"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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love or lust, which one?

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That's it, I thought, but again i get confused if I love the guy or is it just lust?
This guy I have been dating is a suave talker, he always got me off my feet every time he talks sweet nothing to me. I don't know if I am just weak or I love him even if I know he got lots of girlfriends. Am confused. I think he is just playing around but still I always ended saying yes to him every time he wants to have sex with me. HELP! Do you know anything about good dating and about true love? Hope you do and post it here...
K guys got to go....hope to hear from you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No dude.....I think its love and if you really love him you will give him a BJ the next time you see him
 
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roseann said:
That's it, I thought, but again i get confused if I love the guy or is it just lust?

If you have to ask, it's probably lust.

This guy I have been dating is a suave talker, he always got me off my feet every time he talks sweet nothing to me. I don't know if I am just weak or I love him even if I know he got lots of girlfriends. Am confused. I think he is just playing around but still I always ended saying yes to him every time he wants to have sex with me. HELP!

He knows how to push your buttons, i.e. make your 'gina tingle. Plus, he's probably good in the sack so you come back for more. Yes, it's absolutely lust. You THINK it's love because either you want to justify in your own mind your investment in him and/or you're getting attached from being physical with this guy.

Do you know anything about good dating and about true love? Hope you do and post it here...K guys got to go....hope to hear from you.
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Broad, open-ended questions hurt my brain. I do better with specific ones :rock:.
 
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Real love is not about sex or smooth talking. Would this person die for you probably not. You are in lust hurts get over it.
 
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