Does she want to get fudged?

bongo

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Hello , I am new to this forum and seeking some advice. I will try to make this as short as possible.

Some background info : Fairly goodlooking guy, introvert, 23 years old, limited experience with women, kinda gave up on women for a while but looking to get back on track.

Case :

My sister is ''messing around' with this guy, lets call him Carl. Carl has a sister in law, let's call her Julia ( HB 7,cute body ).

Sister told me that Julia saw my facebook profile and thought I was cute / hot. I was abroad at that time, I go to school abroad, so I didn't really give it much attention.

Now I'm at home for an internship of 5 months. One saturday night I was at home, and Julia drove my sister back home. Sister comes in , and tells me that Julia wants to meet me in person, so I go outside and introduce myself. Not really much talking, and then I say goodbye and she drives off.

Few days later : Sister tells me : " Julia told me she liked you ". Again, I do not care a whole lot, but after a few days I get her MSN from my sister and add her, not expecting anything.

I see her online one day, and start talking to her. Casual light hearted conversation. Then she asks me for a pic, I send one to her. Julia tells me something along the lines of :" Your a really goodlooking guy seriously, if I didn't have a boyfriend we could've hooked up."

Hmm, didn't really care about her after that. Few days pass, and I start wondering about what she said ( Your a really goodlooking guy, if I didn't have a boyfriend we could've hooked up." )

This has a hidden message, and I translate it as follows : You can f*ck me if you want, but remember, I have a boyfriend.

Am I right ? I have a strong desire to f*ck her, can't lie about that. How should I go on about this ?
 

terran2k

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if you had a g/f, would you have mentioned it to her before she told you she had a b/f?
 

SandHawk

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She wants you to tap her ass. Giving you the line "IF I didn't have a boyfriend..." usually means, I'm up for it, but since I don't want to deal with the guilt of cheating on his ass, I want you to escalate it so I can pretend it's your fault.

This is how women work in many ways. She gave you a free pass, I'd take it if you're not bothered by having her cheat or potentially ruin their relationship. But remember, keep her for sex only. A girl like this is not girlfriend material, as she would cheat on your ass the moment she would run into a better offer.
 

terran2k

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^--- and yet another possiblity. act as if she does want to f your brains out I suppose.
 

Ease

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She wants to get fudged bad.

Be aggresive and persistant and ignore any resistances from her and proceed to fudge.
 

WC2

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She's sending out all the signs.

You're just getting into the game and you've practically been thrown a freebie that could boost your confidence ten-fold.

Next time you see her, pursue her. Don't pursue her in a serious way.. pursue her in a jokingly sexual way.

If you fail, worst comes to worst you stop talking to her.
However if you succeed, you're going to feel extremely good about yourself.
 
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