I think there's some kind of message here :
Some years back, I was in a serious relationship. We even lived together for about a year, then she moved out (she was really starting to get *****y). However, after she moved out, she still wanted to continue as a couple. I was like OK w/ that. A couple months later, I caught her in a big lie....No, it didn't involve another guy, but it still hurt because I trusted her. I texted her w/ these words "Trust is gone, it's over". I was at a golf driving range when I texted this. I was down to my last golfball....I said to myself "If I just did the right thing, this is going to be my best shot of the day !" I proceeded to smack a straight 300 yarder (I don't even golf...I just like going to the range). Later, I decided to go to a mall to get lunch and to check out the chicks walking by since I was now back on the market. I sit down on a bench and start checking out the hotties.
Here comes the text messages :
"Is it really over?"
"I want to see you !"
"I miss you !"
She eventually wears me down w/ her texts and calls, so I decide to see her, and she seems so sincerely sorry that I think "Maybe we do have something here ?" I take her back
Right away she starts getting *****ier and *****ier...more so than ever. All of a sudden she stops answering calls. This is like 2 weeks after I took her back. I finally reach her and she's like "It's over !". I am now feeling like a devastated chump. I don't see her for 3 months, and I miss her big time (go figure).
My friends from another country are visiting, so I decide to show them a very fancy mall (yeah the same one). We are about to leave the mall after spending the afternoon there, but then i decide to show them one more of my favorite stores. We go upstairs and are now in the exact same spot where I was sitting 4 months earlier contemplating my ex's text messages. I look up and who's walking towards us holding hands w/ a new boyfriend ? Yes ! Correct !
The probability odds of us meeting like that must be astronomical...but if that wasn't some kind of message, I don't know what is.
The lesson I learned is that even if chick doesn't like you and wants to leave, if you dump her first, her ego will freak out and she will temporarily change just so she can be the dumper and not the dumpee
Some years back, I was in a serious relationship. We even lived together for about a year, then she moved out (she was really starting to get *****y). However, after she moved out, she still wanted to continue as a couple. I was like OK w/ that. A couple months later, I caught her in a big lie....No, it didn't involve another guy, but it still hurt because I trusted her. I texted her w/ these words "Trust is gone, it's over". I was at a golf driving range when I texted this. I was down to my last golfball....I said to myself "If I just did the right thing, this is going to be my best shot of the day !" I proceeded to smack a straight 300 yarder (I don't even golf...I just like going to the range). Later, I decided to go to a mall to get lunch and to check out the chicks walking by since I was now back on the market. I sit down on a bench and start checking out the hotties.
Here comes the text messages :
"Is it really over?"
"I want to see you !"
"I miss you !"
She eventually wears me down w/ her texts and calls, so I decide to see her, and she seems so sincerely sorry that I think "Maybe we do have something here ?" I take her back
Right away she starts getting *****ier and *****ier...more so than ever. All of a sudden she stops answering calls. This is like 2 weeks after I took her back. I finally reach her and she's like "It's over !". I am now feeling like a devastated chump. I don't see her for 3 months, and I miss her big time (go figure).
My friends from another country are visiting, so I decide to show them a very fancy mall (yeah the same one). We are about to leave the mall after spending the afternoon there, but then i decide to show them one more of my favorite stores. We go upstairs and are now in the exact same spot where I was sitting 4 months earlier contemplating my ex's text messages. I look up and who's walking towards us holding hands w/ a new boyfriend ? Yes ! Correct !
The probability odds of us meeting like that must be astronomical...but if that wasn't some kind of message, I don't know what is.
The lesson I learned is that even if chick doesn't like you and wants to leave, if you dump her first, her ego will freak out and she will temporarily change just so she can be the dumper and not the dumpee
