Maxfarsigth
Don Juan
SS is Gold indeed!
My story is pretty simple: I was/am a totall AFC, had NO CONFIDENCE. Always ended up with ONEITISS. And always wanted TO PLEASE PEOPLE, specially GIRLS. I knew my time was precious and I was giving it all away to girls who didnt apreciate it.
So I found SS. I read all the bibble and basic material. I started applying it a bit and stuff kinda started hitting. I ONLY LEARNED WHEN I TOOK THE LESSONS TO THE STREET, because I was actually feeling how girls where responding. I COULD FEEL my skin, the real change.
There where maaaany downs and failures, and are still going to be there. Waiting for me to take me down. But I just stand up, shake em off, and Move ON!
The reason why I say SS has helped me so much Its because what is said here IS REAL! I thought girls thinked and behaved diferently all my life and NOW I COMPARE whats said in SS and its WHAT HAPPENS in the street.
NOW IM HAPPIER and FEEL much BETTER. But for all that good stuff to happen. I have HAD to follow some RULES.
I encourage everyone to check this out. By following this rules we could build such a great board. We could build a spiral of positivity that helps us all in owr way to become BETTER MEN!
1. Before you post any situation, think of what the bibble says. "Hum... what would have Pook done?..." have a position about it. Then listen to others.
2. Its not about over analysing. Its about doing what you want, when you want! (and of course, IT IS BEST for you acting manly. It really pays in the future).
3. Once I read (and ill try to find the writter): "LIFE IS LIFE!!! ... but its just life". that means that you must take things very seriusly and live like theres no tomorrow BUT NOTHING is such a biiiig deal, everything can be repaired and you can allways stand up and keep figthing.
4. It is important to find a perspetive of what someone is replying. If you ask for advice, dont just block someones words because it was a little harsh. TRY TO LEARN SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Also, youll start noticing members who give best advice. In fact, youll notice people that think the way you do. (Or think the way you WANT to think - for example.. I want to think a bit the way POOK does).
5. You are taking someones time. So dont complain if you dont recieve the feedback you want. Dont complain for the advice given. HELL! dont complain if you are being called an AFC or a PVSSY or wahtever. Because maybe there is a good reason why you are being called like that and there is something you are missing.
6. This cant be stressed enough: READ THE BIBBLE. Id also recommend a lot: READ THE BOOK OF POOK.
7. If you cant find a specific practical tip, for example: "If she says A, you must do B or either C blahblah..." Try to figure the essence of a TIP. MOST of the time it is more important to understand a Scenario and assume a MINDSET rather than just executing a very specific action. IT WILL GIVE YOU YOUR OWN CHOICES.
8. POSTERS: posting just 3 letters ..."AFC". Is not that bad for reassons stated above. But insulting someone is dumb. Im pretty sure no matter how deeply AFC some is, no matter how screwed his head is. THE CASE IS HELPABLE. YUp! Offcurse, the AFC HAS GOT to help himself!!
9. WE ARE MEN. WE ARE ADULTS. WE ARE GENTLEMENT. No matter if you are an AFC or a DJ. No matter if you are 15 or 75. BEHAVE! and assume your position.
10. Nobody should get stuck on anything! If you feel you are in a hole and theres no exit. MOVE ON!. I KNOW, Its hard to quit that beautiful girl. But it is important to understand that in order to grow, progress and MAN UP; ONE must always be abandoning the CONFOR ZONE.
LOOK, this is my way of helping.
IM NO BIG DJ. In fact I know I have so much to learn and do. I consider myself an AFC. So I have no tips on DJ. BUT i DO HAVE TIPS ON HOW TO GET OUT OF AFCland.
To end this I would like to say.
SOSUAVE: THANKYOU SO MUCH.
Great guys! Great comunity!
Even with your silence in my "help me" treaths I have learned stuff.
(Silence in a thread means... NO BIG DEAL!, MOVE ONE, theres people in worst situations).
So fellow MEN. Lets all help building that POSITIVE SPIRAL.
We must continue owr route: MANHOOD, for that is the only path for real happines!!
My story is pretty simple: I was/am a totall AFC, had NO CONFIDENCE. Always ended up with ONEITISS. And always wanted TO PLEASE PEOPLE, specially GIRLS. I knew my time was precious and I was giving it all away to girls who didnt apreciate it.
So I found SS. I read all the bibble and basic material. I started applying it a bit and stuff kinda started hitting. I ONLY LEARNED WHEN I TOOK THE LESSONS TO THE STREET, because I was actually feeling how girls where responding. I COULD FEEL my skin, the real change.
There where maaaany downs and failures, and are still going to be there. Waiting for me to take me down. But I just stand up, shake em off, and Move ON!
The reason why I say SS has helped me so much Its because what is said here IS REAL! I thought girls thinked and behaved diferently all my life and NOW I COMPARE whats said in SS and its WHAT HAPPENS in the street.
NOW IM HAPPIER and FEEL much BETTER. But for all that good stuff to happen. I have HAD to follow some RULES.
I encourage everyone to check this out. By following this rules we could build such a great board. We could build a spiral of positivity that helps us all in owr way to become BETTER MEN!
1. Before you post any situation, think of what the bibble says. "Hum... what would have Pook done?..." have a position about it. Then listen to others.
2. Its not about over analysing. Its about doing what you want, when you want! (and of course, IT IS BEST for you acting manly. It really pays in the future).
3. Once I read (and ill try to find the writter): "LIFE IS LIFE!!! ... but its just life". that means that you must take things very seriusly and live like theres no tomorrow BUT NOTHING is such a biiiig deal, everything can be repaired and you can allways stand up and keep figthing.
4. It is important to find a perspetive of what someone is replying. If you ask for advice, dont just block someones words because it was a little harsh. TRY TO LEARN SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Also, youll start noticing members who give best advice. In fact, youll notice people that think the way you do. (Or think the way you WANT to think - for example.. I want to think a bit the way POOK does).
5. You are taking someones time. So dont complain if you dont recieve the feedback you want. Dont complain for the advice given. HELL! dont complain if you are being called an AFC or a PVSSY or wahtever. Because maybe there is a good reason why you are being called like that and there is something you are missing.
6. This cant be stressed enough: READ THE BIBBLE. Id also recommend a lot: READ THE BOOK OF POOK.
7. If you cant find a specific practical tip, for example: "If she says A, you must do B or either C blahblah..." Try to figure the essence of a TIP. MOST of the time it is more important to understand a Scenario and assume a MINDSET rather than just executing a very specific action. IT WILL GIVE YOU YOUR OWN CHOICES.
8. POSTERS: posting just 3 letters ..."AFC". Is not that bad for reassons stated above. But insulting someone is dumb. Im pretty sure no matter how deeply AFC some is, no matter how screwed his head is. THE CASE IS HELPABLE. YUp! Offcurse, the AFC HAS GOT to help himself!!
9. WE ARE MEN. WE ARE ADULTS. WE ARE GENTLEMENT. No matter if you are an AFC or a DJ. No matter if you are 15 or 75. BEHAVE! and assume your position.
10. Nobody should get stuck on anything! If you feel you are in a hole and theres no exit. MOVE ON!. I KNOW, Its hard to quit that beautiful girl. But it is important to understand that in order to grow, progress and MAN UP; ONE must always be abandoning the CONFOR ZONE.
LOOK, this is my way of helping.
IM NO BIG DJ. In fact I know I have so much to learn and do. I consider myself an AFC. So I have no tips on DJ. BUT i DO HAVE TIPS ON HOW TO GET OUT OF AFCland.
To end this I would like to say.
SOSUAVE: THANKYOU SO MUCH.
Great guys! Great comunity!
Even with your silence in my "help me" treaths I have learned stuff.
(Silence in a thread means... NO BIG DEAL!, MOVE ONE, theres people in worst situations).
So fellow MEN. Lets all help building that POSITIVE SPIRAL.
We must continue owr route: MANHOOD, for that is the only path for real happines!!
