HolyG said:
My goal is to hit the sweet spot between huge / bulky and lean / jacked.
I'm not ashamed in admitting that I want a body girls will drool over; the more clearly I define my goals the better, plus maybe people who have reached that point can give me some advice.
Any eating / dieting tips would ESPECIALLY go a very long way. I'll be posting pictures in this thread, the better to help motivate me and cause others to offer tips
Nothing wrong with wanting a body like that. But know that unless you have great genetics, you're in for a lot of brutal hard work and discipline. Lifting is a lifestyle choice. Its something I'll do as long as I am physically able, and you should approach it the same way.
I use photobucket.com to upload and post pics. Its a really user friendly site.
As far as dieting tips go. Plan your diet ahead of time, write it down, tape it up in your kitchen or some place where you can always see it. Succeeding in fitness is all about planning, execution and staying consistent. If you don't have a plan then you won't get anywhere. If you have a good plan, but can't implement and stick to it properly, then you won't get anywhere either.
First thing I would advise you to do is make clear short term (12-16 week) goals, and then plan on where you wanna be in a 1-2 years. Your diet and training will depend on what you wanna accomplish. Get your body composition checked. Most gyms can do it for a small fee. Stick with calipers. I'm not a huge proponent of bioelectrical impedance as there's way too many factors that affect the results.
Cutting down on jerking off will definitely help with your aggression in the gym. Aggression = intensity, and intensity = awesome!
You also need to post past exercise/sports history and your 1 rep maxes on deads, squats, and bench. Also post how many bodyweight pull ups and dips you can do. The more info you give the easier we can help you out.