I've been seeing and dating a girl for about a month now. Hooked up, no sex. She seemed like a nice girl, not crazy or anything. Until early this week.
Here is why she stopped seeing me.
Apparently I hide things from her (my intentions, my life goals, vital information)
I also am closed off, that it's like pulling teeth to get me to say something.
Apparently, I am looking for something different then her. Even though I told her that am looking for something more meaningful with the RIGHT girl.
I also (according to her) am not open with her. Even though I have known her for FOUR WEEKS.
She says I am HIDING A LOT. Things that show that I don't want a serious relationship.
She says that hiding information from her caused her anxiety, stress, and undue hardship.I seriously thought next thing she was going to say was "I'm suing you."
She says that we are both looking for something different, when I'm just trying to get to know her. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE'S TALKING ABOUT!!!
She may have a point in some regards, I'm not a very open person at first (don't want to get hurt) but come on man! It's been four weeks!
My personality and liking of someone grows within time. This girl was accusing me of things that were crazy. She wouldn't believe anything I said. She believed NOTHING. And I'm just sitting there going "are you for fuking real?" My life is not that exciting to hide stuff. My life consists of my goals, dreams, and aspirations. This chick asked me nothing about those things (and if she did, I answered them), but apparently I "hide" stuff. I have survived 33 winters on this earth and have never ran across someone remotely close to this. WTF?
I always thought that as long as two people enjoyed each other's company and were attracted to each other, that naturally it would take its course. Is this chick mentally ill? Or am I a closed off and unresponsive person that she "has seen in four weeks of dating".
Here is why she stopped seeing me.
Apparently I hide things from her (my intentions, my life goals, vital information)
I also am closed off, that it's like pulling teeth to get me to say something.
Apparently, I am looking for something different then her. Even though I told her that am looking for something more meaningful with the RIGHT girl.
I also (according to her) am not open with her. Even though I have known her for FOUR WEEKS.
She says I am HIDING A LOT. Things that show that I don't want a serious relationship.
She says that hiding information from her caused her anxiety, stress, and undue hardship.I seriously thought next thing she was going to say was "I'm suing you."
She says that we are both looking for something different, when I'm just trying to get to know her. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT SHE'S TALKING ABOUT!!!
She may have a point in some regards, I'm not a very open person at first (don't want to get hurt) but come on man! It's been four weeks!
My personality and liking of someone grows within time. This girl was accusing me of things that were crazy. She wouldn't believe anything I said. She believed NOTHING. And I'm just sitting there going "are you for fuking real?" My life is not that exciting to hide stuff. My life consists of my goals, dreams, and aspirations. This chick asked me nothing about those things (and if she did, I answered them), but apparently I "hide" stuff. I have survived 33 winters on this earth and have never ran across someone remotely close to this. WTF?
I always thought that as long as two people enjoyed each other's company and were attracted to each other, that naturally it would take its course. Is this chick mentally ill? Or am I a closed off and unresponsive person that she "has seen in four weeks of dating".