(If you want to read that bit and ignore the flakes, fatties and crazy b1tches, scroll down to Girl 5)
Have been doing the online thing lately. For whatever reason (actually because I apparently look cute in my profile pic), girls have been contacting me, so I haven’t had to do any of the initial approach work.
I’m now living and working in a small town about 1.5 hours north of my normal place during weeks for a project near there, and back to “the pad” on the weekends.
So only 2 nights a week to meet up with girls makes time management and planning critical!
Had been away delayed getting back home after the Xmas break due to flooding, so had a bunch of numbers from girls to meet up with.
Girl 1 – Flake - Nexted
Meant to meet up Friday night, but when I send her a text a few hours before, she said she couldn’t get in touch in with her sister (who she supposedly had arranged to look after her daughter).
A single mom with no job, so I told her ok, we will reschedule for some other time, then deleted her number.
Lesson: If you have lots of options, 2 strikes is too many since you can’t get through all the girls. Girls who don’t meet (or are near to meeting) your ideal women criteria only deserve 1 strike.
Girl 2 – Friday Night
She had been texting me a lot, so I knew she was keen, and after deleting Girl 1’s number, managed to (at short notice) arrange to meet up with Girl 2.
Meet at a well known place to play some pool. I hadn’t played pool for a while but once I got my eye back in, managed to win most of the games.
She kept saying it was because she got distracted because I was cute (she hit the white ball of the table a couple of times!), and she is obviously attracted to me, since she kept touching me when we played. And I made sure to keep teasing her as well.
End of the night, she drops me off at my place, some kissing in the car, but that is all. Meeting up with her again next Friday night.
She is obviously into me. Here’s an extract of messages that she sent me later that night and next morning:
“Ps. Ridiculously hot biceps u have btw!”
“They were v v yummy.”
I think we will go further next Friday for sure.
Lesson: Whoever says looks don’t matter is an idiot. Game etc is also important, but do everything you can to maximise your looks.
Girl 3 – Saturday Afternoon - Elephant Girl – Nexted without meeting
Meet to meet up with her at 3pm. Her profile said body type was normal. I made the mistake of not getting any full body shots (since I am only getting back into this online stuff again).
She sends me a message to say she is sitting on the corner where we are to meet reading a book.
I do a drive past and she is FAT! I come back from the other direction to confirm and never stop.
She lied to me about her body type, so I dumped her by text. She has the nerve to act as if I am in the wrong and it is what on the inside that counts.
Lesson: When will girls wake up and learn that for a guy at the start, a woman’s looks are about 95%, and other **** is only about 5%?
Always get a full body photo before meeting up to avoid wasting time on the fatties. If she won’t send a photo, don’t waste your time.
Girl 4 – Saturday Night – “Curvy Girl” - Nexted
I was nervous about meeting her, since she had been putting herself down in her messages to me.
And when we meet up, it turns out that way, as she is bigger than what I like. Fat rather than curvy. Plus she is a single mom with no job – two more big negatives for me.
So I drop her back at her car, send her a text to say similar to “thanks, but no thanks, you’re not my physical type”.
Make the mistake of saying don’t feel too bad, and recount the story of me dumping Elephant Girl, and she goes psycho, blowing up my phone saying about how that is the lowest thing she has ever heard of, it is what is on the inside that counts, blah blah blah.
Also says I’m not even that good looking… ha ha. She threatens to spread bad words about me on POF, so I say go ahead. And then ignore her messages.
Last one she sent me was a long rambling one about 1am (when out with Girl 5), which I deleted.
Lesson: Do not fall prey to the feminise power conventions so prevalent in our society. There is no point in trying to argue the point with a woman – instead just do things according to your own rules.
If a girl says on her profile that what is on the inside is most important, then she is ugly and not worth your time.
Girl 5 – Met her at the club for first date and took her home with me
This girl was easily the hottest of the lot, probably a HB8. About my age, well educated, a short curvy brunette.
I had previously told her I was busy for the weekend, but would see what happened.
A while after I finished with Girl 4, about 9pm, get a message “How u going? What’s plans for tonight?”
I make up a story about being at a house party with some mates, and turns out she is out on the town, but her friends are leaving and she wants to stay out later.
So I say, none of my friends want to come into town, so I will leave them and meet up with you, be in there in about 20 min.
I get to the club where she is, and send her a text to find out where she is, and see her and go over to say hi.
She leaves the people she was with, and we sit together. Talking was ok in the start, but then the music got louder. She is really into me, touching me quite a bit (of course, I was doing the same).
We were alternating buying the drinks for each other, so she is not just into it for the free drinks.
Try to get her to dance, but she says she is shy. But finally manage to get her on the dance floor. Wasn’t really dancing as much as kissing and grinding on the dance floor. She is really into me.
When it is getting late, I whisper into her ear “we should go somewhere a bit more private.” She shakes her head, and says she has to go home soon.
So, a bit later, we leave the club. More kissing outside on the footpath.
She says she is going to catch a cab to go home, and I say, well that is up to you. More kissing ensues, and then she says “Well, anything that happens is because of you” and I know I’ve got her.
We catch a cab back to my place, end up on my bed, clothes come off, some foreplay, and right when I am getting a condom on, she says “maybe we shouldn’t do this”.
Temporarily put me off my game, but I didn’t say anything, just started kissing her again and soon she is ready for me.
Afterwards, she wants to catch a cab home so I wait with her out the front until she leaves. She sends me a message “Hey sorry I ran, but just wanted to b home in own bed”
And then a few others, telling about how when she got back home, she walked through a spider web and almost had a heart attack (spiders was something that came up early on when we were chatting, and which I had been teasing her about at various time since).
Lesson: Attractive girls are often just as keen for s*x as the ugly ones.
Don’t lock yourself into anything with an ugly girl when there are others out there much better looking AND in better touch with their sexuality.
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Felt kind of hung over today, but all in all not a bad weekend.
Plans are partially already in place for next weekend, to include girls 2 and 5, but also have to try and fit in 4 others who I have tentatively pencilled in for some time.
Looks like it could be another busy weekend. It’s all a number game boys!
Don’t let the feminine power conventions that pervade our society so strongly control you. Spin more plates, and play the game by your own rules.
Have been doing the online thing lately. For whatever reason (actually because I apparently look cute in my profile pic), girls have been contacting me, so I haven’t had to do any of the initial approach work.
I’m now living and working in a small town about 1.5 hours north of my normal place during weeks for a project near there, and back to “the pad” on the weekends.
So only 2 nights a week to meet up with girls makes time management and planning critical!
Had been away delayed getting back home after the Xmas break due to flooding, so had a bunch of numbers from girls to meet up with.
Girl 1 – Flake - Nexted
Meant to meet up Friday night, but when I send her a text a few hours before, she said she couldn’t get in touch in with her sister (who she supposedly had arranged to look after her daughter).
A single mom with no job, so I told her ok, we will reschedule for some other time, then deleted her number.
Lesson: If you have lots of options, 2 strikes is too many since you can’t get through all the girls. Girls who don’t meet (or are near to meeting) your ideal women criteria only deserve 1 strike.
Girl 2 – Friday Night
She had been texting me a lot, so I knew she was keen, and after deleting Girl 1’s number, managed to (at short notice) arrange to meet up with Girl 2.
Meet at a well known place to play some pool. I hadn’t played pool for a while but once I got my eye back in, managed to win most of the games.
She kept saying it was because she got distracted because I was cute (she hit the white ball of the table a couple of times!), and she is obviously attracted to me, since she kept touching me when we played. And I made sure to keep teasing her as well.
End of the night, she drops me off at my place, some kissing in the car, but that is all. Meeting up with her again next Friday night.
She is obviously into me. Here’s an extract of messages that she sent me later that night and next morning:
“Ps. Ridiculously hot biceps u have btw!”
“They were v v yummy.”
I think we will go further next Friday for sure.
Lesson: Whoever says looks don’t matter is an idiot. Game etc is also important, but do everything you can to maximise your looks.
Girl 3 – Saturday Afternoon - Elephant Girl – Nexted without meeting
Meet to meet up with her at 3pm. Her profile said body type was normal. I made the mistake of not getting any full body shots (since I am only getting back into this online stuff again).
She sends me a message to say she is sitting on the corner where we are to meet reading a book.
I do a drive past and she is FAT! I come back from the other direction to confirm and never stop.
She lied to me about her body type, so I dumped her by text. She has the nerve to act as if I am in the wrong and it is what on the inside that counts.
Lesson: When will girls wake up and learn that for a guy at the start, a woman’s looks are about 95%, and other **** is only about 5%?
Always get a full body photo before meeting up to avoid wasting time on the fatties. If she won’t send a photo, don’t waste your time.
Girl 4 – Saturday Night – “Curvy Girl” - Nexted
I was nervous about meeting her, since she had been putting herself down in her messages to me.
And when we meet up, it turns out that way, as she is bigger than what I like. Fat rather than curvy. Plus she is a single mom with no job – two more big negatives for me.
So I drop her back at her car, send her a text to say similar to “thanks, but no thanks, you’re not my physical type”.
Make the mistake of saying don’t feel too bad, and recount the story of me dumping Elephant Girl, and she goes psycho, blowing up my phone saying about how that is the lowest thing she has ever heard of, it is what is on the inside that counts, blah blah blah.
Also says I’m not even that good looking… ha ha. She threatens to spread bad words about me on POF, so I say go ahead. And then ignore her messages.
Last one she sent me was a long rambling one about 1am (when out with Girl 5), which I deleted.
Lesson: Do not fall prey to the feminise power conventions so prevalent in our society. There is no point in trying to argue the point with a woman – instead just do things according to your own rules.
If a girl says on her profile that what is on the inside is most important, then she is ugly and not worth your time.
Girl 5 – Met her at the club for first date and took her home with me
This girl was easily the hottest of the lot, probably a HB8. About my age, well educated, a short curvy brunette.
I had previously told her I was busy for the weekend, but would see what happened.
A while after I finished with Girl 4, about 9pm, get a message “How u going? What’s plans for tonight?”
I make up a story about being at a house party with some mates, and turns out she is out on the town, but her friends are leaving and she wants to stay out later.
So I say, none of my friends want to come into town, so I will leave them and meet up with you, be in there in about 20 min.
I get to the club where she is, and send her a text to find out where she is, and see her and go over to say hi.
She leaves the people she was with, and we sit together. Talking was ok in the start, but then the music got louder. She is really into me, touching me quite a bit (of course, I was doing the same).
We were alternating buying the drinks for each other, so she is not just into it for the free drinks.
Try to get her to dance, but she says she is shy. But finally manage to get her on the dance floor. Wasn’t really dancing as much as kissing and grinding on the dance floor. She is really into me.
When it is getting late, I whisper into her ear “we should go somewhere a bit more private.” She shakes her head, and says she has to go home soon.
So, a bit later, we leave the club. More kissing outside on the footpath.
She says she is going to catch a cab to go home, and I say, well that is up to you. More kissing ensues, and then she says “Well, anything that happens is because of you” and I know I’ve got her.
We catch a cab back to my place, end up on my bed, clothes come off, some foreplay, and right when I am getting a condom on, she says “maybe we shouldn’t do this”.
Temporarily put me off my game, but I didn’t say anything, just started kissing her again and soon she is ready for me.
Afterwards, she wants to catch a cab home so I wait with her out the front until she leaves. She sends me a message “Hey sorry I ran, but just wanted to b home in own bed”
And then a few others, telling about how when she got back home, she walked through a spider web and almost had a heart attack (spiders was something that came up early on when we were chatting, and which I had been teasing her about at various time since).
Lesson: Attractive girls are often just as keen for s*x as the ugly ones.
Don’t lock yourself into anything with an ugly girl when there are others out there much better looking AND in better touch with their sexuality.
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Felt kind of hung over today, but all in all not a bad weekend.
Plans are partially already in place for next weekend, to include girls 2 and 5, but also have to try and fit in 4 others who I have tentatively pencilled in for some time.
Looks like it could be another busy weekend. It’s all a number game boys!
Don’t let the feminine power conventions that pervade our society so strongly control you. Spin more plates, and play the game by your own rules.
