soft/seductive state, or even better, stops talking altogether
- When she lets you lead her around and pretty much do whatever you want, to her physically, short of groping her private parts
- When she adopts a receptive/inviting posture
You ever been to a strip-club? Strippers are experts at these behaviors. They use them to pretend to men that THEY are horny, thus enticing the MEN to become horny and pay for lapdances, etc.
Most women won't show these behaviors outright in public...they'll do so subtly, or in a way that suggests that they're "fighting it". When they start accusing you of being "bad", "out of control", "trouble", etc...or say things like, "I don't know if I trust myself around you"...you know you're on the right track.
Now if you're escalating/kino-ing right through this interval, eventually you'll hit the "DTF point". Women give a very specific physical sign when they're "DTF"...their p*ssy gets wet.
This isn't something a casual observer can pick up on...you need to be in CLOSE proximity to her. But you can feel it when you put a hand on her thigh and the air just feels a little
more "humid" down there. Some girls you can SMELL it. Although be careful...too strong a smell can mean she doesn't take care of herself down there.
You learn to recognize the smell after a while...I was at a party last weekend, someone was tossing around a pair of my buddy's girlfriend's panties, I got a hold of them and was like, "Dude, you need to handle this girl now, she's in season". Apparently she was rubbing up against MY crotch later that day...I was too drunk to notice.
Once she's wet down there...you just have to take it easy and just lean on her gently until she "cracks". Look for an opportunity to take control of her body and start that first passionate kiss.
Horny signs + wet 'tang + kiss = she's putty in your hands.
God damn...I need to stop describing this sh!t to you guys when I don't have a girl/porn handy for a release.