Complicated Mess in My Relationship

I've been with my girlfriend for the last year and a half. We met in the beginning of 2008. It started out as long distance then she moved to my area in September of 2009. We live 12 minutes apart now. I'm 30 years old. She's 28.

She has her own place her own job her own car. She has recently asked me to move in with her & she even asked me to marry her. I told her no.

Another problem is that we don't have sex. She wants to go all the way with me but I don't want to go all the way with her. I've been in 6 different relationships in my entire life and none of the women were able to make me orgasm during sex. The only way I can achieve orgasm is through masturbation.

So back in 2002 I made a decision to give up sex with women until the end of time & just get my needs met from masturbation & occasional lesbian pornography. There's many reasons I made this decision besides the fact that I get more pleasure from masturbation than sexual intercourse.

So what should I do about my current relationship? She seemed pretty disappointed that I turned down her proposal to live together & get married. Now she has left it alone and thinks that with time I'm going to change my mind.

So should I just break it off with her so that I'm not wasting her time? If marriage & living together is what she wants then she should go find a guy who wants those things too right? I don't want to hold her back.

I even tried introducing her to one of my friends who is looking for a wife. He says he wants to be married in the next 2 years.

I have no interest in getting married in my future but I do want to date a woman exclusively for the rest of my life if things don't work out with my current girlfriend. I think my girlfriend is a great woman but we're just incompatible about our long term goals for the relationship. She wants marriage & all I want to do is date her exclusively until the end of time.

of course you cant orgasm with a women. youve became desensitized from all those years jacking off to porn.

you have a serious situation here buddy. you must cut off the porn(easier said than done) or you will never be happy being intimate with a women.

be honest to your girl and let her go.

P.S. post your age in your profile.

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A complicated mess in your relationship?

Fvck me, you need help with more than that.

You're a big user of p0rn aren't you, whack off 5 - 9 times a day? There's no use denying it, it's the first step on the road to recovery.

Stop jacking off, stop looking at p0rn and get your fvcking life back. Also, get therapy.

Any man who voluntarily would rather jack off rather than stick his c0ck inside a nice wet pvssy and go to town needs serious help. GET IT!

sounds kindish of trollish, just my take.

Dug yourself a deep hole here. Try not rubbing one out for 2 weeks. Take the rest of the month off. You will crave the touch of a woman like again.

grayclif said:

sounds kindish of trollish, just my take.

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Yeah, but I like the theme he picked. And he put a lot of effort in writing that, so might not be a troll.

Dear Greg,
This is debatedly the single most interesting post I have read here...It takes all kinds mate,who is really to say you need counselling?not me for sure.....Must everyone conform to some unwritten norm?whats normal anyway?.....Many "normal" folk indulge in destructive activities.You however come across as a sensitive caring lover,who gets his jollies in a different way to most of us...if this Lady,as I feel sure,enjoys your company,then just let things drift...I wish you both well.

The "complicated mess" is not in your relationship, it's in your HEAD.

You dont' f**k this girl, you don't want to marry her...what ARE you dating her for??

This can't possibly be legit.

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Anyone smell a troll here?